"You're too good for me..., ... therefore we can't be together?" |
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 Jul 19 2008, 12:06 AM
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I think that's the lamest reason to decide NOT to be with someone. Hell, if they're too good for you and you both know it, yet they still want to be with you...
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Jul 19 2008, 12:11 AM
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Maybe the person is insecure. If they get together with someone who they think is "too good" for them, then they'll always feel like they're not deserving of the other person's affections. It'll only make them feel like a bad person since they feel like they're the reason why they're holding back the other.
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Jul 19 2008, 12:16 AM
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"you're too good for me" is not a real reason. if a person can't love oneself, then that person cannot love another. the real reason behind that bullshit is "i dislike/hate myself."
QUOTE(Butterflyphoenix @ Jul 18 2008, 07:11 PM)  Maybe the person is insecure. If they get together with someone who they think is "too good" for them, then they'll always feel like they're not deserving of the other person's affections. It'll only make them feel like a bad person since they feel like they're the reason why they're holding back the other. it's a sweet compliment when one states that s/he's "undeserving" of a significant other's love --it's basically another corny way to say, "i'm very lucky to be with you"; however, for someone to use that phrase as an excuse to not be with someone is not only untruthful, but pathetic -_-. we all have our times of insecurity within relationships, but for a person to think that someone is "too good" for him/her (and actually be serious about it) is just sad. |
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Jul 19 2008, 12:20 AM
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 Jooleeah <3 Group: Official Designer Posts: 687 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 662,481 |
OMG I hate that shit. I know a person like that & I just ignore it most of the time. Inside though I'm like "STFU you pussy! Do something with your life!"
Insecurity is one of my biggest turn offs. |
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Jul 19 2008, 02:52 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
If someone says that, it doesn't even involve the other person. It's a problem that they have with themselves. I've heard a lot of people say "Oh she's too good for him" or "He's too good to her" about other people's relationships. I wonder if there's any truth to it.
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Jul 19 2008, 03:33 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(synkro @ Jul 19 2008, 01:16 AM) "you're too good for me" is not a real reason. if a person can't love oneself, then that person cannot love another. the real reason behind that bullshit is "i dislike/hate myself." we all have our times of insecurity within relationships, but for a person to think that someone is "too good" for him/her (and actually be serious about it) is just sad. *applaud* |
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Jul 19 2008, 05:45 PM
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 AKA RockIt Studios Group: Official Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,809 |
..."you're too good for me."
that's a suicide note right there, yo. |
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Jul 20 2008, 08:31 PM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
'you're lucky to have me.'
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Jul 20 2008, 08:55 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
I hatehatehate when people use that as an excuse.
 At least have a better reason than that for not being with the person. What? Are you gonna wait to find someone whos a total ahole for you?
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Jul 23 2008, 02:32 PM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
he is not being truthful
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Jul 23 2008, 05:49 PM
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synkro said it all.
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Jul 23 2008, 06:02 PM
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My ex boyfriend told me that sometimes, when he wasn't too busy being an a-hole.
He didn't use it as an excuse to break up, but he said it and meant it. I always told him he crazy, that no one is too good for anyone else. But, looking back on it he really didn't deserve me and he knew it. So, maybe it's one of those deals. |
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Jul 23 2008, 06:18 PM
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Sounds like a bunch of BS to me. Just sounds like the person was trying to get out of the relationship.
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Jul 24 2008, 11:41 PM
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 Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
grrrr i freaken hate when guys say that
if i had a penny for every time i heard that damn at least i could buy a new bag lol i mean if im too good for u isnt that like a good thing...props! on getting a hott chick lol idk...wish there was something more to say about this than its some candystand bs |
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Jul 24 2008, 11:42 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
If someone gave me that i would demand for a better answer.
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Jul 26 2008, 11:31 AM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i've gotten this response before. he stated that it would be a good thing for him if we got together, but he just doesn't see it happening.
I think he was just too insecure for himself. hahah, people are lame :/ |
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Jul 28 2008, 10:28 PM
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it's just a bloody excuse
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Jul 28 2008, 11:36 PM
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it's the worst excuse in the book and it only breaks heart.
if you're going to consider saying that to someone, you should really think twice and get real. |
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Jul 28 2008, 11:40 PM
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:3 Group: Member Posts: 422 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 622,527 |
it hurts like hell to hear.
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Jul 29 2008, 11:50 PM
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Prolly just wants ass and doesn't want to commit.
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Jul 30 2008, 10:16 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 672,667 |
Ahhh I hate that excuse I heard that one when my last relationship ended. I think one reason that someone would say that, might be because they cheated on you and they know you didn't deserve it. But, if it isn't for that reason, then it makes no sense really.
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