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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
this thread is for us to talk about all the dumbass things women do in our relationships with them.
i'll start us off. in case you didn't know, i can't stand how girls get pissed off if you aren't READING THEIR f*ckING MIND |
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i hate when they use their teeth
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
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![]() ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 ![]() |
i hate when they expect me to drive 2 hours back home every weekend. does she know how much time and money i have to spend? i mean EVERY WEEKEND? can't i stay at my place for at least once, so i can pick up more work shift hours to get money. then they yell at you for not caring enough. if i didn't care, i wouldn't be willing to do a long distance relationship .
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
yeah becasue doing something 50 times in a row, and then missing it once equals not caring. i would give guys advice to never start "routines" because you'll NEVER be able to stop most likely. if you do something nice 5+ times in a row, then you're done, can't stop doing it anymore or else there will be a chance that all hell will break loose. this is true ![]() |
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i agree LOL
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![]() Live long and prosper. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 ![]() |
theres a difference between being nibbling the nipple and clamping down on it like a f*cking raisin.
If you are reading this Shelly my boobs dont miss you... Oh and the 50 times some girls feel the need to call within a hour or even a day.. just to say "hi" and/or "just wondering what your thinking about....." like its f*cking cute....YOU ARE RUNNING UP MY PHONE BILL WHEN YOU CALL ME BEFORE 7 WITH THIS SHIT. and then even when you try to avoid it they will trick you by thinking its an emergency and call 50 times leaving urgent messages which turn out to be nothing.... IF YOU DID THAT TO 911 YOU WOULD BE ARRESTED. man i can go on... |
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yeah, you tell me what's wrong about me after telling me that all i do is make you feel like crap in our arguments. way to be the better person.
also, i hate how you can never make up your damn mind. i'm not going to keep deciding shit for you. do it on your own. good thread. |
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![]() Drank wit your boy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 ![]() |
I hate how when you cool with her talking to dudes, she gets upset the second you look at another female.
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I love how if you says she looks fat she gets upset, but when you say she looks fine she says she looks fat. BITCH WHAT THE f*ck DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!
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![]() Live long and prosper. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 ![]() |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
also, i hate how you can never make up your damn mind. i'm not going to keep deciding shit for you. do it on your own. i used to actually put thought into my answers, but after a few years i realized it doesn't matter. she already knows the answer to her own question. something along these lines is a good example her: what do you want on our pizza me: whatever you want her: no help me decide me: i want what you want her: i'm asking you! me: ok i want chicken, pepperoni, and mushrooms her: wouldn't you rather have mushrooms and olives instead me: of course, that's exactly what i meant see it doesn't matter what i say. she obviously wanted mushrooms and olives to begin with. I hate how when you cool with her talking to dudes, she gets upset the second you look at another female. i don't have this problem, but in general i notice a lot of people do. in general, women are crazy like this. they have no sense of perspective at all. they love to bitch at you for one thing and turn around and do it themselves. they think they're the exception to every rule. if you point this out, then you're trying to "weasel" your way out of the situation or they say " don't even try to turn this around on me!" I love how if you says she looks fat she gets upset, but when you say she looks fine she says she looks fat. BITCH WHAT THE f*ck DO YOU WANT FROM ME?! i have that problem sometimes too. her: do i look good? me: yeah her: WHAT, NO I DON'T, THIS LOOKS AWFUL. you're just trying to say what i want to hear. me: oh ok, you look like shit right now her: i can't believe you said that |
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Well knowing that 15% of women in America cheat... it is almost inevitable. And with that little fact in mind, I recommend all the males in this forum to find a foreign woman. Who will treat you much better (like a king) and will obey you, the way it should be.
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
oh you don't think you need game, homie you better have it cause women cheat like men, only they better at it |
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Proven that women are becoming more likely to cheat on their men: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/
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Well knowing that 15% of women in America cheat... it is almost inevitable. And with that little fact in mind, I recommend all the males in this forum to find a foreign woman. Who will treat you much better (like a king) and will obey you, the way it should be. mmhmm, because 15 is a lot compared to 85.![]() |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
bitching at women aside, i don't think the word "obey" should be used in regards to a relationship
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i used to actually put thought into my answers, but after a few years i realized it doesn't matter. she already knows the answer to her own question. something along these lines is a good example her: what do you want on our pizza me: whatever you want her: no help me decide me: i want what you want her: i'm asking you! me: ok i want chicken, pepperoni, and mushrooms her: wouldn't you rather have mushrooms and olives instead me: of course, that's exactly what i meant see it doesn't matter what i say. she obviously wanted mushrooms and olives to begin with. i don't have this problem, but in general i notice a lot of people do. in general, women are crazy like this. they have no sense of perspective at all. they love to bitch at you for one thing and turn around and do it themselves. they think they're the exception to every rule. if you point this out, then you're trying to "weasel" your way out of the situation or they say " don't even try to turn this around on me!" i have that problem sometimes too. her: do i look good? me: yeah her: WHAT, NO I DON'T, THIS LOOKS AWFUL. you're just trying to say what i want to hear. me: oh ok, you look like shit right now her: i can't believe you said that So very true. My girl is guilty on both of these. Although, it's less of the "I look fat" problem, and more of the "don't turn this around on me" problem. I hate how she gets my hopes up, then takes them away almost immeadiately. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
wtf are you talking about
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![]() Live long and prosper. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 ![]() |
That's too bad, White Knight ![]() Are you referring to the concept of white knighting? http://encyclopediadramatica.com/White_knighting Or is that just you being random? |
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JC, you forgot the "I'm on my period" excuse for over-the-top bitching.
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
@ diana i have no clue what a white knight is. or why i'm being called one because i don't want my girlfriend to obey me like a dog. JC, you forgot the "I'm on my period" excuse for over-the-top bitching. oh yeah my favorite excuse. women are supposed to be excused from their bitchiness for that week or so, and then the other three weeks of the month they are supposed to be excused becasue of PMS. just whatever is most convenient at the time. |
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Oh, I've got one...
When you actually put yourself out there and trust women, but in turn, they get all insecure and assume that there's something wrong with you being so trusting. So they somehow f*ck it up by breaking things off or hooking up with someone else. Dames. *smh |
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![]() Tick tock, Bill ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 ![]() |
Well knowing that 15% of women in America cheat... it is almost inevitable. And with that little fact in mind, I recommend all the males in this forum to find a foreign woman. Who will treat you much better (like a king) and will obey you, the way it should be. ![]() Really? http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html Seems to me that overall, men have a higher percentage of cheating. OHSHIT. That might have been an annoying, woman arguing for the sake of arguing! lol@"obeying" |
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![]() Live long and prosper. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 ![]() |
Oh, I've got one... When you actually put yourself out there and trust women, but in turn, they get all insecure and assume that there's something wrong with you being so trusting. So they somehow f*ck it up by breaking things off or hooking up with someone else. Dames. *smh wth im like one of the few who wouldn't do that. I would find it so sweet that theres a man who actually puts himself out there and trusts me. women are stupid. Really? http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html Seems to me that overall, men have a higher percentage of cheating. OHSHIT. That might have been an annoying, woman arguing for the sake of arguing! lol@"obeying" Woman you are on a roll this week :p happy monday |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
true, women love to argue fir no reason. my girlfriend has the same problem as me where she feels the need to debate at every opportunity. so you guys can imagine what a our relationship is like. the problem with women though is that they have a short memory. they forget that we are arguing for no reason, and always find something in there to get offended at. then they start arguing for a reason, but nobody tells us guys. so since we can't read minds then we don't realize the argument has changed and keep thinking we're not really arguing over anything. THEN we get in trouble for not taking things serious.
true story |
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![]() Tick tock, Bill ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 ![]() |
^ True, but sometimes arguing leads to good sex. Not that it's an excuse...
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Really? http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html Seems to me that overall, men have a higher percentage of cheating. OHSHIT. That might have been an annoying, woman arguing for the sake of arguing! lol@"obeying" Erm... anyways, my point was that the percentage of women cheating is rising. I'm not trying to compare men to women as we all know majority.. ya, majority, of men in the U.S. do in fact cheat. That's nothing new, sweety. |
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![]() Tick tock, Bill ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 ![]() |
Ick@sweety lol
I was pointing out something else, in response to what you were posting and then stated the arguing thing, silly. :p |
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I hate dating. There is that point in a budding relationship where two people really aren't together, and the guy is just there... waiting. He's patient, but he gets discouraged. The girl is indecisive and sends mixed signals. Eventually, it inevitably crashes and burns because no real commitment was made.
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![]() Tick tock, Bill ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 ![]() |
^ That can be a two street though. Women can definitely be indecisive, but some of that stems from self-doubt and insecurity. These things get better with age (for the most part).
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
of course. women need their own thread for that though.
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![]() Tick tock, Bill ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 ![]() |
Oh hush. It's funny and you know it. The sentence structure + that smilie is totally Prince. :p
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Oh hush. It's funny and you know it. The sentence structure + that smilie is totally Prince. :p Excuse me, let me try it again: Anna, perhaps you should make a thread about how men 'f*ck up' relationships. You'd probably have better results since females drastically outnumber the males on cB. ^_^ |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
Women can't control their urge to bitch.
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LOL, wow.
This thread is quite true. |
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Women can't control their urge to bitch. Me: I'm not sure if you wanted chicken or steak. Your phone was off so I got grilled chicken. Ex: Why? Because you have to be the man and eat steak? Me: Um, what? Ex: I swear, men get on my nerves so much. Everything men do is an insult to women. Me: You lost me. Ex: Of course I did because men never understand a woman's needs. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
Me: I'm not sure if you wanted chicken or steak. Your phone was off so I got grilled chicken. Ex: Why? Because you have to be the man and eat steak? Me: Um, what? Ex: I swear, men get on my nerves so much. Everything men do is an insult to women. Me: You lost me. Ex: Of course I did because men never understand a woman's needs. i'm right behind you on this. i had a similar situation a few weeks ago. my girlfriend wanted to buy some of those cheap ass shelves that you put together yourself to put in our closet. i said that i didn't want to buy them because A) we don't really need more, and B) i didn't want to put them together. of course, since women are constantly on the lookout for a reason to bitch, she jumped all over that last statement. "what makes you assume i can't put it together myself?" i told her that i wasn't assuming she couldn't, i was assuming she wouldn't. this pissed her off too. why? because like i already said, women have short term memory problems. i don't know why it would be shocking that i would assume i would put it together. maybe because i put up our other shelves that are in the closet already, or becuase i put together our bed frame, or becuase i installed the shelves in the garage...you know, because i've put together everything else we have in our house basically. women always pretend like if we make an assumption, we have no logical reason for making it. of course that ended just like i figured it would. we bought the shelves, and not only were they shitty quality, i ended up putting them together in the end. |
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Me: I'm not sure if you wanted chicken or steak. Your phone was off so I got grilled chicken. Ex: Why? Because you have to be the man and eat steak? Me: Um, what? Ex: I swear, men get on my nerves so much. Everything men do is an insult to women. Me: You lost me. Ex: Of course I did because men never understand a woman's needs. I would just be glad that he thought of me when he was famished and grilling food ![]() I'm guilty of saying "Whatever you want" all the time. My friends, my mom, my brothers... they all will ask me for my opinion on something and I'll tell them whatever they want is fine. Then I'll change my mind. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
stop this nonsense right now
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
women don't let things go. quoting for truth
Men are afraid that women will take that, run with it, and never let it go. Ex: Why were you such a jealous ass to that guy?! He doesn't even like me. Me: He was all over you! Ex: ***hole, he's my cousin!!! Me: Damn, I'm sorry, I really am. ... Me: Are we still hanging out with your friends from work? Ex: No because you might get all jealous like you did that one time? Me: What one time? Ex: That one time when I ran into my cousin at Club 210 and you freaked out because of him picking me up. Me: That was last year. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
But really though, why is there a need to fight? I can't imagine being so worked up over a boyfriend doing/not doing something. So what?! hey don't ask us, ask your gender peers, they're crazy. My point exactly. Any disagreement can be settled through communicating like sane, civil, human beings. for real, why do most women not understand this? so simple. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
lol no
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
quoting from rebeccas quote in the how men f*ck up relationships thread. i took the liberty to highlight in red all the ones that women are guilty of doing too much.
QUOTE Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship: * Control everything and everyone * Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong * Make it a habit to spend more money than you have * Win every fight, even the ones you couldnt care less about * Keep score * Use threat often * Find your partners weak spot and use it against him/her * When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts * Hold fast to the belief: If you loved me you would know what I want * Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs * Use silence as a weapon * Pretend that you dont hear * When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints * Refuse to give information * When you realize you havent given your partner some important info, insist that you did * Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship * Never ask for help * Confide only in friends * Take it personally when your partner wants time alone * Discount your partners physical complaints * Give advice where it isnt welcome * Never pick up after yourself * Refuse to seek help for your depression * Refuse to talk * Focus on changing your partner * Focus all your needs on sex * Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work * Put your friends before your partner * Keep romantic gestures to a minimum * Focus on your partners faults and deny your own * Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture * Practice verbal abuse * Do not listen to your partners ideas or suggestions * Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE * Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted * Let disagreements fester * Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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win.
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i'm not
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But really though, why is there a need to fight? I can't imagine being so worked up over a boyfriend doing/not doing something. So what?! I love my family, but sometimes they just do things that get on my nerves or start up a habit that bothers me. I'm usually a very calm person and while I'll bicker with them, I won't fight or yell. The same goes for a guy. |
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i've been with a girl. i hated how she talked about her ex's too god damn much. and used that on our fights. lol, we'd have fights where we'd see who hurt who more, it was so immature and ugh, i hated it. we called it a game. we got so vicious. we talked about our past partners and what we did before we got together. it's stupid!! don't do it. just ends up in tears.
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Girls fuss over petty things and retaliate no matter how stupid the matter is.
Case in point: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=228907 |
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the women's thread sucks compared to ours. wonder why
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^ Because women would rather bitch to someone face-to-face than bitch online without the other person's knowing.
And yes, you boys are bitching right now. Dunno if not doing it to her face makes you any better. ;) Why not just stop complaining and try to solve the problem? We girls bitch a lot but if you try, we'll listen...if you're going to complain about lack of communication then at least try communicating first, right? |
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i don't have any communication problems with my girlfriend. this thread isn't about being serious, bitching and exaggerating is the point
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^ Nah I'm not hating on the thread, I know it's for lighthearted bitchery (which is why I joined in the conversation with some non-serious bitching myself, at least in the first bit). Just makes me laugh that you guys are complaining so vigorously in a similar manner that women do
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^ Nah I'm not hating on the thread, I know it's for lighthearted bitchery (which is why I joined in the conversation with some non-serious bitching myself, at least in the first bit). Just makes me laugh that you guys are complaining so vigorously in a similar manner that women do ![]() I would post that in the women's thread in order to avoid this but 1) The thread is lame and 2) You guys read and dominate that one too. LOL yeah you better not be hating on this thread homie ![]() yeah the irony of us bitching about them bitching was why i originally wanted the thread. plus for genuine relief too. no doubt the guys know what each other are talking about cause girls really are crazy half the time. i wanted the girls to make one that didn't suck, but that hasn't happened yet. you guys needa get on this. I would post that in the women's thread in order to avoid this but 1) The thread is lame and 2) You guys read and dominate that one too. LOL we know this ![]() Because if you give a girl a black eye for not cooking your food on time, you get sent to jail. How's a man supposed to put his bitch in her place if the laws are rigged against us? Fight on, Chris Brown. another example of how sexist the world is towards us guys, smh. |
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all girls are insane, you just don't realize it.
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From Oscar Wilde's The Picture of Dorian Gray, haha:
QUOTE 'Always! That is a dreadful word. It makes me shudder when I hear it. Women are so fond of using it. They spoil every romance by trying to make it last for ever. It is a meaningless word, too. The only difference between a caprice and a lifelong passion is that the caprice lasts a little longer.'
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I will kill myself, the day a woman takes control of my country.
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why
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I plea the 5th.
Actually.. no no I'll add this. Remember that crazy bitch, Sarah Palin? Do you know she wanted us to get involved with Russia... on a military level? In other words, she personally feels threatened by Russia, even though Russia isn't doing anything other than minding its own damn business and tryin to become a super nation like it once was, yet this crazy ass bitch thinks they're gonna come over sea and take over Alaska. Women are too f*ckin emotional for politics. Look at that stupid bitch Nancy Pelosi. /reasoning |
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that's extremely stupid then. sarah palin is too stupid to run the country, i agree with that, but that has no relevance on every other woman. same as nancy pelosi. what they do has nothing to do with whether a woman in general could run the country. there's much more intelligent SANE women out there than nancy pelosi or sarah palin.
i'm not gonna be killing myself if a woman runs the country. i'm not gonna be killing myself if anyone does though. |
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Nah man... I'm sorry, when that time of the month kicks in... they don't think straight. If the woman is on an early menopause, but like 5 years AFTER they've been through menopause, then by all means give it a shot. If they're still bleeding, I ain't believing, homie.
Sorry to offend any females here... but 10 years of experiencing women, I'll stick to my guns when I say a female leader is a dangerous leader. Plus they tend to be too liberal for my taste anyways. With that said, that's all I have to say in regards to women and politics on this thread ![]() |
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LOL... you're joking right? Just because a woman bleeds doesn't mean she gets PMS and if she gets PMS that doesn't mean she sucks at politics. Besides, this thread is about women that have been or are in your life not women who have been or are in politics.
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With that said, that's all I have to say in regards to women and politics on this thread ![]() LOL... you're joking right? Just because a woman bleeds doesn't mean she gets PMS and if she gets PMS that doesn't mean she sucks at politics. Besides, this thread is about women that have been or are in your life not women who have been or are in politics.
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true, women love to argue fir no reason. my girlfriend has the same problem as me where she feels the need to debate at every opportunity. so you guys can imagine what a our relationship is like. the problem with women though is that they have a short memory. they forget that we are arguing for no reason, and always find something in there to get offended at. then they start arguing for a reason, but nobody tells us guys. so since we can't read minds then we don't realize the argument has changed and keep thinking we're not really arguing over anything. THEN we get in trouble for not taking things serious. true story my sister and her boyfriend are like that. but it's much worse 'cause they're both plain dumb in general. they start arguing over something so ridiculous and turns into a huge fight. there's yelling and slamming doors. so annoying. plus my sister doesn't know when to shut up and her boyfriend likes to push her buttons and then wonders why she's mad. *smh I hate dating. There is that point in a budding relationship where two people really aren't together, and the guy is just there... waiting. He's patient, but he gets discouraged. The girl is indecisive and sends mixed signals. Eventually, it inevitably crashes and burns because no real commitment was made. i don't like dating either. i have a problem with not being open with my emotions. i need for things to be open on another level before i can be completely emotional with a guy. it's hard to explain. but it usually ends up with a huge distance and it ends. i'll admit that it's my fault but i can't seem to help it. My point exactly. Any disagreement can be settled through communicating like sane, civil, human beings. i don't like arguing and i don't see the point in it either. if i get in an arguement that seems to be going nowhere i just stop talking and the other person usually gets mad. |
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when they say nothing is wrong and you are like "ok" and then they blow up at you later on and call you "insensitive" for not giving a shit that there is something something wrong yet they said there was nothing wrong
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when they say nothing is wrong and you are like "ok" and then they blow up at you later on and call you "insensitive" for not giving a shit that there is something something wrong yet they said there was nothing wrong wow seriously, i can't stand that. there's no way to win there. when they say nothing is wrong, you already know something is but if you keep on asking then they get really pissed that you wont leave them alone. then like you said, you get bitched out later for leaving them alone. |
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-some times they never make sense, and then they expect you to understand.
-They want you to "be sensitive" and "caring". Then 15 minutes later, they want you to be their night in shining armor |
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i always just ask if people want to talk about it, if the answer is no then i ask if they need to talk about it. i figure that covers the bases and they can't say that i didn't try to lend a shoulder.
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how women can use the "cramps" excuse for pretty much anything
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how women can use the "cramps" excuse for pretty much anything really, unless you've experienced menstrual cramps you don't know that cramps can have an effect on just about every aspect of a girls day. cramps can be really debilitating. i'm not saying they are every month, all week, for all women but they can really suck hard. they make my entire body tired and i don't feel like doing anything but sleep. and when i know i can't just sleep 'cause i have work or something else to do, it upsets me. so yeah, i'm gonna be in a bad mood when i have cramps. |
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how women can suddenly bitch at you for no reason and then be happy 10 seconds later
the excuse has been used on: -Tests -Science Labs -Fire Drills (serious) -Phys Ed 9/10 -Concert choir (i can see why in this) -Presentations/Demos |
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like i said, they can really suck and make a girl not wanna do anything. but if it is an excuse and not a reason then that's not cool.
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how women can use the "cramps" excuse for pretty much anything I agree with Ashley on this. I'm lucky and have very light to no cramps when I have my period, but some of my girl friends get cramps so bad that it's painful for them to walk upright, or even get out of bed--and that's after they've taken Midol/ibuprofen. So, yeah. |
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I hate how so many of the women I have been with become bitches the minute they find out their manipulative tricks they've learned to survive on just won't work on you.
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I love how some women expect a man to be their comeup. If any of you don't understand what I just said, let me know lol.
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what does comeup mean..
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A comeup is basically like your transition to the next level.
An example of this would be me going from working at Capital One to me being a firefighter.....That would be my comeup both financially and socially. |
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I took on a totally different meaning to "comeup"
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lmao rebs.....
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i get what javonn is saying. he's saying women expect the man to provide the $$$ while they sit on their ass at home
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right.
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Lol at her thinking I'm supposed to pay for every meal. What ever happened to being like Destinys Child and catering to ya boy.
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Take em out the hood, keep em lookin good, but I don't f*ckin feed em.
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