I'm in love, And she left me Options

[Euphorian]

Created a new account for privacy's sake.

How should I put this? Alright, she, one day, popped into my life, she was a friend of someone I knew, and I immediatly felt this warm feeling when she first talked to me...I thought maybe...but I quickly put that in the back of my mind, and I continued to get to know her, and I started to like her. We would have hours of conversations, and we would always have something to say. It was so exciting to talk to her... So one day, I was talking to her on the phone, and she started up the conversation that she heard someone tell her that I liked her.

So, I was thinking, "shit!" I didnt really want to tell her yet, but it just happened... We went out for about 2 months, ( yes, 2 months, but before you call me an idiot for loving her after 2 months, read what I have to say. Er....try to say. ) All was well, and I liked her alot, but I didn't think it was love quite yet...but I felt like I may soon love her...

So then, I introduced her to my friend, and they talked...a little too much. They started talking, and they would have their inside jokes, and what-not. So, am I wrong to become jealous? My friend continued to talk about my girlfriend, and how she was nice and all, I know, compliments are compliments, but he was talking about her toomuch. Ah! The aggravation.

I told her I was jealous after about 2 weeks of keeping it inside, and then she dumped me. Ouch. I went over to my friends house, ( yes the same friend , and no, I didn't bring a bat to his head like some people may do. ) and I...cried...never had I thought I would cry over a girl.

What was worse was...he didn't realize, that it was his fault too. I felt stuck, unable to move...I cheered up in 2 hours or so, but I still felt empty...She said she still wanted to be friends, but you know what? I realized how you girls/guys always want to be friends after you tear out our hearts and shove it down our god-damn throats.

But I guess at least she wants to be friends? She did some other stuff that was pretty mean, but I'm not gonna say, just because. After she dumped me, and a few days later, even though she was doing all this mean stuff to me after she dumped me, I realized...I...love her... Even now, I want to talk to her, but I just can't unless she first talks to me...I know that I love someone I can't have...Its frustrating to know that when your heart aches for that person..to be close...

I heard from someone she still likes me...Then the question arises, like, WHY DID SHE DUMP ME? I couldn't go back out with her, even if she did like me...I just can't. Yes, I want to go out with her, but it won't be the same. I won't have happy conversations with her, and being close with her wont be the same. So now, I say again, just to end it because this is a long-ass post.

I love her.

[starmodel88]

that is so sad...omg...you just said what i've tried to say for about a month now. my boyfriend broke up with me 4 days short of two months...i know you can love her b/c i love him so much...it is possible to feel that way about someone that soon...anyway back to the topic....just be friends...eventually maybe things will work out and you'll get back to where you were...when he broke up with me, it was the 3rd time we had went out...our love for each other just came back...this time i feel it may be for good...but i can't let him go b/c i love him...just try to make things work...i normally would say TALK to her, but i know how you feel about calling...since they are the one who ended it...just pray she'll call...that's what i'm hoping for...keep in touch so i know how things are goin and maybe you can help me...

[saintsaens]

that is so sad...omg...you just said what i've tried to say for about a month now.  my boyfriend broke up with me 4 days short of two months...i know you can love her b/c i love him so much...it is possible to feel that way about someone that soon...anyway back to the topic....just be friends...eventually maybe things will work out and you'll get back to where you were...when he broke up with me, it was the 3rd time we had went out...our love for each other just came back...this time i feel it may be for good...but i can't let him go b/c i love him...just try to make things work...i normally would say TALK to her, but i know how you feel about calling...since they are the one who ended it...just pray she'll call...that's what i'm hoping for...keep in touch so i know how things are goin and maybe you can help me...

Man, life sucks.

[starmodel88]

i know there's not much anyone can say or do because the only thing that can make things better is if the person that you love realizes just how much they love you too

[swe3txprincesz]

aww dats so sad at furst i thought yur friend would go out wit hur...well n`e whos jest try talking to hur jest start up a randomn conversation like the weather or something...

[h22fanatik]

i think the best thing is to move on and don't look back. if u do get back with her, there's a big possibility that she'll just hurt u again and obviously ur hurting enough already and its only been 2 months. if she doesnt have the same feelings for u as u do for her, then she's clearly not the one.

[starmodel88]

but when you're in love its easier to say that than to actually do it....if you love someone you can't forget about them no matter what...period. but yes they will hurt you again cause the person i love has hurt me twice but i love him so much i'll let him do it again just to get to be with them for a little while before they do it..its just the way it iz

[shawty_redd]

aww thats so sad...you poor thing

[pbear]

Try as hard as you can to move on.
Don't linger by the phone, waiting for her to call.
Hang out with your other friends, and slowly build up your other friendship again.

Or you can just mope around and stalk her until she gets a restraining order on you.

It's all your choice.

[h22fanatik]

but when you're in love its easier to say that than to actually do it....if you love someone you can't forget about them no matter what...period. but yes they will hurt you again cause the person i love has hurt me twice but i love him so much i'll let him do it again just to get to be with them for a little while before they do it..its just the way it iz

i understand cuz i've experienced it unfortunately. just try and keep urself busy. hang out with ur boys. remember: there are other fishes in the sea. one day a girl will come ur way and u both will share the same feelings.

[XaZnX07]

hey i think you should ask her why she dumped you cause i really loved a girl to and she dumped out of the blue i was like wtf!!!!! but i was to scared to ask her why she did it i mean what if she was scared she was starting to love me and dumped cause she was afraid to lose me when she loved me see now i live in regret i should of ask man dont do this to your self and ask her why she did it cause you dont want to live a life think what if i asked her ? well i hope i helped you good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!








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[babygurl_xtacy]

i think you should find out the reason why she dumped you.. then start from there

[ThePrincessofTKD]

that`s pretty much retarded. and i`ve noticed...it`s not good for a girl to have a guy best friend and then have a boyfriend. THE FREAKIN` GIRL WOULD FALL FOR THE FREAKIN` GUY BEST FRIEND INSTEAD OF THE BOYFRIEND.

that`s really horrible. and i feel sorry for the boyfriend.

i would either forget about her for what she did to you or ask why she dumped you in the first place. if she says she likes your friend THEN FORGET HER. forget being friends with her.

so many people say they fall in love alot. so you`ll fall in love again. with a different girl.

it`s kinda pointless to get back together...i mean...after the FIRST break-up..you would learn NOT to go back with the same person.

learn from your mistakes people.

[starmodel88]

if you love them you will...

[*jooleeah*]

i think you should find out the reason why she dumped you.. then start from there 

agreed. it'll be hard to talk to her about it...but just try your best. hope you get better

[saintsaens]

that`s pretty much retarded. and i`ve noticed...it`s not good for a girl to have a guy best friend and then have a boyfriend. THE FREAKIN` GIRL WOULD FALL FOR THE FREAKIN` GUY BEST FRIEND INSTEAD OF THE BOYFRIEND.

that`s really horrible. and i feel sorry for the boyfriend.

i would either forget about her for what she did to you or ask why she dumped you in the first place. if she says she likes your friend THEN FORGET HER. forget being friends with her.

so many people say they fall in love alot. so you`ll fall in love again. with a different girl.

it`s kinda pointless to get back together...i mean...after the FIRST break-up..you would learn NOT to go back with the same person.

learn from your mistakes people.

Actually, sounds like he meant to say that he was her friend, then became her boyfriend. Then the boy-friend introduced his friend to her. Am I right?

[ur_my_sweety20]

that`s pretty much retarded. and i`ve noticed...it`s not good for a girl to have a guy best friend and then have a boyfriend. THE FREAKIN` GIRL WOULD FALL FOR THE FREAKIN` GUY BEST FRIEND INSTEAD OF THE BOYFRIEND.

i would have to disagree with this...i have a boyfriend...and i have best guy friends... but its different between me and my bf and between me and my best guy friend...it might be because my best guy friend has a gf...and it might be because my best guy friend is my boyfriends best friend...i dont know though...

[Mini]

you need a boost of HUGGLES!

yeah if she dumped you the first time, she migh dump you again. so u shouldnt really go out with her.

[illmizzkim]

What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Life sucks, doesn't it? I've been in a situation like this before as well, but time heals your wounds.. it's only the matter of letting your wounds heal completely or letting it leave scars.

Just have a talk with her--get your feelings out. If you don't, then you'll always end up wondering what could have happened. At least you know that you tried.

But hey, if she's going to leave you for someone else after you loved her, then I don't think she's worth your tears. I know it's hard to understand now, but you'll look back on it with a smile.

Cheer up!

[ji_cabinx]

that's really sad...poor you...maybe u should try asking her out again...who knows...u might hit it off again!

[bbyxstac3y]

aww yoo poor ding its pretty sadd
and mayb iph yoo guys tlk and still friends
and still realli realli close
yoo no wat? yoo probabli get another chance
to be wif her agen x]

[Darkpekkle]

i've been in a similar situation, so i guess i know how you feel. at least she's willing to be friends- that's a good start. you can ask her why she left you, and hope she'll be truthful about it. if she avoids the subject, then there's nothing you can really do. in the meanwhile, keep busy. hang out wiht a bunch of your friends ,do something fun...

[ichiban]

Aww ... well why don't you tlk to yer friend bout it? and then talk to yer .. ex .. and .. work it out! i hope it'll be cool afterewards

[dani41790]

aww im so srry that happend. mayb u should tell her how ya feel