what do i do??? |
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what do i do??? |
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![]() amberlynn♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,704 ![]() |
okay,
on the last day of school my last boyfriend broke up with me with no explanation at all. and a like 2 weeks a go i met this really amazing guy Jordain yesterday one of my exes friends calls me and i can here Dakota my ex in the back ground talking about how he wants me back and everything. i went out with him twice i broke up with him the first time then wanted him back. but i told him why i broke up with him. and now Friday I'm supposed to go to the movies with Jordain but i ant get over the fact that my ex wants me back. what do i do? |
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![]() Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 ![]() |
Well if you have a good reason to break up with your ex before maybe you shouldn't go out with him again. But then again, people do change, you just never know, I suppose it depends on how long ago you dated him.
I think you should give this new guy a chance, you say he's amazing afterall. |
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![]() amberlynn♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,704 ![]() |
i broke up with him in the first place because i just didnt feel the connection like i did at first.
and i forgot to mention when i broke up with him he accused me of cheating on him. and im going to make it perfectly clear i did NOT cheat on him |
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![]() Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 ![]() |
I believe you didn't cheat on him. I actually got accused of the same thing, when in fact I didn't. And if you didn't feel the connection, maybe it isn't a good idea to get back together. I mean I don't know how much that will change, I guess if you wanted to find out you can but that is intirely up to you hun.
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![]() amberlynn♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,704 ![]() |
yeah i know thanks for the help anyway.
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![]() Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 ![]() |
You'll figure it out. Everything works out how it's supposed to.
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![]() amberlynn♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,704 ![]() |
lol i guess
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
QUOTE yesterday one of my exes friends calls me and i can here Dakota my ex in the back ground talking about how he wants me back and everything. That's the iffy part for me.I think that if he wants you back, he will come to you. Otherwise, let it go. You broke up with him and probably had a good reason to. You've already moved on and met new people, so why open old wounds? |
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![]() x_pinaystyle_x ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326 ![]() |
just forget the guy!! you guys break up because he accused you falsely of cheating on him!!
if he doesn't want to believe you, then FINE!! go see other people.. have fun!! |
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#10
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![]() poison ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 ![]() |
decisions are always a hard thing.
I would go to the movies with Jordain and see if you like being with him. Also i would talk to your Ex and ask why he broke up with you. Then maybe talk to Jordain and see what he thinks about you. I would just compare the two and just sit down and think about who you want to be with more |
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![]() <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 ![]() |
i agree with everyone else who thinks you should move on and let the past be the past. if you broke up with your ex you must have had good reasons, so why go back to him now? don't live today by what happened yesterday, just let it go and move on with your life. give this new guy a chance, you never know what could happen...
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![]() BeUnique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 ![]() |
ageed. move on . change is good. Change =Jordain
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![]() amberlynn♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,704 ![]() |
thats good because i really like jordin
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![]() here, here, and here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 ![]() |
Move on. Tell him to move on. You found someone that is good to you so tell him to fuck off lol
Jordan ftw |
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![]() <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 ![]() |
I think that if he wants you back, he will come to you. Otherwise, let it go. You broke up with him and probably had a good reason to. You've already moved on and met new people, so why open old wounds? EXACTLY. just because you heard him it doesnt neccesarly mean he wants you back. you should wait until he does the first move. |
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,964 ![]() |
forget the ex he's not worth it
and don't even ask him for the reason why he broke up with you cause then he will think you're too easy to play around with! |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 271 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 624,580 ![]() |
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
^ Well, that doesn't add anything to the topic at hand. Also, the OP already said that she is moving on. So to keep from other random comments, Topic Closed.
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