Your opinion on pre-marital sex? Options

[fadingcolorsx]

I don't know if there is a topic already similar to this. If so, I apologize.

I would just like to know what people's thoughts are on pre-marital sex?
Is it ohkay? Bad?

Honestly, I think it's ohkay. In my opinion, people should be able to live life the way they wish. If someone wants to have sex before marriage, go ahead. But, if a person wants to wait until marriage, there's nothing wrong with that either. I just find it weird how some people can make a big deal out of it.

The same goes for the first time one has sex. I honestly didn't find it that big of a deal. For me it was just "Ohkay. I'm not a virgin now... Time to go to practice." I just don't see what the big ordeal is. Yea, there's the whole "Don't waste it on someone" blahblahblah. But, wouldn't someone just not have sex with that person to begin with if he/she did not want to waste it?

[illriginal]

You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex?

[Harp]

You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex?

You're kidding, right?

[Tomates]

i think there is a topic like this or very similar

[LittleMissSunshi...]

You're kidding, right?

WORD.

[tokyo-rose]

You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex?

Hey, hey. Some people aren't good at spelling, but it doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to give their opinion on something.

[illriginal]

Hey, hey. Some people aren't good at spelling, but it doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to give their opinion on something.

If they can't spell, "okay", I can only imagine they don't have an education in sex ed.

[illriginal]

What makes your think you can start ragging on another member? They were just giving their opinion.

BRB

[Harp]

If they can't spell, "okay", I can only imagine they don't have an education in sex ed.

You don't need sex ed to have pre-marital sex, or to have an opinion on it.

[illriginal]

You don't need sex ed to have pre-marital sex, or to have an opinion on it.

Just in time. Well let me ask you this.


Does the quality of the opinion matter? If so, what makes the opinion have a low or high quality? Would it be an educated opinion that's considered a quality opinion or does any random opinion that you personally agree with have a higher quality?

I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words.
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Hey OP how old are you anyways?



EDIT: Oh wait, I see she's from Jersey.. nevermind, she'll probably have STDs or get pregnant before she gets into college.

I'll stop caring now

[karmakiller]

Y'know I hear the same thing about FL, ohkay?


There's an old topic like this in Girls Locker, but I see no reason why this topic can't stay here (unless someone comes across a more recent thread).

[tokyo-rose]

Does the quality of the opinion matter? If so, what makes the opinion have a low or high quality? Would it be an educated opinion that's considered a quality opinion or does any random opinion that you personally agree with have a higher quality?

I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words.

Wow. An opinion cannot be of low or high quality. If I agree with an opinion, then I agree with it, but that's all; I don't consider it "higher quality."

To respond to the OP: I agree with what you said about living your life the way you want to, and having premarital sex if you feel like it. No need to wait until marriage, unless you feel like it.

[illriginal]

I've already made my point.. or lack of... I was just bored anyways.



Anyways OP.. don't spread your legs. Don't expect respect from men if you can't even respect yourself.

[hi-C]

Seriously. Stop it. I just lowered your warning today, don't make me regret it.

[brooklyneast05]

well anyway back to the topic at hand. no premarital sex isn't bad. be safe and you're good.



i don't think it's that big of a deal. even though i do think people should put at least a little bit of thought into who their first time is with.

[Harp]

I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words.

And how many words did the OP misspell? One, with the exception of the word "Yea", which is actually a word. And why in the world does it matter? Ohkay sounds just as much the same as okay, regardless of how it's spelled.

This is why most of the people here don't like you. You have to pick a fight about everything, don't you?

[hi-C]

^ I understand the need to respond, but please don't instigate.

[fameONE]

Pack a vest for your jimmy. ^_^

[superstitious]

Pack a vest for your jimmy. ^_^

Better wear an umbrella for rainy weather?

I think that premarital sex is healthy, if done responsibly.

[fameONE]

Better wear an umbrella for rainy weather?

[synatribe]

Pre marital sex when your mature enough for it, dont loose it in middle school or high school, but I dont really care about college

[hypnotique]

Pre marital sex when your mature enough for it, dont loose it in middle school or high school, but I dont really care about college

[LittleMissSunshi...]

if your ready to have sex, your ready. if you have doubts or kinda jittery, don't. marriage is a more stable environment to have a child, if you accidentally get pregnant when having sex, or if you want to have a child. to some people, sex after marriage is more meaningful. whatever floats your boat, but i don't think there is a problem on pre-marital sex. be mature, safe and it's okay to have sex before marriage.

[Tomates]

if you know your ready then go
if you have the slightest regret then save it

[fameONE]

click to enlarge

[hi-C]

Hungry like the wolf. LOLz.

[fameONE]

Hungry like the wolf. LOLz.

Courage wolf has courage.

[dosomethin888]

I think sex before marriage is a horrible idea.. and it shows by the teen pregnancy rates and the number of STDs there are.. Im pretty sure there used to be zero. I also think sex-ed is a good idea, especially because a lot of kids nowadays dont have parental guidance. But our society is going down the shit hole and I can bet there will be 2x as many STDs in 10 years.. so, whatever.

[*paperplane*]

Zero teen pregnancies or zero STDs? Either way that comment is laughable.

[dosomethin888]

^Laugh all you want. You and I both know I dont give a shit what you think.

[sixfive]

^Laugh all you want. You and I both know I dont give a shit what you think.

wait aren't you cute? i don't remember what you look like, if i'm mistaken my bad everyone else. if you're ugly, i can see why you're against premarital sex. actually that might be your only chance...

[*paperplane*]

^Laugh all you want. You and I both know I dont give a shit what you think.

But we're talking factual discrepancy here.

[dosomethin888]

^
^ No, Im not ugly. I can get all the sex I want, I just choose not to.

[sixfive]

big word alert. true story though, i'll side with nikkie ;) ;) ;)

or maybe, nichey

[Gigi]

Im pretty sure there used to be zero.

Using "pretty sure" doesn't get you taken seriously, fyi. Although if you contended with more confidence, people would just probably call you ignorant.

And since when was sex before marriage exclusive to teens?

At the end of the day, rising teen pregnancy rates has little to nothing to do with pre-marital sex, and much more so to do with poor education and overall stupidity and ignorance. Your sex-ed suggestion is way better of an idea than suppressing pre-marital sex.

[dosomethin888]

But we're talking factual discrepancy here.

What I meant by my statement was that if there was no premarital sex, the percentage of pregnancies outside of marriage, especially among teens, and people with STDs would go down. And only committed, married couples would have children that they could raise in a stable environment. You know what I meant, or your just that stupid.

Using "pretty sure" doesn't get you taken seriously, fyi. Although if you contended with more confidence, people would just probably call you ignorant.

And since when was sex before marriage exclusive to teens?

At the end of the day, rising teen pregnancy rates has little to nothing to do with pre-marital sex, and much more so to do with poor education and overall stupidity and ignorance. Your sex-ed suggestion is way better of an idea than suppressing pre-marital sex.

I wasnt looking to be exact. I was putting in my opinion, not looking to be challenged by how I worded my statement.

[Gigi]

What I meant by my statement was that if there was no premarital sex, the percentage of pregnancies outside of marriage, especially among teens, and people with STDs would go down.

Why do you assume that premarital sex = irresponsible sex?

I wasnt looking to be exact. I was putting in my opinion, not looking to be challenged by how I worded my statement.

lol. Then you go on to completely ignore my other statement and just point out that I shouldn't pick on your words.

[dosomethin888]

^ Only when a teen girl ends up pregnant.

Sex before marriage isnt exclusive to teens.

&

Your right, teen pregnancy rates are due to a number of things.

[Gigi]

And also, if there was no pre-marital sex, there would be no pregnancies outside of marriage, period.

Your argument is full of holes. Yeah you weren't trying to be "precise", but what's the point if everything you say is error-ridden?

[dosomethin888]

And also, if there was no pre-marital sex, there would be no pregnancies outside of marriage, period.

Your argument is full of holes. Yeah you weren't trying to be "precise", but what's the point if everything you say is error-ridden?

What errors? You really arent making any sense. Could you explain yourself?

Your kind of just repeating what I say.

[*BOSS*]

lmao, its the same girl who hates obama and gays

[dosomethin888]

lmao, its the same girl who hates obama and gays

THATS ME!!! Im glad people know who I am around here.

But, I dont hate gays.. I only hate Obama, for good reasons.

[synatribe]

THATS ME!!! Im glad people know who I am around here.

But, I dont hate gays.. I only hate dislike Obama, for good reasons.

fixed

[sixfive]

lmao, its the same girl who hates obama and gays

wait hasn't her pic been up? isn't she hittable?

[*BOSS*]

man i hope shes good looking, it would suck to be ugly and have a personality like hers

[dosomethin888]

fixed

That was very kind, thank you.

man i hope shes good looking, it would suck to be ugly and have a personality like hers

LMAO

[sixfive]

dosomething888, are you thin / brunette?

[dosomethin888]

Ya, but my pic has never been up on createblog.

[sixfive]

ay kevin nevermind

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...t&p=3022783

[*BOSS*]

steven with the quickness. lol but hey, if it means anything, you're actually better looking than i thought

[sixfive]

i was thinking of someone else, i retract mystatements

[dosomethin888]

Your some of the sweetest guys Ive chatted with, I gotta say.

[fameONE]

You're some of the sweetest guys Ive chatted with, I gotta say.

Charming motherf*ckers, no?

[*BOSS*]

lolol someone has short term memory loss

[rnicron]

dosomethin888 is a whore

just sayin