Did he know..., that you were a virgin |
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 Sep 9 2008, 06:04 PM
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For all my life I've been a sweet and seemingly innocent girl, but for the longest time I've always felt a strong desire to be... bad
 .So when I got to college, and was on my own schedule, there was this really nice, smart guy in my microbiology class who seemed to have taken a deep interest in me. I never really picked up how to flirt in high school, but this guy made it so easy because he was the type that was patient and authentically nice. We laughed a lot and eventually got together. Now he was older; thus, being the fly guy he was, I knew he was also more 'experienced.' I wasn't. When things started to get heavy, I acted as if I was simply playing hard-to-get. He loved it, but I was really just catching up on how to have sex. I watched a lot of porn, lol. A LOT- like how a freak would. And I read a lot too. Being the study-type, perfectionist, I wanted to make sure that if I banged him, I'd bang him dam good for the first time. SO when we got to that point. DAM. I was so glad he was so comfortable and patient with me. I never told him I was a virgin, but he took things slow, and kinda found out the kinks fast, and pretty well with me. I didn't have to do much work. My first time was great. I only told him that he devirginized me our 3rd time which was like the 3rd day, lol. He was surprised- he had no clue. So, did he know you were a virgin? |
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Sep 9 2008, 06:07 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Dude, reading that made me kinda horny now...
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Sep 9 2008, 06:13 PM
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Didn't know Microbio was where all the freaks were.
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Sep 9 2008, 06:20 PM
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Aw, man. The good, smart girls in high school who took only AP classes are the biggest freaks when they get confident and aren't bound by parents and social expectations.
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Sep 9 2008, 06:29 PM
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Thats a lie, all the nerdy girls I know are too busy trying to get a 4.0 at Berkeley. Oh and they are saving it for marriage.
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Sep 9 2008, 06:39 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
QUOTE(aznlyka @ Sep 9 2008, 07:04 PM)  Being the study-type, perfectionist, I wanted to make sure that if I banged him, I'd bang him dam good for the first time.  i kinda know what you mean by that. & to answer your question, yes he did know. he never directly asked but somehow we talked about it & i told him. he was really sweet & patient like your guy.
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Sep 9 2008, 07:03 PM
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QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 06:29 PM) Thats a lie, all the nerdy girls I know are too busy trying to get a 4.0 at Berkeley. Oh and they are saving it for marriage. Haha. True. Maybe. Some smart girls want more than just good grades. Some are too tired of trying for points and want to experience how it's like to be loose and have some dirty, old fun. And the marriage thing- I felt the same way in high school, but once you taste it, you can't get enough. Especially when it's a guy you really really admire. |
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Sep 9 2008, 07:05 PM
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Alrite, good point, I will rape every girl I see.
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Sep 9 2008, 07:08 PM
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QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 07:05 PM) Alrite, good point, I will rape every girl I see.  um... don't do that. |
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Sep 9 2008, 07:12 PM
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...But you said... QUOTE(aznlyka @ Sep 9 2008, 05:03 PM) I felt the same way in high school, but once you taste it, you can't get enough. YOU LIED TO MEEEEEEE. |
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Sep 9 2008, 07:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
The guy I lost my virginity knew I was a virgin. I think that's why he wanted it so bad.
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Sep 9 2008, 08:11 PM
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QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 07:12 PM) ...But you said... YOU LIED TO MEEEEEEE. You're interpretation of what I said is weird. I don't know how it could lead you to think rape. Um, what I actually meant was... there is no better feeling than making someone I love feel physically and maybe spiritually good. Once I had that whole, happy, loving experience shared with him, I wanted that intimacy and lovey-dovey feeling to be felt all the time. I couldn't get enough of his loving. |
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Sep 9 2008, 08:14 PM
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Lol, its ok, I was just joking, I'm fully aware what your meaning was and I agree.
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Sep 9 2008, 08:17 PM
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oh. otay.
 LOL I didn't know. |
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Sep 9 2008, 08:47 PM
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he knew. i was damn young.
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Sep 9 2008, 08:50 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
i've always known if the girl was or not. we've always talked about that at some time prior to it...
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Sep 9 2008, 09:14 PM
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Does anyone think not saying that your a virgin before your first time with someone is wrong?
For some time before I knew I wanted to go deep with my man, I felt so scared of being a total dork when the whole bang went down. I was deadly afraid that I wouldn't be able to take it. That's why I loaded up on the porn and reading, I wanted to educate myself with some kinda skill that wouldn't have myself exposed as a prude kinda girl who didn't know what she was doing when I was with a guy who was so well-rounded and cool. If I didn't "educate" myself, I think I may have had different results. For girls who don't want to watch porn or buy books on sex, I think it may be important to inform your experienced guy of the uncertainty you have, how much you can take, how slow should he go. Am I right? and experienced guys, would you want to know if your lady was still virgin so that you won't hurt her, or go too fast. Right? or would you prefer them to be like me and do the dirty studying and then see how it goes with the real thing? |
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Sep 9 2008, 09:26 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
seems like it would be hard to make yourself seem like you're experienced and physically able to handle that if you've never done it. i mean i don't really get how watching porn or reading some articles online would make you physically able to do it without letting on that you haven't before.
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Sep 9 2008, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 9 2008, 09:26 PM) seems like it would be hard to make yourself seem like you're experienced and physically able to handle that if you've never done it. i mean i don't really get how watching porn or reading some articles online would make you physically able to do it without letting on that you haven't before. Totally true. I didn't really think he would be convinced once we went down to it, but from the way I was prior to sex, I believed that he felt I had some experience even though I didn't. And I'll remind you that he did most of the work just because he's that type of guy. A good man that leads. So that was a plus for me. My simple confidence, and simply wanting to make him feel good might have compensate with not having any prior experience. The porn and reading maybe just served as knowing what to expect. |
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Sep 9 2008, 09:53 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Aznlyka, do you got pics? I think I could help you more if you provide pictures.
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Sep 9 2008, 11:08 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
uhhh. well we both asked each other if we were or were not. he was a virgin and i was too and i was actually more shocked on his part. only because i always thought he wasnt/had sex already. if you knew that mofo aka my ex, you would know.
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Sep 10 2008, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Sep 9 2008, 09:53 PM) Aznlyka, do you got pics? I think I could help you more if you provide pictures. I'm not exactly sure what is meant by that Tung- I never needed help.  _ lol, funny. I think a guy experiences losing it differently. It seems more meaningful for a chick. She takes it inside her. Accepting it internally. It's poetic when you think about it. She can consume him with whats inside. The guy can't feel her inside him (unless he gets a little weird with the anal jazz), but she can. |
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Sep 10 2008, 12:55 AM
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He wants to see if you are cute.
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Sep 10 2008, 09:10 AM
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No thanks. I don't take part in online infatuation. But it's nice to make someone turned on by words.
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Sep 10 2008, 01:16 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Uh huh..how about a pix?
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Sep 10 2008, 08:06 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Sep 10 2008, 01:16 PM) Uh huh..how about a pix?   I was 3. |
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Sep 12 2008, 12:21 PM
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Am still virgin :D
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Sep 14 2008, 03:20 AM
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 (Allison) Group: Human Posts: 420 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,668 |
Yep, he knew. He was a virgin too.
But we knew each other since I was in 3rd grade, so he'd be one of the first I'd brag to if I lost my virginity to someone else. |
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Sep 17 2008, 04:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,206 |
^ aww that's cute. That what I ideally wanted to happen- do it with someone I had known for my entire life.
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Sep 18 2008, 05:53 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Hahaha, Tung got turned down by a girl. :P
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Sep 19 2008, 06:20 AM
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He knew. In fact, he's my best friend. Hahaha. But like crueldade said, he would've been the first I told if I did it with someone else (:
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