i dont know if im being paranoid/worried for nothing or what?!, help needed, not criticism :] |
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 Dec 31 2008, 11:02 AM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve.  Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920  |
could someone close this topic please...it worked out perfectly and i talked to him about it..its all handled. haha.
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Dec 31 2008, 11:09 AM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
"You worry bout the wrong things, the wrong things".i don't think it's a big deal. he hasn't even done anything wrong and you're monitoring him. robocop status
 maybe you should just ask him why he's adding tons of girls? but you better ask in a really non accusing way if you do, and i duno if that's even possible for girls to ask this kinda stuff in a non accusing way. i've never seen it done. damn i dropped two kanye west links relevant to this. 
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Dec 31 2008, 11:14 AM
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never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
lol. no robocop status, i just checked it for like the first time ever because he added a new pic of himself (and thats RARE already bc he hardly updates). but see it was just that day that i saw the cmmts/adding ppl.
uhh, well me and him did text each other for 2ish hrs and he was still being his sweetself and saying how we're gonna chill on new years day and all. well, see i dont know..wouldnt it be weird if i asked him why hes adding those girls? i remembered i asked him a little about it like a month-ish ago (when it wasnt as much as it is now) and hes like, "oh gees, amanda you dont need to make a big deal/worry about it." i think what im more afraid of is him losing interest, he hasnt shown any signs just iunno im being paranoid again..thinking of all these stupid possibilities. haha. p.s. to brooklyneast 05: oh yeah i KNEW somebody was gonna put that paranoid song by kanye west on ahhaa. |
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Dec 31 2008, 04:41 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think it's just your side of showing your affection for him in a paranoid way. if it is really bothering you you should just ask him. he's your boyfriend and he should understand your feelings. it's natural, but it's not like he's totally flirting with him. it's alright, but if it's bothering you really that much. you gotta talk to him.
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Dec 31 2008, 05:20 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
say something like "i've noticed that you've been adding a lot of girls lately" & wait for his reaction.
this actually sounds like a good reason to be worried, imo. |
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Jan 5 2009, 12:29 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Oct 2008 Member No: 693,954 |
I know how you feel! I get worried about the dumbest little things too, and you just have to let it out really...just ask him about it. (Non-accusing like the others above said)
That will be a much better alternative to worrying even more and getting all worked up. |
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Jan 5 2009, 01:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 707,073 |
Maybe he just wanted more friends on myspace?
You'll only know the answer if you ask him. Like uhm "Hey, I was on Myspace today and I saw you have a lot of girls in your friendslist suddenly..." or something xd, hmm maybe not such a good sentence. |
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