this girl keeps copying me and talking shxt., advice, yees ? [: |
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this girl keeps copying me and talking shxt., advice, yees ? [: |
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![]() JOOWEE<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 680,398 ![]() |
there's this girl at my school, let's call her JOANNE. and let's start off waaay back then when she started copying me. okay, so she was going out with this guy. but then the guy broke up with her. and then she finds out that he likes me. so she keeps thinking that I 'stole' her boyfriend, and i keep telling her that i didn't, and she acts like she believes me, but yet she talks shxt behind my back to other people and call me a boyfriend stealer and a sluuut. and all that crap and it really irritates me. about a week after her boyfriend broke up with her, she started copying me with like almost everything. at first, i didn't really care, but then my friends who have her classes tell me that she copied my laugh, how i act, my personality, my outfits, etc, and etc. and that got me ticked off. she even copied some of my phrases that i say alllllll the time. and now SHE says it. and whenever i say it, people would be like ' oh joanne says that too ' and i'm like ' wtf?! ' she calls me a sluuut. and why the fack is that ? she's the one that's wearing shirts that go up to her belly button. she wears hella tight pants. she wears hella short shorts and skirts. her shirts are seethrough, and you can see her bra. & whenever she finds out that a guy likes her, she goes all over them, giving them the wrong message, and in the end, rejects them. my school has a uniform policy, and i FOLLOW it. i wear white polo shirts with an undershirt. & skinny navy pants. i NEVER wear shorts. and i NEVER wear skirts. and SHE'S calling ME a slut ? i'm not saying that SHE'S one, but it takes a slut to KNOW a slut. and just today, she copied my whole outfit. like wtf, i had on vans, skinny navy pants, undershirt that has a color that matches my shoes, a white uniform shirt, and a cropped black sweater. she wore the same thing, except she was wearing shorts. i've been wearing my outfit since the beginning of the year, btw. oh & plus, she got back with her boyfriend. the one that i supposedly 'stole' . yah him. and they just broke up yesterday. and today, i was in leadership meetings for nutrition and lunch so i didn't know what was going on. but after school, SOOOO many of my friends started telling me how she was all over MY boyfriend, and how she was talking to a whole bunch of MY friends.. people that SHE never talked or hung out with before. IT JUST IRRITATES ME SO MUCH. once, when i confronted her, she kept going ' omg i'm sooo sorry ' and all that crap and she started crying and getting everyone's attention. and now a alot of her friends that i use to be cool with are against me. what am i suppose to do ? if i confront her, she's just gonna say a whole buncha crap that i always hear and get everyone against me. but if i keep it inside, i just get more and more mad. how would you feel if you were me ? x'o what would you do ? i'm eating fried chicken. xD |
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Lol Joanne.
Got pictures of her? |
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![]() in a matter of time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 ![]() |
I know it sounds lame, but just ignore her and she'll grow up eventually. I mean, all of you will. In a few years no one will be worrying about people copying outfits or boyfriends liking other girls. Just relax and try not to let it bother you. There's really not much you can actively do without getting more people upset, or making a bigger deal out of it.
How would I feel if I were you? Well, I have definitely not been through your situation before, but I have had my fair share of drama, and of course I felt like shit. No matter how hard you try to put on a happy facade and ignore it, it's difficult and you always just feel crappy. What could I do about it? I could talk to her...but then she'd just deny it and continue spewing shit behind my back. You could confront her, but she'd just blow up in your face and make more of your friends hate you. I just realized that there's nothing I could do that could alleviate the shitty feeling, except for time. After a while I just forgot about it (as did other people), and things got better. I wouldn't worry about losing your so-called friends over this debacle anyway. If they really were your friends they wouldn't take sides and turn on you. |
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^agree
Ignoring is probably best since she doesn't seem to be listening anyways. |
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![]() Live long and prosper. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 ![]() |
![]() But what I did gather is that is is just High school drama and it will die down and she will in the future if she lives that long look back and say "wow im a f*cking idiot" |
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![]() kthxbai ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 ![]() |
This is so off-topic, but why do so many asians have the last name "Nguyen" ?
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^ cause that's just what their last name is...
Why do so many caucasians have the last name "Smith" ? |
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rawr? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 ![]() |
^^ lol i agreee!
btw; i really think she's a baby. she looks up to you as a role-model but at the sametime she has her own "pack" to lead. so i guess she feels there are competition. and i don't think you should worrry. |
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She's tryna do too much and draw attention. She wants to get you irritated. and that ' omg i'm sooo sorry ' <hellla fake! Jst ignore her, she's a drama queen.
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![]() that's what she said ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 ![]() |
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![]() :3 |
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This is so off-topic, but why do so many asians have the last name "Nguyen" ? Dumb. All jews last name are cohen, cowen, or goldburg. O and this girl must be insecure, immature. And she copying you not the other way round. So just take it as a compliment that she wants to be like you and hopefully people wont think your compying her. But if they knew you then theyll know shes copying you. |
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yes ignoring it the best way to go
sooner or later other kids will realize that she really isn't so "cool" anymore |
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good name choice lmfao xD
joanne is my name too :D |
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^ cause that's just what their last name is... Why do so many caucasians have the last name "Smith" ? Lol Beat her up. No don't. Do something really idiodic that she'll copy. No don't. Ignore her. Walk away, never talk to her again. Tell your friends to STFU about her cuz you don't wanna hear it anymore. Heh, I dunno. I just wanted to say lol at the Smith thing |
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![]() Melieized ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 ![]() |
it sounds like she's really crying out for help and attention but in a wierd way. keep your enemies closer so find out why she's copying and talking about you.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 709,081 ![]() |
She's probably doing it on purpose just to piss you off.
Just ignore her. |
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