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-you insult my family
-you mock my culture -you cheat on me Those are just a few examples. What are some reasons that you would leave someone? |
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What's your culture? Just wondering. I come from a very 'Pro-Black' family. My grandmother was part of the Panther movement. While I don't agree with everything that my family believes in (I haven't dated a Black woman in years), it's still a huge part of my life. |
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rawr? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 ![]() |
i will leave you if;
you hurt meee or my family. plain & simple |
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...you wait till marriage
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if i stop loving you
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I will leave you if you're a bitch.
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#9
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
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If you expect me to change
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*BOSS* |
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- your using me
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i will leave you if
- you cheat on me - you physically hurt me - If i find out your using me |
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#18
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I Will Leave You If... you cheat on me.
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
Black girls are just intimidating to me.
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#20
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
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#21
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I have no clue. I just think that black girls are a different breed from other girls. I can't really put it into words though.
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#22
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
![]() any mad woman is intimidating. my gf is black and isn't scary. i've dated scary white girls. |
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#23
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I kind of don't find it funny as it actually is a serious problem that I have.
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#24
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I think it is just me though. I have never really gotten along with black people at all. Hence why I don't have any black friends.
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#26
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
i duno man. you get along with me, and brandon, or kc. i think you would get along with us even if we were hanging out rather than posting on a forum. maybe you haven't been around the right "personality" of black people? i duno though, it seems like you would run across black people you got along with at some point.
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#27
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
Yeah like you guys are intelligent but eclectic people. You know how it is up here with black people though. The majority of them are like if you don't do this or do it that way, then you aren't black enough.
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#28
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
yeah i know what you mean to an extent.
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#29
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![]() Not for any particular reason. I don't discriminate. It's just that since this girl Ashley that I dated (I posted some pics of us back in the day, in bed [PG-13]), I haven't dated another Black woman. I've had sex with them since, but the opportunity has never been there. ![]() |
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#30
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I've never even kissed a black girl before...now that is bad.
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There aren't a whole lot of things that I consider make or break in a relationship. There are plenty of things that might cause me to leave someone, but almost every single one of them is something I'd be willing to overlook if I liked the person enough. For example, I've stuck by someone after he cheated on me twice, and didn't leave him until the third time it happened. I was willing to forget about it if he wouldn't keep doing it.
A few of the reasons I've ended relationships in the past, though: - Tried to change me. - Couldn't stand for me to be anywhere without them. - Not supportive of my personal goals. - Turning my insecurities into jokes on a consistent basis. |
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#33
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#35
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
you are missing out
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#36
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-if your a gold digger
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#37
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-if your a gold digger How old are you that you actually have to worry about gold diggers? What, worried that she's only with you for the free popcorn and PG-13 movies? Brandon, your grandmother sounds kickass. Was she the sweet ole' grandma that let you do whatever you wanted or the one that you was like "Yes, Ma'am!" to? I Will Leave You If: -You only can crack jokes at someone else's expense -You hook up with a friend -You try to change me -You can't perform in bed despite numerous Sex 101s |
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#39
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Yeah like you guys are intelligent but eclectic people. You know how it is up here with black people though. The majority of them are like if you don't do this or do it that way, then you aren't black enough. its the same with my people. I have like 1 latina friend and shes mixed with irish so we are on a similar boat. With my people its if you dont speak Spanish either A)Im ashamed to be mexican/puerto rican (my accent makes things worse) B) Im not hispanic enough. However im convinced that where i lack in the language i make up for in my cooking and in my style.f*ck yeah. you can speak all the chinga tu madre talk you want to but if you cant make Arroz Con Pollo GTFO |
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#40
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I will leave you if:
-You try to force me to do anything -Smoke and drink (like heavily) -Disrespect the people I love -You are mean to my dog! |
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#42
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If ya leave me now, you'll take away the biggest part of me
WooooOOOOoooOOOOOOO NO BABY PLEASE DON'T GO |
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#43
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How old are you that you actually have to worry about gold diggers? What, worried that she's only with you for the free popcorn and PG-13 movies? Seriously, right? Hell, gold diggers are everywhere. When it comes to military dependents, a spouse can profit hell of a lot more than an active duty serviceman. If I die, and I'm married, my wife would get half a million dollars tax free. QUOTE Brandon, your grandmother sounds kickass. Was she the sweet ole' grandma that let you do whatever you wanted or the one that you was like "Yes, Ma'am!" to? She carries a .357 Magnum in her purse. Try to rob that old lady if you want to, and she'll warm you up with the heater. ![]() |
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#44
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^So no cookies when you were younger?
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#47
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
Inorite? Especially if she starts drinking the yac with a snackbox.
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don't let me throw some d's on you
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I will leave you if
- You cheat on me. - Your annoying. - Hurting family, friends, or myself physically. - Always lying. |
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#51
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lol i'm surprised you are all quick to leave someone for a lie.
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^yeah, i'm pretty sure you guys/girls lied to your someone. so don't say lie lol xD
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#53
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But if they're ALWAYS lying how can you ever trust them? Better to leave them than be in the middle of some drug scandal or something.
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funny how black men...tend to drift away from black women...while Latino's seem to get involved with them...
![]() ![]() guess they get tired of black dudes dogging them or something along those lines... ![]() but i also notice black men tend to like women of Latino decent...perhaps this is... a weird phenomenon |
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nah i understand if they are always lying, but i think i've read in previous posts that people would leave for a lie.
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#56
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I wouldn't leave them for a white lie or if he says I look good in those jeans but in reality I don't or something...but if it's like lying about cheating then heck yea, dump his ass.
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...you pull that passive aggressive bullshit again.
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If you hit me.. and it has nothing to do with sex at the time..
If you cheat on me but we will talk it through.. If you spit in my face.. just because that is gross.. If you stab me in the back.. thats not cool.. If you talk shit thats not true... If you bitch for no reason.. If your an ass to my friends.. If you hate my family.. If I dont like you anymore.. |
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i will leave if...
you're not into bdsm. our relationship isn't going anywhere. you constantly smother me with sickening affection. you force me to do something i don't want to do [thrill rides aside]. anal play is your game. you don't pull you're weight and freeload off of me. |
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its the same with my people. I have like 1 latina friend and shes mixed with irish so we are on a similar boat. With my people its if you dont speak Spanish either A)Im ashamed to be mexican/puerto rican (my accent makes things worse) B) Im not hispanic enough. However im convinced that where i lack in the language i make up for in my cooking and in my style.f*ck yeah. you can speak all the chinga tu madre talk you want to but if you cant make Arroz Con Pollo GTFO ^lol @ chiinga tu madre talk. I have the opposite problem i get sterotyped as a coconut all the time. Im like hello i do speak spanish i embrace the culture so wtf? I will leave you if.... -You act like your my dad more than my boyfriend. Sorry, i dont take orders. |
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If she killed my whole family.
If she put a beer bottle in my as$hole. If she killed our dog without a good reason. If she had sex with someone else (especially a family member or my boss). |
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LOL oh god you dont even have to tell me what happened Japanese girl + BDSM can go one of 2 ways...... great or f*cking terrible. Shorty had fantasies of being raped violently while being penetrated in multiple places by blunt objects. Thats about as far as I'll go with this story. |
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^ Ditto.
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^^ haha xD
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I mean rapeplay is one thing. ok that I can see but im not going to be sticking a cucumber up your freaking bumhole at the same time.
Pick one. plz. |
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i will leave you if you:
- constantly take my kindness for granted - intentionally try to hurt me or anyone i care about - into drugs and get sloppy drunk often |
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