age difference Options

[babexdragon]

wat is the biggest age difference should their be between guy and girl? personally i think 3 years but 16 and 19 is a lot... hmm

[inlonelinessidie]

I don't think it really matters, unless the guy respects you and vice-versa age shouldn't have anything to do with it.

[baybietenshi]

age is nothing but a #. heard of that? buttttttttt.....(yes, there's always a but) they should both be under 18...or both over 18...yup yup

[stupidityhurts]

3 years seems aite. considering the relationship between jane eyre and mr. rochester.

[DisneyPrincessKa...]

It depends on their age and maturity. I think that when a senior dates a freshmen it's sick. But when your older age isn't as big of a deal.

[SarahxJoy]

Unless it really bothers the two in the relationship, then I don't think anyone else should butt in, in it. So it depends on the couple.

[dani41790]

erm im not sure. i guess 3 is ok but wen ur older and ur in ur 20's i guess 6-8 is ok idk...

[jarnifer]

up to 8-9 years...? OLDER only!

[babixlilac]

fo me i dink da most is 3-4 yrs older or 1-2 yrs younger

[whywasisostupid]

2 years.... but then love doesnt care how old u r

[LiNHy POO]

for me its only 4 years... its not that bad really...

[emrzz09]

Age is but a number.

[x hYpErRoSeY x]

i think it depends on the people- i mean i dont think it should matter too much cuz its just a number isnt it?

[f0revrl0st]

call me crazy, but i think 10..thats how much older my dad is than my mom...

[babexdragon]

haha sayin age is just a number is really easy but so many things go against it. being 15 and ur bf is 18 , thats against the law.. stupid laws.. friends are against it, college and high school... sigh

[gasolinekisses]

16 and 19 aren't that much. most people are mature enough by 16 to handle that. i was.

[Caitlin]

it all depends on the people and how mature they are..as you get older the difference dosent seem like much

[babexdragon]

yea i noe wen ur in like ur twenties it isnt that much but wen ur in high school, it is a lot

also parents were all set against it

[xBitterxSweetx]

call me crazy, but i think 10..thats how much older my dad is than my mom...

same here. i think it all depends if you're older or not. because i mean if you're a boy and you're 18 years old and you date a girl that's 8.. thats just wrong. but if it's like 20 and 30. then that's ok.

[NgocQuyen]

same here. i think it all depends if you're older or not. because i mean if you're a boy and you're 18 years old and you date a girl that's 8.. thats just wrong. but if it's like 20 and 30. then that's ok.

lols...yepps...thas kinda how i feel...i dont think we should even be dating at 11 and crapp...cuz like shiz...you're really not mature enough to really know whats goinz on....lols...anywho0...but sometimes...age really is nothing but a number...lols...it all depends really x]

x33 QuyEnNiEe

[NawtyLilAznChic]

ehh age doesnt matta ta me...my 2nd ex was 21 n im 16, as long as tha younger one in tha relationship is at least lyk 15?

[JessJR1022]

It depends on their age and maturity. I think that when a senior dates a freshmen it's sick. But when your older age isn't as big of a deal.

def when a person is older it's more ok, but when they are younger and below 18.... doesn't seem kinda right...petaphile-ish... but I wouldn't want that big of an age difference...one will be all old and wrinkly and cannot do anything and you could still be active and ready to do stufff

[laur3nw]

umm i think 3 is good

[ikayto]

ummmmmmmmm 2-3 years is cool..........but u guys are saying age doesnt matter...so you are saying its perfectly right for a 40 year old man to be with a 12 year old girl...............HA

[Archana]

well, i wouldnt know, but i'd say 3 is good. but when you get older, like around 20's.. i dont think it matters. just the way i see it. the age is when your a teenager, but when you're older, when i see a person, i dont look for an age difference. -shrug-

[islandkiss]

hmm between 1-3 yrs is fine

[NawtyLilAznChic]

ummmmmmmmm 2-3 years is cool..........but u guys are saying age doesnt matter...so you are saying its perfectly right for a 40 year old man to be with a 12 year old girl...............HA

i dont mean that lyk that lyk sumthin reasonable...not sumone who's old enuff ta b tha othas parent

[t1n@paY]

well my relationship with muh gurl is 5 years apart... it's about respect frm both sides... Also the maturity matters... I dnt plan to touch her until she hits the ryt age.... I knw you guys are gonna be hella pissed about this... buh as long as you love each other.... daz all that matters....

Do you care about wot other people say about you and your special one? If you do, then your relationship is about other people not you and that person...

[unf0rsak3n]

that stuff shouldn't matter.

[unf0rsak3n]

age doesn't matter. but of course, when an outsider looks in, it might look a at least a little gresome. of course, i'm talking about a 5o year old and some teenager

[kenekila]

i don't think age matters at all..

[joanna0304]

i don't think age matters at all..

ditto

[NawtyLilAznChic]

buh as long as you love each other.... daz all that matters....

aww thas swt

[Joo_Hoodles]

Thats true, as long as u love eachother it shouldnt matter. But around the teens and the early 20s, 3 years is the max until people start saying "wow he/shes old, or damn he/shes really young). But as you get older the acceptable age difference seems to grow.

[Mireh]

3 years isn't a lot...

but look at it this way. A 12 year old girl going out with a 15 year old guy...

*shiver*

When your younger (like...under 20) its best to stick to people around your age, or perhaps even a year older.

When your over 20, it doesn't matter.

True love doesn't have limitations

[uT oH iiTs sTePh]

age is yet but a number

[mouse_3k]

Age is just a number...


BUT i think where the line is crossed if someone young goes out with someone who has white hair (alot),has wrinkles,too much body hair, and/or is saggy.

[sheddingtears]

yeah 3's okay, 2 is better. that gap for teenagers doesn't seem right tho. when you're older like 30 or 25 or something, I find that the gap is nothing.

[iTs eMiLeE]

me- only 2 years lol

[01BEBE]

well, when your around my age [which would be 13], if the guy's a LOT older, people kinda think he's using you. Most people i know and myself don't think thats true though. If the girl's way older, than it's jsut kinda scary to some people. But it really doesn't matter does it? Love is love and age is nothing but a number. it shuoldnt matter; people make such big deals out of this stuff! But anyhoo, if the guys like WAY older, as in lets say you're 13, and that guys 20. then it's jsut wrong. that guys obviosuly a pedifile or something. When you're older 10 years is still quite a bit.. but it's okay still..

[literemix24]

age shouldn't rele matter..lol..buh i sorta think like maybe from 1-3 or something is aiite...buh age shouldn't rele be the thing..you do waht you want..and don't let anything get to you..

[xsweetdreams12x]

age is nothing but a #. heard of that? buttttttttt.....(yes, there's always a but) they should both be under 18...or both over 18...yup yup

I totally agree...

But in I think Seventeen I heard of this 16 year old a 21 year old. I'm not sure if that was the exact ages, but I know that it was a big difference.

[cutielilsuga]

at least 4 years difference is good because if it is more then 4 years then it is going to be hard to keep the relationship alive if the girl/guy is below 18 years of age

[LatinaLady]

i say that going from five years and more is alot. maybe if they are both old enoguh past 20 then its ok.

[oOjenniOo]

when your young like in highschool three years is ALOT

but once your in college, its nothing

[swtpumkinpie]

me and my boyfriend has a three year gap. personally i think that if the people are older (30+) then they can date someone up to ten years. if you're under 30 then you should date someone 5 or less years apart.

[xjjajeengx]

moving to relationships... i peronsally say 3 years max.

[sandra]

i prefer guys same age or older max 5 years. i dont really like the idea of going for guys younger

[*FreeStickers*]

I'll say 4 years cause that's how much older my boyfriend is than me. My dad is 6 or 7 years older than my mom.

[FrUiTy TuTie]

my dad it 49.. he remarried a 30 year old lady.. whenever i go somewhere with her ppl ask me if shes my sister.. sometimes i just laugh about it but i really dont no wut to say bout it

[Foolish Heart]

Doesnt really matter,

"it's all about the love." -My ex boyfriend.

[soulovely]

haha sayin age is just a number is really easy but so many things go against it. being 15 and ur bf is 18 , thats against the law.. stupid laws.. friends are against it, college and high school... sigh

i attend a school which we are concurrently enrolled at a college and we attend the high school inside the college campus (junior college/city college) i meet college guys all the time since freshmen year. it's nothing really to me. i've been with someone older than i am.. 4 years is the oldest. my first boyfriend was 17 when i was 14 the he turned 18 while we were still together. the oldest was when i was 15... and he was 19. i learned in my law & justice course with the college that it isn't against the law if you're boyfriend/girlfriend... if you have sex is when you're going against the law. and i'm still a virgin as of now... i'm 17 by the way.

[sheepy]

ums like 2 -3?

[sadolakced acid]

2 years in high school, 3 in college, after that, just make it reasonable.

[inycskathy]

2 years.... but then love doesnt care how old u r

hmm.. i agree with her :]

[BoyCrazyGal]

i'm 15....and i think think it'd b okay for me to go out w/ a senior....but nothing older than that! and i'm a sophmore! so...yah...3 years is good!

[wHoOt_Iz_DeZzy]

ehh... i think it does depend on the people... but also... you have to think of why that person is going out with someone so much younger... like for Ex. a 20 year old wanting to go out with a 13 year old... age is nothing but a number?... thats a lie... cuz if you have to lie about his age to your family or friends.. than theres something wrong... 4 years should be the max... unless if you're an adult... thats a whole other story

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Eh... it depends on the maturity level i guess.... I'm 16... the oldest i would go for is prob 20... BUT if i were to meet a guy that were older than that, and i kinda liked him, then i don't think i'd care how old he'd be.... uunless of course he were like... 30

[Darkpekkle]

2 years in high school, 3 in college, after that, just make it reasonable.

^ that sounds good... lols.

When you're younger, the age difference should be a lot less, unless if you want to be considered a pedophile. When you get older (20+), the age gap can be wider.

[slurp]

i think 5 years is my maximum

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

personally, age does matter in certain things. it's kinda hard to explain but for me, it has been an emotional rollercoster. ma x was 5 yrs younger than me. and boy were there some sticky situations we had to go thru!! anyway, tat's ma part. i dun know abt ya guys. maybe ya guys were better off than mine!!

CHEERS CB!!

[strwbrryluv8]

for me... i dont really care...
my parents r like 7 years apart... ... i think... ahaha...

ive had a bF that was 2 years older than me...
as long as u can tell that he REALLY cares about u... then daz good...

[babieshortie]

duznt matter
as long as he respects u for ur age..
nd duznt want any advantages out of it..

[always_n0vember]

I don't think it really matters, unless the guy respects you and vice-versa age shouldn't have anything to do with it.

I do agree!!! Age aint nothing but a freakin number... 3 years is nothing... im 19 (20 in november) and my man is 23 (today is his birthday) so yeah... it doesnt matter...