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 Jun 30 2004, 12:20 AM
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 Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,111  |
does it annoy anyone else when ppl use gay as a derogatory term? cuz it annoys me. and it honestly gets on my nerves when some of my friends do so [thankfully most my friends are more considerate then that]. if i hear someone i kno use gay as a derogatory term, i ask them not to...and its usually okay. except for these stupid guys in my class who start joking about it..whatever. theyre jerks. but honestly...whats up with that? what if the person you were talking to was gay? i certainly wouldnt be very happy at all if ppl were using my sexual preference as a diss...grrrr. the same with when ppl use retarded as a derogatory term. retarded ppl dont choose to have their brains develop slower; theyre born that way. and given a choice between being mentally retarded and being relatively "normal" i truly doubt someone would choose to be mentally retarded.
 haha sorry. i have lots of complaints sometimes abt what i see around me... =/ |
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Jun 30 2004, 12:27 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
lolz i dont find it annoying, i just think its wrong. thats why im trying not to use the word gay or fruity as a derogatory term anymore
 (but i cant help it if it just slips out..)
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Jun 30 2004, 12:41 AM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
i dont get it.. whats a domokunadfhgafga or w.e term? haha im sorry im a step slow..
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Jun 30 2004, 01:25 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
yeah.. so many of the same topic and stufff.. do people have something against people or something.. if you cant say something good.. dont say something at all.. ehh.. alright..
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Jun 30 2004, 02:00 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
i know what you mean .. but no matter what you do you'll always come across ignorant people like that who'll use derogatory terms with no regard or consideration to other people ..
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Jun 30 2004, 03:10 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
it doesnt annoy me. i noe its kinda wrong though. i try not to sae it as much as i can.
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Jun 30 2004, 03:14 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
no
this thread is gay  
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Jun 30 2004, 06:52 AM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
I'm not annoyed by it, because "gay" or "retarded" is all but a mere term for those people also. If people say "blah blah blah is gay," I take it as a new definition of "gay" but not of a derogatory term. I don't think of those people very much different from us, and I don't treat them any different. But if those people are referriing it to as that...then I wouldn't be mad, not annoyed
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Jun 30 2004, 08:09 AM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
It does annoy me very much to here people say that because then it seems like bein gay is a very bad thing to do which it is not but goes for who u like i mean i like guys but some women prefer women and i think thats ok i don't have a problem and when people use the term gay as in like verbal fighting they don't realize that bein gay is not that bad and i think gay is ok.
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Jun 30 2004, 09:50 AM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 1,105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,600 |
ummm i dont reallie get waht yur sayin
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Jun 30 2004, 10:04 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,828 |
sorry not trying to whore ur thread, but how is this topic related to relationships? btw, i use the word "gay" all the time but it's never intended to annoy others.
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Jun 30 2004, 10:25 AM
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 Ai = Love. No Duh. Group: Member Posts: 251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,162 |
OMG. You sound exactly EXACTLY like my friend...
but yeah, it's kinda wrong to hear it all the time. |
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Jun 30 2004, 05:01 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Member Posts: 1,666 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,225 |
it doesn't annoy me, but i agree, it must feel very bad for those people who are gay or retarted...
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Jun 30 2004, 11:31 PM
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 C-(^^Q) Ka-Pow Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,320 |
QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jun 30 2004, 7:52 AM) I'm not annoyed by it, because "gay" or "retarded" is all but a mere term for those people also. If people say "blah blah blah is gay," I take it as a new definition of "gay" but not of a derogatory term. I don't think of those people very much different from us, and I don't treat them any different. But if those people are referriing it to as that...then I wouldn't be mad, not annoyed .i agree wif her 
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Jun 30 2004, 11:37 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Mm .. I don't really mind
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Jul 1 2004, 12:41 AM
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QUOTE(d3v1l1ci0us @ Jun 30 2004, 12:41 AM) i dont get it.. whats a domokunadfhgafga or w.e term? haha im sorry im a step slow.. it means like you dont use it in the proper way you should use it. like a lot of people use gay for dumb and stupid or bad like "wow that is sooo gay" or "dude that kid is sooo gay (dumb)" instead of using it the correct way like "my friend is gay (not strait or happy)" i guess lol but umm i dont find it annoying but im trying to stop using it cuz yea.. its not cool |
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Jul 1 2004, 01:22 AM
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 samurai champloo! Group: Member Posts: 748 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 2 |
It means happy
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Jul 12 2004, 08:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
umm sometimes it jus slipped outta mai mouth...i dun wanna use it especialliee wen one of mai friends are there buh its jus a habit ding i guess
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Jul 12 2004, 01:57 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oo yeah.. it sorta annoying if i dink i noe wut ur talking about o_O
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Jul 12 2004, 01:59 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
whenever someone says , say, a test is gay, i merely reply
i don't see how a piece of paper can have a sexual orientation. it's funny to see them try to explain that they ment that they didn't like it... |
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Jul 12 2004, 01:59 PM
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 !shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
it sounds weird.. that's all i have to say about that.. ^^;
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Jul 12 2004, 03:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Well, I say it pretty much all the time when I'm really pissed off. I'm sorry to anybody that I offend, but nobody has told me so far to not say that anymore. But if you were talking to me and asked me to stop, I would.
Are you gay?? Because, well it may only bother you because you are that. So, think about it. Maybe some people use it because it doesn't bother them. 
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Jul 14 2004, 01:19 AM
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u nO u lub meEh..heh Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,402 |
heh heh....well see...im tryna not sey it ne mo...cuz lik...jeah im lik totally not str8 lolz...and lik i always sey "o thas heller gay"er...deng u ish a weetard"..buh lik i dont mean it lik i hate gays..or ish bad...cuz lik...omg i am!...and i hab relatives that happen to b lik dat ( mentally chanlenged i mean )....and lik it jus slips out..and my gyrlfren..wel she gets mad wen i sey it....lik wunce i sed it..and she was lik well....im bi thank u very much...and she went on and on wit her fren...omg i tryed to sey sry buh she wouldnt listen lolz...so i put on a pout face,....and she felt bad so i gotta kiss HAHA....buh jeah...sry this ish so long..i talk to much...buh jeah IM NOT GONNA DO IT NE MO....im tryin!!
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Jul 14 2004, 03:00 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
gets on my nerves only when i get called that by my friends cuz i out do them in something...but i say "ur a fag" and stuff too... i know its wrong but i know their not so i dont really mean "ur a homosexual" lol..u get me?
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Jul 14 2004, 11:09 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I use it. I don't care.
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