Boyfriend/Girlfriend Qualites, MUST HAVE Options

[Comptine]

What's a quality someone has to have for you to consider them date-able?

For me to date someone, they HAVE to have a sense of humor. If they can't make me laugh, I probably would never even think of them as date material.

The guy also has to be taller than me. I'm 5'2" so there's a lot of room for a guy to be taller than me. If you can't manage that, you seriously need to drink some more milk.

[sixfive]

Would you date someone who was 5'3?

[Comptine]

No! Cause I wear heels and then I'll tower over them. Really, it's not that hard to be taller than me. Even middle schoolers are taller. =(

[RelleJae]

I also like someone who can make me laugh cause i love to laugh and im a sucker for pretty eyes i luv a guy wit nice eyes

[hi-C]

Personality is probably most important (seriously), intellect (although the last two... they were dummies), and a sense of humor.

[*KINGdinguhling*]

1. have to have a vagina
2. have to listen to music
3. must love touching me

[gojira]

- sense of humor
- has to have real interests whether similar or different
- understanding
- loves coffee or tea, gummy bears or really food in general
- put up with my disgusting habits
- a good caretaker even when i vomit out bile
- finds my ugliness to be attractive
- 5'9+
- confidence not cocky but i hope i fall for an awkward boy someday

[Comptine]

^Awkward boys/dorks are cuties.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

funny
loves to play sports/videogames
likes to cook/eat
sensitive yet strong
caring, passionate about something
finds short cute
tall for me,
finds my little things i do adorableee ! lol jkay
have funny inside jokes

[gojira]

damn dawg, i think i would like to add cooking to my list too. i don't think i've met many guys who didn't enjoy sports or videogames. though, i don't enjoy either. yeah i think i need someone who is sensitive towards my feelings but not a girly-man.

- suffering from peter pan syndrome also :3
- childlike in all the good ways, immaturity does not count unless it's my kind of humor.
- no go @ controlling men. i don't think anybody can tell me what to do without me getting angry, which makes it more likely to do the exact opposite.
- someone to bicker wif

and f*ck i forgot about this shit. HIS HAND HAS TO BE BIGGER THAN MINE.

[fameONE]

-integrity
-common sense
-intelligence
-sense of humor
-sense of style
-good taste in music
-a sexual appetite that rivals mine

[transcendentalis...]

honesty
honesty
honesty
honesty
common sense
interests!
CARING towards everyone regardless of whether he likes them or not.
kind to animals... i'm not having some jerk kick my dog.
perseverance
a sense of humor

to not dress absurdly would be good too.. as long as it fits, looks clean, is appropriate for the occasion if any, and doesn't clash? okay.

not being a wuss is good too. i have mixed feelings about being able to beat up my significant other.

[fameONE]

It's sad but I feel like my standards are too high, so I find myself settling far too often.

[gojira]

at least you know what you want. i usually end up going for the opposite of what i say. i don't fall easily, but i fall hard. their personality has to attract me, but it can be a fault because i might overlook all their bad characteristics, in order to force things to work.

where are you diana, i'm finally lesbian.

[Gigi]

Damn, opposite is true for me. Once I start having feelings for a guy, I begin to see their faults and then the feelings go away. So I end anything quickly.

For me...
- Significantly taller (it's not that hard.)
- Fit (a little chub is alright since I have it too XD; I think an overly muscular guy would scare the crap out of me)
- Good looking (face)
- Sense of humour similar to mine
- Stealing this from Sandy, childlike in all the good ways
- Understanding/patient
- Intelligent
- Ambition/has interests/motivated
- Good taste in music
- Good taste in shoes

There must be more, but I already sound like a hard-to-please bitch, so I'll stop.

[fameONE]

Damn, opposite is true for me. Once I start having feelings for a guy, I begin to see their faults and then the feelings go away. So I end anything quickly.

Something vaguely similar happened to me somewhat recently.

Here's where my bad luck always comes in...

I can never pursue the women that meet my criteria because of whatever circumstances that may arise. I've had sex with women that I have found no faults in, but when it comes to relationships, something always happens. As a result of this, I settle for whomever shows that they give a shit about me.

This bites me in the ass.

[kimmytree]

- sarcastic, witty
- sense of humor
- similar taste in music
- manly, but sensitive at the same time
- good morals
- intelligent
- physically fit... a little chubby can be cute though.
- understanding and nurturing
- likes me despite my weird quirks, and likes me more because of them.
- has ambition
- nerdy

[walkdownalameda]

1. have to have a vagina
2. have to listen to music
3. must love touching me

oh hey bahbeh

[*KINGdinguhling*]

get naked ill meat you in the back alley

[Impressive]

Funny part is. All these women want a push over, but at the same time they want the man to be controlling in only certain situations. just funny.

[Blyat]

I dont really ask for much in a guy
except that he is Taller and my age, or older, And definetly someone that i can always have an amazing funny conversation ^__^
....and is not a stalker

[gojira]

....and is not a stalker

LOL inb4steven/kevin/whoeverelse

[sixfive]

I dont really ask for much in a guy
except that he is Taller and my age, or older, And definetly someone that i can always have an amazing funny conversation ^__^
....and is not a stalker

LIKE SHANAYNAY! Oh wait, stalker? Hmm, well we can work on that, would you still take him?

[*BOSS*]

LOL inb4steven/kevin/whoeverelse

bitch

[fameONE]

LOL inb4steven/kevin/whoeverelse

I'm still going to LOL.

[batman]

- funny guy who gets my sense of humor
- intelligent
- 5'8"-6'3" would be nice
- fun to shop with; it's really hard for me to shop with other people. it takes really good chemistry for me to feel comfortable shopping with a guy.
- easy-going
- nice hands
- nice smile (good teeth, nice lips, eye crinkles :D)
- friendly

[Tung]

- funny guy who gets my sense of humor
- intelligent
- 5'8"-6'3" would be nice
- fun to shop with; it's really hard for me to shop with other people. it takes really good chemistry for me to feel comfortable shopping with a guy.
- easy-going
- nice hands
- nice smile (good teeth, nice lips, eye crinkles :D)
- friendly

hmm this sounds like steven.

[batman]

wtf get out, plz

[fameONE]

... the f*ck?

[brooklyneast05]

likes art
reads alot
atheist
can put up with me

check,check,check, work n progress

[Rachel]

-integrity
-common sense
-intelligence
-sense of humor
-sense of style
-good taste in music
-a sexual appetite that rivals mine

BAM!

Also not controlling and clingy. They gotta trust me at parties and shit. Yeah, it's cute if you see a guy hitting on me and you come up and put your arm around me, but it's not cute if it's one of my best guy friends and you come off as an ass.

[gojira]

likes art
reads alot
atheist
can put up with me

check,check,check, work n progress

LOL too cute.

[Gigi]

JC inspired me to add another

- Doesn't believe in Creationism

I just stumbled upon a pro-Creationism site and I laughed my ass off for half an hour. Srsly couldn't deal with a guy like that.

[misoshiru]

It's sad but I feel like my standards are too high, so I find myself settling far too often.

me too..but i refuse to settle.

- 5'11 - 6'1 or 6'2
- funny
- charming
- good personality and looks is an obvs.
- does or has done sports
- can play or has played an instrument and appreciate classical music with me.
- good sense of style. doesn't have to be metro, but he can't not know how to dress well.
- laid back
- understanding
- honest
etc...

[Tung]

I done had a lot of women in my lifetime
But see it's not a lot of women that got the right mind
I done had pretty chicks with all the right features
And hoodrat chicks that only rock sneakers
Cell phones and beepers, and know how to treat ya
You break her heart, she'll walk out and leave ya
I find a girl, I'ma keep her
Cus now I'm getting money and the game getting deeper
you want some real shit, I need somebody I can chill with
I need somebody I can build with
I need somebody I can hold tight
With the time and no full limits, snow white

[brooklyneast05]

LOON

[fameONE]

BAM!

Also not controlling and clingy.

I love a woman who can take control. I just don't like when a woman tries to control me. It ceases to be attractive and it, in turns, becomes insulting.

[walkdownalameda]

get naked ill meat you in the back alley

you'll meat me?
now im kinda worried.


in a good way.

[coralblue]

must have:

cleanliness
responsible
high morals
non-judgmental
good character
compassionate/caring

[*BOSS*]

you'll meat me?
now im kinda worried.
in a good way.

im already nekked

[fameONE]

must have:

cleanliness
responsible
high morals
non-judgmental
good character
compassionate/caring

You're so boring.

[walkdownalameda]

im already nekked

ive been waiting!

[FireButterfly]

1.) Funny
2.) Out-going
3.) Easy-going. =3

[LittleMissSunshi...]

their quality should be; not get tired of being with me.

[Joss-eh-lime]

What's a quality someone has to have for you to consider them date-able?

For me to date someone, they HAVE to have a sense of humor. If they can't make me laugh, I probably would never even think of them as date material.

The guy also has to be taller than me. I'm 5'2" so there's a lot of room for a guy to be taller than me. If you can't manage that, you seriously need to drink some more milk.

im so with you on this.

make me laugh
be able to reach over me
& we're good :]

[sixfive]

cute face
small waist
big behind

[illriginal]

5'6 or taller

Does not weigh more than 140lbs

Brown or black hair

Asian, Hispanic, Italian, Black (light skinned), Middle Eastern, Greek

Dark or light eyes

Not pale skin

Religious

Has at least a bachelor's degree

Likes philosophy, science, history, politics, and debates

Preferably athletic or simply stays in shape

Likes sports or even plays sports (sometimes a good date for me involves playing a sport of some sort even if I suck at it)

Soft spoken

Speaks English eliquently if they're American especially if they're in college or out of college

Prefer that she speaks a 2nd language for the sake of learning from each other (I speak 3 different languages and learning a 4th)

Does not smoke cigarettes

Does not drink alcohol

Does not drink soda all the time

Does not bitch about me playing video games D:

Does not dress like a little whore. If she wants to wear short shorts, she would wear them in the house or at the beach/pool.

Must have a job and not expect me to pay for everything every single time, that was the point of women's rights.

Must have a bubble butt

Breast no smaller than 34 B

Preferred measurements: 34b, 25-27, 38 (wowzers)

And must enjoy the outdoors!

Personality of course... but that's a given.


Probably a few other things but nothing in mind at the moment.

[smash]

^ wow, that's a lot. it's good you know what you want.

GENTLEMAN
Polite
Hilarious
Good taste in music
Can keep me grounded
GOOD IN THE SACK =P
Kinda awkward in a cute way
Must read a lot
Must not be stupid
Must be taller than me

^sounds about right to me. i try not to think about these things too often though. i like to just let things happen. if i like a guy, i like him. sometimes i can learn to deal/accept traits that may be seen as flaws.

[towntown2]

I'm scared of sounding shallow, but the guy's gotta be good looking.
Not Adonis-like, but cute enough.

Definitely a sense of humor and a high intelligence [with humility].
Good manners, too. I'm a sucker for smart gentlemen.

[staardust]

funny sense of humour - obviously, otherwise everything would be awkward, and boring, yes?

romantic - i don't know, i'm a huge romantic, and ...yeah, like, they have to be sweet.

fun - as in, non-dull?

and good manners, definitely

(: haha

[xhugerific]

Personality personality personality.
Looks DO matter , but if they're a jerk then screw them.
HAS to have a sense of humor.
I like dorky guyss :) Like not a nerd typa dork , but like dork. like they're retarded in a cute way .. yeah y'know what i'm saying .
Taller than me , absolutelyy.
Someone that knows LIFE .

and hmm , yeah :]

[Tung]

Personality personality personality.
Looks DO matter , but if they're a jerk then screw them.
HAS to have a sense of humor.
I like dorky guyss :) Like not a nerd typa dork , but like dork. like they're retarded in a cute way .. yeah y'know what i'm saying .
Taller than me , absolutelyy.
Someone that knows LIFE .

and hmm , yeah :]

sounds alot like me there joolayyy

[creole]

These are the traits I seek:
- Decent looking.
- Educated.
- Knows some common sense.
- Etiquette and Manners.
- Knows when the right time to be serious or seductive.

[shoryuken]

These are the traits I seek:
- VERY GOOD looking.
- Educated.
- Knows some common sense.
- Etiquette and Manners.
- Knows when the right time to be serious or seductive.

DAM beenly.. why u gotta talk bout me lyke dat..

[Tung]

^ He was talking about me Prince, not you.

[black31]

1. Shorter than me. Im 6'0 so its not that hard
2. Cute face
3. Smart
4. Funny or a goofball like me
5. Respectful
6. Honest
7. Caring
8. Sweet
9. Into sports either plays or just watchs
10. Supportive

[hypnotique]

He has to be into comics/anime.

Im sorry I cant deal with someone who things "comics are gay"

[creole]

The person has to be tall, idk, i just like looking up to people, literally.
LOL

[Tung]

The person has to be tall, idk, i just like looking up to people, literally.
LOL

you could always just get on your knees if you know what i mean.

[smash]

^i don't like to make assumptions but i thought that's what he meant when i first read that.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

*A down ass chick
*A chick that will bow in the presence of greatness
*Do as I command
*Wash my clothes. She ain't gotta worry about boxers, Sandy will do those.
*Cook me breakfast, lunch, and dinner
*A lady in the street, but a freak in the bed
*Take a bullet for me
*Let me cheat on her, with other girls
*Participates while I sleep with other girls
*Dranks wit your boy

[smash]

^ you're funny.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

^ you're funny.

I'm being serious. You find chicks like this everyday on Craig's list.

[gojira]

I'm being serious. You find chicks like this everyday on Craig's list.

I can totally understand why he proposed to her over the net. Its obvious that he loved the girl

[smash]

^ craig's list. you really want a girl who will bow down to you?

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

^ craig's list. you really want a girl who will bow down to you?

Haha, nah not really. But if she did, I would be like

[smash]

i can see how that might be nice. i wouldn't need to bow to make my man feel like a king though... just saying.

[brooklyneast05]

must cook

[smash]

that is definitely a must.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

i can see how that might be nice. i wouldn't need to bow to make my man feel like a king though... just saying.

Yo man? Would his last initial happen to start with a C?

must cook

It's much cooler when JC says it. Heaven forbid I say this. Every girl in America will be hunting me down.





































Wanting to serve, protect, and love me to no ends. We will cross the seven seas across the planet and orbit around the moon 50 times. I will put a ring on her finger the size of Saturn.

[smash]

aaawwwww, KC. now that's what a girl wants to hear. but only if you'll do the same. and i don't know what his last name starts with yet.

[gojira]

Every girl in America will be hunting me down.

[Stuckie]

I personally want a girl that can hold a conversation. Someone with a sense of humor. An ass like . And she has to have self-esteem. I tired of women with no self-esteem. How can I be in love with you if you cant say you love yourself? How can I see your beauty if you neglect to see it?

[shoryuken]

^ EY stukii.. im you girl..

age 18.. 5'6 .. like dark meet.. i gott @ss lyke DAYMM..

[MrStrife]

The kind of girl that I deem dateable is the kind that:

-honest, but not being a bitch and saying I'm just being honest.
-funny. she needs to have a sense of humor as good or even better than mine.
-spontaneous. lives life to the fullest and random but also serious at times.
-smart. have to carry on a good conversation, even argue a little. good opinions
-sweet. it's the lil things she does or says that makes a boy fall hard.
-clean. I'm definitely keen on hygiene and I'm steering clear of hoes.
-strong. She can't be a doormat and will fight for herself and for me.
-cute. now honestly, you do need to be attracted to each other.
-short. I'm just a sucker for shortays and sex with a tall girl I think is weird.
-Last but not least she needs to have a car. If not then a job. Come on, she has to be on point with her game and at least on my level.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

aaawwwww, KC. now that's what a girl wants to hear. but only if you'll do the same. and i don't know what his last name starts with yet.

If thats what she want to hear, I can be that.

Lol, does it begin with a J though.

What is so sickening about girls teaming up and jumping on my handsome and delicate frame.

[smash]

i meant that i don't know what the man's name is because i don't have one.

[brooklyneast05]

yob remmurd

[smash]

lol, i was so confused for a minute. i thought it was some lanuage i didn't recognize.

[brooklyneast05]

[misoshiru]

for a second, i thought you were drunk.

[redpeony]

Uncompromisable necessities:
1. Christian and actively pursuing his faith
2. Honest and open
3. Intelligent
4. Family oriented
5. Treats his word as gold (true to it like none other)

Things I look for after the uncompromisable list is fulfilled:
1. Hilarious and makes me laugh uncontrollably
2. Gentlemanly
3. Sweet and thoughtful
4. Has a full life filled with activities (is passionate about something)
5. Athletic
6. Likes to go running with me
7. Manly.
8. Has a good circle of friends
9. Financially responsible
10. Knows his social etiquette

Nice to haves.
1. Tall
2. Good looking.
3. Can cook well.

I would be lying if I said that I haven't thought about and revised this list extensively over the years.

[Stuckie]

^ EY stukii.. im you girl..

age 18.. 5'6 .. like dark meet.. i gott @ss lyke DAYMM..

uh... no.

[saintsaens]

requirements: have money mof*ckaz

[LittleMissSunshi...]

^lol so you can go buy clothes XD!

[*BOSS*]

^shannon is trying to get a sugar daddy

[gojira]

lol

[LittleMissSunshi...]

^shannon is trying to get a sugar daddy

kevin yer so gay. go play some kz2 you addict.

[smash]

lol

is that a whole store just for condoms????

[LittleMissSunshi...]

lol yes smashley XD!

[smash]

wow. i wanna see.

[maliciousmagg0t]

i want a girl who has the following:
-is honest
-doesnt smoke
-is not an alcoholic, drinking from time to time is ok, atleast you know i'll be there for you.
-i can carry you if you get drunk lol
-preferably shorter than me (im about 5'9'' or 5'10'')
-funny
-idc what music they like as long as they dont bash mine i wont bash on theirs
-smart so i can have a good convo with you. my last g/f was DUMB!
-a girl i can bring home to mom yet can surprise you when needed ;)
-is active, i hate sitting around all day, i love nature
-can talk about our issues together as a couple

im a pretty picky person and i dont really settle. i get tired of all the girls in this area because they are all drug addicts and alcoholics and partiers and hoes. it gets old it really does. its pretty sad when you dont wanna have sex with any chick in your area cause your afraid they might have an std because they slept with so many people. im friends with all my ex's except the last one because she cheated on my with one of my "friends" and then proceeded to tell lies about me.

most importantly!!! i am a very oldschool kinda guy, buying random gifts, getting doors for you, paying on the dates, wait to have sex after we get to know each other and very caring. i take care of all my girlfriends but they never take care of me. i want a girl who can return the favor and take care of me when im sick or sad or just do me those little favors. i dont ask for much, just to show you care.

btw. i love to cook, im half italian so i hope you like italian food. home made lasagna every christmas... mmmmm

[maliciousmagg0t]

The kind of girl that I deem dateable is the kind that:

-honest, but not being a bitch and saying I'm just being honest.
-funny. she needs to have a sense of humor as good or even better than mine.
-spontaneous. lives life to the fullest and random but also serious at times.
-smart. have to carry on a good conversation, even argue a little. good opinions
-sweet. it's the lil things she does or says that makes a boy fall hard.
-clean. I'm definitely keen on hygiene and I'm steering clear of hoes.
-strong. She can't be a doormat and will fight for herself and for me.
-cute. now honestly, you do need to be attracted to each other.
-short. I'm just a sucker for shortays and sex with a tall girl I think is weird.
-Last but not least she needs to have a car. If not then a job. Come on, she has to be on point with her game and at least on my level.

dang... all these sound good to me too.... add what is written here to my list if its not already on there!!!

[smash]

well, somebody knows what he wants. that's awesome. i wanna add to mine.

i need somebody who can be open about his feelings with me. it forces me to be open about my own feelings.

[maliciousmagg0t]

well, somebody knows what he wants. that's awesome. i wanna add to mine.

i need somebody who can be open about his feelings with me. it forces me to be open about my own feelings.

lol... well i've been single for almost like 4 years no... i've had a lot of time to think about it. this is a small town i live in.... not many options for women who meet my criteria. lol.

[smash]

i bet. i've never had a real boyfriend. i've had some guys that were "more than friends" and what not and now i know i don't want that. it was fun for a while but i'm growing and i need more of an emotional attachment. i've learned some things about what i want out a relationship, once i get into a legit romantic one. i tend to care more about people than they care about me. and then i keep my feelings to myself not because i don't want anyone to know how i feel it's just that i'm so used to not sharing. not too many of my guy friends ask me how i'm feeling. they just don't care to have that kind of relationship with me. it's cool though. at least now i know and can keep myself from becoming so attached.

[Deospeon]

I want a girl:

Who wears glasses.
5-8 months older to me.
a bit shorter to me.
who looks cute when she laughs
who stands up for me.
Who takes a relationship seriously.
can cook as well as I do
who is funny
who is hugable..lol
and has the perfect sized breasts.. (FOR U PERVS: meaning, not soo busty.. just a normal girl)

MUST BE CANADIAN or AUSTRALIAN

[smash]

I want a girl:
......
MUST BE CANADIAN or AUSTRALIAN

lol, rules me out. j/k

[maliciousmagg0t]

I want a girl:

Who wears glasses.
5-8 months older to me.
a bit shorter to me.
who looks cute when she laughs
who stands up for me.
Who takes a relationship seriously.
can cook as well as I do
who is funny
who is hugable..lol
and has the perfect sized breasts..

MUST BE CANADIAN or AUSTRALIAN

yay for pedo bear... wait a minute... 5/8 months older than you??? dont you mean age range around 12? lol.. im just messing with you.

[*paperplane*]

5-8 months older than you is a weird expectation, especially considering that most girl want to date older guys.