Boy, why do you act this way?, No, seriously, what's his problem? Options

[IDreamOfWaffles]

Please feel free to move this if it's in the wrong forum! I'm an utter noobie, so yeah..

I'm 13, f 8th grade
boy is 12, m 6th grade
this is long... because the story is long.

Yes'm, I'm a young one, but 'least I'm not on here all 'omg he dose lykes me?!?!' I'm more confused on this one kid's behavior, that's all...
I'm pretty good friends with his sister, I guess (we only just started being friends at the beginning of the year, but it's all going well. I've never been to her house before, though.)

I used to tease him a bit, I've never had a younger sibling to tease so he was a sub, I guess.. anyway, when I sensed he was getting really annoyed, I cut it out and left him alone... but I noticed something...He was looking at me alot. Not ever talking to me, but just.. glancing, looking away, glancing, looking away, whenever he got the chance.

It's been going like this forever, since about November. I never openly looked at him, so it's not like he's looking to see if I'm looking, I just watch out of the corner of my eye coz I dunno what his deal is. My peripheral vision is great according to the doctors, so, I know he can't tell. I once glanced over at his lunch table, and his friend jumped, got his attention, and pointed at me, like his firend was watching for me.

that same friend also talked to me once, saying, "Hey, I know you, you're the one that... *I hear this kids name in the jumble*" but I can't hear any more than that. and the friend won't repeat what he said.

Once he was stuck at our lunch table and I asked, "Hey, why are you over here all alone?" and he kinda ignores that and just points to my good guy friend and mumbles sometinhg, and I hear the word "boyfriend" I think...? O.o

I've seen him point at me and whisper to his friends with a grin, and I just don't get it. It's been like this, just a few glances every once in a while daily, forever.

Recently it'd stopped, but the other day in the hall we were both getting a drink. He started to look at me, but stopped himself and went about his business. and as we were walking back I was passing him and he was staring at me the whole time I passed.

At recess that day, he'd started at me really intesely and openly, which made me a bit flustered for lack of better word--was he really looking at me? and WHY??? he seemed to notice these thoughts and smirked. and whenever I glanced back he was STILL looking and it made me even more 'flustered-for-lack-of-better-word', and this seemed to only amuse him more.

but, then, today at lunch I had to sit near him, like one table away as opposed to the usual 5, and he barely looked at me at all, and when he did his eyes seemed to look really shy and nervous.?

I'm not gonna BITE him!

what's his problem?

I've left him alone, I understand he's not a little sib substitue, so why does he seem like he's waiting for me to attack again?

[shoryuken]

maibii hee lyke lyke u... or mizz wenn u alwaii teezee hem..

all boi nn gurl shyy lyke h3ll wen dey en skool...

shiet.. colleggee 2..


OH YE.. YOU PIC.. u gott anii PIC..

[illriginal]

You're in middle school. Go play with your barbies, watch your cartoons, and read your books. f*ckin' children tryin to grow up so fast.

[shoryuken]

ye u teelll hur ill blastoise..

shee niida b lyke u ill blastoiise..

[Uronacid]

You're in middle school. Go play with your barbies, watch your cartoons, and read your books. f*ckin' children tryin to grow up so fast.

Absolutely correct. Don't get into this shit so early.

[hypnotique]

You're in middle school. Go play with your barbies, watch your cartoons, and read your books. f*ckin' children tryin to grow up so fast.

I have to interject with one thing and say cartoons these days suck ass.

[IDreamOfWaffles]

Whoa-ho-ho! I think you all have misunderstood something.

I'm not gonna stay here and ruin your lives, if coming to this site is what you think I'm getting into too fast or something. I came here because I heard there were active forums to ask questions on, that's it.
I made a couple of other posts, yeah, but I wasn't planning on doing anything other than those posts, and a 'thanks' to whoever respectfully answered my question.

I'm not even interested in boys right now, so if you think that I like this guy and that's why I'm asking about him, you're mistaken there too.

I just want to know if he's planning to bully me or something. I seriously just DON'T get it...

are you guys trying to say I'm too young to understand it right now?
and why all the scolding when I just asked a question?

[datass]

yeah maybe he's interested? maybe he thinks you look ugly.

[IDreamOfWaffles]

yeah maybe he's interested? maybe he thinks you look ugly.

that's a definite possibility!!

I'm not COMPLETELY fugly, but I'm not exactly a looker, afterall.

thank you for your opinion

[ley]

You're in middle school. Go play with your barbies, watch your cartoons, and read your books. f*ckin' children tryin to grow up so fast.

I agree ahhh kindergarden crushes are so pointless

[Maccabee]

I dont know why you are asking anyone. Its self explanatory.
He's a little kid and he might have a crush on you. Maybe some day he'll send a messenger to ask you if you like him.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

Someway, somehow one of you must initiate a conversation. Seems like he is too shy, and therefore you must be the one to communicate to him. Sounds like to me, you're interested in him as well because you're experimenting by seeing how he reacts to you when you're within a certain proximity.

Also, just because a guy stares at you, doesn't mean he likes you. I remember there was this one time this girl thought I was staring at her because every time I would look in another direction she was one of the many objects within my view.

[datass]

every time I would look in another direction she was one of the many objects within my view.

oh i hate those.

[hypnotique]

Someway, somehow one of you must initiate a conversation. Seems like he is too shy, and therefore you must be the one to communicate to him. Sounds like to me, you're interested in him as well because you're experimenting by seeing how he reacts to you when you're within a certain proximity.

Also, just because a guy stares at you, doesn't mean he likes you. I remember there was this one time this girl thought I was staring at her because every time I would look in another direction she was one of the many objects within my view.

LOL this coming from the guy with the picture of CB with a gun to a girls chest haha

[Sprague]

Just because she posted this topic here doesn't mean that's she's looking for relationship help. She stated that she isn't sure if this is where this thread belongs AND that she doesn't like him, if anyone has cared to read her replies.

Waffles, they're saying you're too young because this is in the relationship forum. They're automatically assuming that you're here for relationship help and then, as they see your age, say you're too young. It isn't anything personal -- just statements that they believe 13 is too young an age to get involved in a relationship.

Now, as for his behavior... He might like you. I'm not saying he does -- it's just a possibility. Or it could be nothing at all and you're thinking into the situation too much. I think, though, if he wanted to beat you up, he would have done it by now, so you don't really have any worries there. You might want to confront him on the way he's behaving and being upfront about your anxiety towards it. OR, if you like him as well, you may want to see where things go and try talking to him first. Boys are not easy people to understand, yet they're so utterly simple, at the same time.

[alohacaligirl]

You just need to understand that he's a little kid. Maybe he misses your teases and he thought you use to like him or something. If your so worried about why he's always look at you, you should ask him yourself. That would be much easier to get everything off your chest, since your so worried.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

LOL this coming from the guy with the picture of CB with a gun to a girls chest haha

Hey I gotta keep my love lockdown at all costs.

[gojira]

Hey I gotta keep my love lockdown at all costs.

you lose, you lose

[hypnotique]

Hey I gotta keep my love lockdown at all costs.

Hmm for some reason I found that arousing.

[Kontroll]

If you don't know, you don't deserve to know.

[Tsukuyomi-No-Mok...]

I have to interject with one thing and say cartoons these days suck ass.

i second this

[DjYungX]

all that is is puppy love though
XD yhung love

~Dj Yung X~

[staardust]

aw hey there
i was in the same position as you when i was 13.

it's most likely he does like you - why else would he stare anyway.

anyway, the thing i've found out is, if a guy likes you, no matter what he does, and when, he will always do it around you.

this is because they're too shy to tell you straight out that they like you, so the only thing they can do, really, is stare, and hang around you a little bit.