My mother doesn't know I've had my first period. |
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 Nov 12 2008, 10:13 PM
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I've had my period for over a year now.
I've not told my mom. I feel way to uncomfortable around her.. and talking to her. What should I do? Tell her while on my period that I got it. or Tell her I got it over a year ago? Should I even tell her? Help? |
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Nov 12 2008, 10:14 PM
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!~@*&+;$ Group: Member Posts: 1,033 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 579,371 |
leave a bunch of tampon wrappers around the house.
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Nov 12 2008, 10:15 PM
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I'll pass on that. lol
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Nov 12 2008, 10:17 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
I would tell her. yeah of course its uncomfortable i was too. When i first started mine i was really scared to tell my mom but i was also scared because i didnt know how to handle it well and i told her and made me feel a lot better : D
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Nov 12 2008, 10:17 PM
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Yea. but I'm not scared of having it. It's telling her. >.<
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Nov 12 2008, 10:20 PM
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May I ask why you're so afraid of telling your mom about this? It's not like it's anything out of the ordinary.
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Nov 12 2008, 10:20 PM
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!~@*&+;$ Group: Member Posts: 1,033 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 579,371 |
leave your period stained panties around the house.
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Nov 12 2008, 10:24 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(Joannnnnne @ Nov 12 2008, 10:20 PM)  May I ask why you're so afraid of telling your mom about this? It's not like it's anything out of the ordinary. i do agree with joanne about that, its not that scary, its probably more embarassing but its better to have her know than to hide it from her. Sooner or later she will probably wonder why your not having your period if you dont tell her. |
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Nov 12 2008, 10:26 PM
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I'm scared because we're not close and It's uncomfortable to tell her. and it's been over a year since I got my first period. That's why.
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Nov 13 2008, 01:22 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
This is straight out of Carrie.
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Nov 13 2008, 01:26 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(hi-C @ Nov 13 2008, 01:22 PM) This is straight out of Carrie. LOL. you should tell her though. i understand its uncomfortable, but she'll make you feel better. i wasn't close with my mom when i told her. she just explained to me what it was and blah blah blah. but its not scary. |
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Nov 13 2008, 01:49 PM
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I would tell her
Face your fears, are you nervous to tell her cause you dont know her reaction? i was nervous too, i told my mum though and she was calm, though it was easier because my sister started a month before me. but you can be afraid, tell her you have and whatever her reaction is explain to her that you've had it over month im surpised your able to keep this secre over a year from her |
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Nov 13 2008, 01:55 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(Twist3d @ Nov 12 2008, 10:26 PM) I'm scared because we're not close and It's uncomfortable to tell her. and it's been over a year since I got my first period. That's why. Just tell her. it will probably the one and only time you will ever have to discuss about it again. |
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Nov 13 2008, 04:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
that is a really good point there
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Nov 13 2008, 06:04 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
QUOTE(hi-C @ Nov 13 2008, 01:22 PM) This is straight out of Carrie. That's exactly what I was thinking! If your mom is like the one in Carrie...don't tell her. |
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Nov 21 2008, 09:47 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think the best way is to say, mom i need to start buying my feminine needs! like in a goofy way. cause thats what i did, i said "Mom, I need to start buying pads!" and i started laughing. cause i tried to brush it off so it wouldn't be a big deal. i think thats the best way. instead of saying i got my period in a serious tone. because it's just purely awkward! heh, hope it helps!
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Nov 24 2008, 12:09 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
so why'd you create 2 topics for essentially the same thing?
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Nov 27 2008, 04:06 AM
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i don't really know why ur hiding this from ur mom
like what are u scared of? its not ur pregnant or anything |
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