what am i doing wrong???, help if u can Options

[aznrocksta]

how come the nice guy cant ever get the gurl?

y am i stuck having to listen to my friends talk about all the bad shit there bf do to them?

psshhh


ex. my ex <which is now my friend apparently> broke up wit me cuz she thinks of me more as a friend then as a bf. then she goes and dates a guy that treats her like shit. she comes running back to me cuz i gave her a shoulder to cry on. !!#$%R#%#$#
.....

how the hell is it possible for gurls to be so hypocritical and say they want good guys when they date jerks that screw them around?

[XaZnX07]

wow i know whatcha mean sorry bout it you must feel like shit if she dumped you for some one that treats her like shit but you care so much for her shit i would well hope you feel betta




.:tony:.

[*CEP*]

Meh.
I say slap her hard on the face.
Then ignore her whenever she calls your name.
Hang up whenever she calls, then cuss her out in front of her friends.

She's gonna want to get back together in no time.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[xHalf nHalf]

well hey, not all girls are like that. dont worry too much about it, everybody has their special someone out there ya know? and dont worry, nice guys dont always finish last

[eboarder2020]

Hey bud... I read this a while back from a another site... This will explain it all

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
By: Garrett Hols

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the a-hole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the a-hole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the a-hole. But she claims to love the a-hole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the a-hole right away, instead she will stay with the a-hole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their a-hole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the a-hole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the a-hole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the a-hole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the a-hole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The a-hole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an a-hole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an a-hole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another a-hole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect a-hole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect a-hole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your a-hole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.

[Note]

yup.

it's sad how nice guys can't get someone.

::jerry::

[tu sho]

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
By: Garrett Hols

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the a-hole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the a-hole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the a-hole. But she claims to love the a-hole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the a-hole right away, instead she will stay with the a-hole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their a-hole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the a-hole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the a-hole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the a-hole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the a-hole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The a-hole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an a-hole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an a-hole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another a-hole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect a-hole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect a-hole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your a-hole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.

amen


i know how this guy feels.....

[pm3k]

ex. my ex <which is now my friend apparently> broke up wit me cuz she thinks of me more as a friend then as a bf. then she goes and dates a guy that treats her like shit. she comes running back to me cuz i gave her a shoulder to cry on. !!#$%R#%#$#

sometimes.. i believe.. that you are too good of a friend to let go... she doesn't want to lose you... she would always like you to come by and help her out when times go by???

i dunno.. i think she thinks ur too good of a friend to let go on... relationships may screw u guys up? ever tried asking about ur relationship? <-- risky.

i can only assume

[Justingamemaster]

wai tand wait and wait forever1

[crazeegirl411]

Hey bud... I read this a while back from a another site... This will explain it all

It sucks how I agree with this guy. Girls love the a-hole and forget about the nice guys. I have no idea why, though.

[jaeman]

I'm a nice guy. I have a girlfriend. No problemo for me.

[Blueiyzboy]

Meh.
I say slap her hard on the face.
Then ignore her whenever she calls your name.
Hang up whenever she calls, then cuss her out in front of her friends.

She's gonna want to get back together in no time.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

No? Then he is going to look stupid for B!tching her out... and then going out with her when she want's him back.

Something I wrote-

I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say

[fullmusicedmajor]

shell wake up all girls do, give her time. I dont know why, but alot of girls like jerks and by the time they figure out they want the nice guy its too damn late.

[ikayto]

I'm a nice guy, and girls seem to be attracted towards me. So, you're doing NOTHING WRONG, you're just mixed in with the stupid demograph of girls :D

So, buck up plenty of fish in the sea mang

[psychospaz16]

I'm a nice guy. I have a girlfriend. No problemo for me.

same here heh

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[JlIaTMK]

tru tru.... they want what they cant have and when they have it they want back

[faithin_felix]

your nice, but you have to be more brave, do you ask her out? and do you know how to treat a girl properly?

[joanna0304]

shell wake up all girls do, give her time. I dont know why, but alot of girls like jerks and by the time they figure out they want the nice guy its too damn late.

i agree

[Joo_Hoodles]

Hey bud... I read this a while back from a another site... This will explain it all

I had that on my english folder the whole year this year...its sooooooo true! Nice guys give all teh comfort and support, and get jack shit from the people they love. But it seems all girls seem to be shallow and rely on looks and go out with jackasses and jerks for some reason...

[inthemudhole]

I like nice guys and badasses. ^_^

Whatever. I just go for the personality.

I tend to like the nice guys better, however.

[Dopo]

Yeah, My G/F dumped me for my best-friend. He's a complete a-hole. I did everything for her, and I always listened to her. But she likes my friend better. So, we should act like ass holes. Not complete ones..but..just for ex. Girl:"Hey wanna go to movies?"
You:"Why? I don't really want to go."
Girl:" :( PLEASE!? "
You:"I'll think about it."

Play hard to get, and you'll get her.

[skaterjswife2]

theyll come to u soon..you just gotta wait for the right one

[Dopo]

theyll come to u soon..you just gotta wait for the right one

Yeah, but waiting is pretty hard.

[*the_overachiever*]

sometimes girls like bad boys because they think that they can be the hero and turn the guy's life around. there are too many movies like that. i.e. a walk to remember. psh *rolls eyes* and nice guys can be boring. but i love them.

[Sumiaki]

sometimes girls like bad boys because they think that they can be the hero and turn the guy's life around. there are too many movies like that. i.e. a walk to remember. psh *rolls eyes* and nice guys can be boring. but i love them.

I agree... Chicks dig bad boys...

[newlyprofound]

Nice guy, nice guy! What will I do? What will I do if a girl never comes to? I'm a nice guy, nice guy! What will I do? What will I do if a girl never comes to? Nice guy, nice guy!

Heh

I think I'll put that on my folder as well. That's my creed now.

[*the_overachiever*]

Nice guy, nice guy! What will I do? What will I do if a girl never comes to? I'm a nice guy, nice guy! What will I do? What will I do if a girl never comes to? Nice guy, nice guy!

Heh

I think I'll put that on my folder as well. That's my creed now.

whaa...?

[Retrogressive]

bad boys are just hot... all girls want a nice guy... like spiderman *hugs a kidnapped tobey maguire then shoves him back in the closet*

[cleec]

Well don't be overly nice to the point where she thinks she can totally walk all over you. I mean girls never know exactly what they want, but most girls like a guy they have to work for not one that just seems to be there open to them. I'm not saying be an a-hole but just don't limit your options to this one girl. Maybe she will come around later when she sees what a great guy you really are!

[empyrean]

just gotta wait for the right girl

if she does that its her fault not yours

[Dopo]

There's a saying..."Girls flirt with the bad-boys, but girls always marry the nice-guy." Cheer up, she'll come to her senses, or either that, you'll find a new person.

[shadow_zero920]

haha....wow...same situation i had for like...ever >.>

u really just have to wait for the right girl....
i remember wanting this girl i liked forever...but instead of bein couragous enough to ask her out....i just kept bein the "nice" guy and talk to her.....hah.........and guess what........she went out wiht another guy.....who was a complete and utter jack ass........god i still hate what that ****er does to her....neways
it hurt a lot.....andi couldnt get that girl out of my head......but two years later *my sophomore year* there was this girl in bio who sat right next to me.........really dorky and ditzy......also really quiet.
we would always glance at each other....once or twice a day >.>
one day i noticed something on her face........i thought it was chocolate.......turned out to be a p.e. injury * *.....i remember feeling so bad for bringing it up and making her feel self conscous about it......but after talking to her a bit i really got to know her. After a while we became good friends....we would talk to each other here and there.......but i swear she would always know where i was......cause every tiem i went to another class...she was there....smiling and waving.........haha i remember one time i didnt say hi.......in bio she scolded me and got mad......iono...maybe cause i really was like her only friend......neways
that summer we really just...bonded......events happened that made us really really close friends...so when the next school year came by *junior year* i got the courage to ask her to the welcome back dance....she accepted.......though i swear she was blushing haha......
at that dance......we were both really quiet...it was wierd i guess.....i mainly just hung out with my friends......but she didnt go to hers...rather hang out wtih me ^__^......but neways.......we didnt slow dance with each other......it was just.....wierd......but we did on the last one.....and wow...man it was something
the next day at school i went up to say hi to her, but she just glanced at me......gave me a letter...and wakled off to class. at first i thought it was like a letter of total hatred and rejection.....so i was so reluctant to open it..........but finaly i did while i was at my best friends house*my best friend threatened me with his sword...and he never goes back on his threats....that bastard *
when i read what was inside......she wrote how majical the evening was....and how she couldnt stop thinking about me after she left.....hah.....reading that made me feel so happy.......she also wrote in there that she had liked me ever since she first glanced at me in biology.........and ever since then me and her have been together......9 months and goin strong ^__^

so basically LONG story short, life may be bumpy.......but you will get to your goal....though the road may be long *the girl i liked i knew since 7th grade....so for me that was a 5 year wait *.......but its worht it yo
also a good hint....i noticed that the females always choose the guy......so once they like someone.....they stick with it......i know there are cases where the guy will choose the girl....but its rare....so when a girl start giving you hints YOU GO AFTER HER ^______^

[espressive]

Not all of us like bad guys...I mean, I guess I like them to an extent. But I probably wouldn't date one or anything. I prefer the sweet, nice guys that make me laugh. All you have to do it make me laugh, and I'll like you. And I have a weird sense of humor, I laugh at just about anything, tehe.

My Advice: Just keep on doing what you're doing. Sooner or later, a girl will see that and totally dig you. If not, I'll be more than happy to date you You sound like my type, honestly

[shawty_redd]

i like bad boys and good boys anyways... poor you. just wait and i'm sure the right one will come along.

[ComradeRed]

Sometimes, you've just got to get up your buddies, load up the Kalashnikovs, and law down your will upon the universe...

[someflipguy]

I can't really tell you because I am a nice guy! its sad that we don't but we just have to keep trying and not get discouraged...

[Lkc22]

hey ok not all girls are like that..most of my friends are..but i personally like the nice guys. all my friends call me "picky" and that if i keep going down this way im never gonna get alottta guys or have any fun. i mean i get asked out by the assholes and i say NO. pesronally i hate to say this but... it helps if ur hott..Ok there i said it..but its true. i mean i know alotta nice guys but im just not attracted to them in that way.