my x fell in love with me, AGAIN, i need a gurls advice, guys r welcome Options

[gothoo]

in the sixth grade i went out with Kathrine Rhodes, a seventh grader, and i mooved on the last day of school, and never got her number, i missed her all summer, and the next school year, and we grew apart, i started liking cherae, DONT TELL HER ZAGE, and cherae, and i are so close as friends, we can say i love you on the phone and not get freaked out about it, well, at my eighth grade graduatin, after finding kathrines fone# and mooving back to my old house away from cherae and telling kathrine i was goth, i saw her, and on graduation i had to wear bluejeans, YUK! she said " i thought you were gothic" and we hugged for 10 minutes and i told her why i was wearing the pants, and during graduation, he best friends who were guys told me she wants to go back out wit me, and i told them i have a gf, witch i dont, and i need to know if i should tell kathring me and my imaginary gf broke up and go out with her, or keep pretending.

Ps. kathrine is BI and she throws herself at guys, and she might do drugs, i dont wanna get involved with all that, but going out with a sophmore could be good 4 me, and she is goth as well.

Thank you

[shadow9677864]

I think that you should go with your imaginary friend.
(continue with the story)
~*sHaDoW*~

[ryfitaDF]

well you should pick who you like cause they're "goth". like somone you get along with, reguardless of their wardrobe and taste in music.

YUK! she said " i thought you were gothic"

she sounds like a real idiot.

why would you lie about an inaginary g'f? that's pretty silly. you shouldn't have done it.

don't go out with older girls. dude, girls your own age are smarter and more mature than you. how are you gunna compare to somone older than you?

she's bi? that's bad. now she can cheat on you with ANYONE.

allright. from what i've observed in your situation, i say leave her alone. she sounds reeeeeeeaaaaaaaallllllyy stupid.

you decide, though.

[SarahxJoy]

Okay, well I don't think you should've lied in the first place, but I can see where you're coming from. I think that you should think about whether or not you have feelings for Katherine. If not, then there's no real reason to go out with her. I mean, if it's "good for you", then that's just using her and it's not right. I think you should tell her that you and your "imaginary gf" broke up, just so she knows that you didn't like because that'd hurt, but say that you don't want to be in a relationship. But then again, it's all up to you. Go with your emotions and decide.

[crazeegirl411]

Ps. kathrine is BI and she throws herself at guys, and she might do drugs, i dont wanna get involved with all that, but going out with a sophmore could be good 4 me, and she is goth as well.

Thank you

To tell you the truth, I only got bits and pieces of what you said. I wasn't sure if you should go with the girl or not until you wrote the P.S. If she might do drugs, never date her. And going out with a girl just because she's sophomore doesn't make sense. If you go with her just because of her title, then don't ask her. And agreeing with the people above me...shouldn't have lied, and she does sound like an idiot.

Conclusion: no, don't date her. Unless you fell in love with her also.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

well you should pick who you like cause they're "goth". like somone you get along with, reguardless of their wardrobe and taste in music.



she sounds like a real idiot.

why would you lie about an inaginary g'f? that's pretty silly. you shouldn't have done it.

don't go out with older girls. dude, girls your own age are smarter and more mature than you. how are you gunna compare to somone older than you?

she's bi? that's bad. now she can cheat on you with ANYONE.

allright. from what i've observed in your situation, i say leave her alone. she sounds reeeeeeeaaaaaaaallllllyy stupid.

you decide, though.

^^ i agree with him.

UNLESS YOU PLAN TO LOSE TO A GIRL!!! ahahaha...eerrrr...i`ll stop.

so?? she fell in love with you again. does that mean you HAVE TO go out with her again??

but damn....imaginary girlfriend?? LOL! you`re a BAD, bad example of a guy.

think about it. is she worth it?

if not...then just find someone new.

[gothoo]

Okay, well I don't think you should've lied in the first place, but I can see where you're coming from. I think that you should think about whether or not you have feelings for Katherine. If not, then there's no real reason to go out with her. I mean, if it's "good for you", then that's just using her and it's not right. I think you should tell her that you and your "imaginary gf" broke up, just so she knows that you didn't like because that'd hurt, but say that you don't want to be in a relationship. But then again, it's all up to you. Go with your emotions and decide.

i did tell her we broke up...

[conster]

arent u in love wit erin...

[*CEP*]

Dude! I just realized that that whole paragraph was a huge sentence.
Wow. haha.
How can going out with a sophomore be good for you?
Popularity points? But I thought goths didn't give a f*ck.
Hm...

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[inthemudhole]

Dude! I just realized that that whole paragraph was a huge sentence.
Wow. haha.
How can going out with a sophomore be good for you?
Popularity points? But I thought goths didn't give a f*ck.
Hm...

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Lmao. I know.
HUGE sentence.. like some people's xanga entries..

And exactly about the popularity points thing Jose said..

Uhh, just MOVE on.

[Cynthee]

well...all I can say is that i was confused during the whole time that I was reading it...>_>

but yeaa...

arent u in love wit erin...

wow...yeaa...i was just about to go answer the one too...

[HaN4RaNg]

well you should pick who you like cause they're "goth". like somone you get along with, reguardless of their wardrobe and taste in music.



she sounds like a real idiot.

why would you lie about an inaginary g'f? that's pretty silly. you shouldn't have done it.

don't go out with older girls. dude, girls your own age are smarter and more mature than you. how are you gunna compare to somone older than you?

she's bi? that's bad. now she can cheat on you with ANYONE.

allright. from what i've observed in your situation, i say leave her alone. she sounds reeeeeeeaaaaaaaallllllyy stupid.

you decide, though.

^ pwuahahaha. way to make him feel better XDDD


ermm... yeah ROFL, wat do ur blue jeans have to do with this? lol sorry, just a bit curious cus that came out of nowhere

and then why does cherae come and leave in this drama?

i dont understand why u lied about having an imaginary girlfriend.. -___-;;. that wasnt a smart move.

my advice? leave the Katerine girl alone.. leave the imaginary girl alone.. move on.

[xtiffysweetzx]

my opinion..ur still young..u juss started high school..theres a whole world of girls out there who ur bound to like..so..dont get pinned down by this one girl...wait for the one who you really like..ur bound to find more

[chica777708]

I htin u should stay w/ an imagionary gf then... find some1 ur age and go out w/ them becaz she is Bi and anything could happen ok sorri if ur life gets screwed up, from me lol hope u figure it out.

[sandra]

dont go for katherine, she'll cheat on u for sure since she throws herself at guys. and next time, dont lie!

[Counting]

Imaginary friends are better than the real ones --;

[Rice_on_my_shoe]

Yes. go with The Imaginary G/f. Katherine sounds mean and she Might do drugs! If you date her, when she Goes down She'll Take you along with her.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Ps. kathrine is BI and she throws herself at guys, and she might do drugs, i dont wanna get involved with all that, but going out with a sophmore could be good 4 me, and she is goth as well.

Thank you

If you don't want to get involved with drugs, I say you continue to keep pretending. *shrugs* There are plenty other goths around and it's not just her.

[gothoo]

well kathrine is going out with jill now so...

[conster]

u never answered my question lol.. werent u in love wit erin? wen u posted this.

[melface]

So, what's your point? what's your problem? what do you need advice on... I think I stopped reading after i read the goth part...

[ohBrian]

dude... your guys are one year apart? ... come on man you can do better than that... go hit on ladies who are 5years older than you... THEYLL TREAT YOU LIKE MILK, THEYLL DO NOTHING BUT SPOIL YOU!

[rainnydaiis]

dude... i say... do what your heart says... seriously even in this situation i wouldn't know what to do... and saying you got a imaginary gf was a bad bad bad bad idea..

[Too Asian To DIE]

dude... i say... do what your heart says... seriously even in this situation i wouldn't know what to do... and saying you got a imaginary gf was a bad bad bad bad idea..

i tottally agree^

[gothicvengeance]

but going out with a sophmore could be good 4 me, and she is goth as well.

Okay, no offense, but that sentence is just completely stupid. I've seen polar opposites date each other and be happy. What her label is does NOT MATTER. I agree with several people above, saying you had an imaginary gf wasn't the best idea, but from your description, katherine doesn't sound all that great. If she throws herself at guys and she might do drugs, my advice would be to not be with her...