jerk alert Options

[diamondpiece]

so there's this guy at my new school... he's a junior and i've had a crush on him since the beginning of sophomore year, but he didn't know who i was until 2nd semester and he knows how i feel. we'd usually just text eachother every now and then... and then he tells me that he likes me but not as much as this other girl that he's crushing on "worse than he's ever crushed on a girl" and he says that's the only thing holding him back...

so i know, that when he says that, i should just drop him. but i can't really do that... so any other options for me to stay in the game? lol

[Chii]

I don't think that it's really fair to call him a jerk, he let you know that he is not going to be with you.

You should respect what he says if you want to keep him as a friend and if you want to keep the relationship healthy. Quit before you get hurt. You two would probably be better off as friends anyway. A boyfriend can come and go but a true friend will always be there.

I don't think that anyone should play "games," they're unneccesary and besides, there will always be someone else.

[diamondpiece]

i guess... i'll just have to get over it. i think i'm just like annoyed that he let me know that way. but i'd rather not lose him as a friend.. but then i want him? i'm a little indecisive with this situation. but i feel like, if the other girl crushes him, he's gonna end up "settling for less" because he made it sound like i don't have a chance against her and stuff...

[mizzkewl06]

i agree about him not being a jerk. i think he was just being honest with you. a jerk would have gotten what he could of from you and then just left you hanging. maybe you just need to let it go and distract yourself. don't stress it or feel bad, not everyone you like will like you and vice versa. you don't need to play games or change who you are to be with a guy.

[superstitious]

I don't think that it's really fair to call him a jerk, he let you know that he is not going to be with you.

You should respect what he says if you want to keep him as a friend and if you want to keep the relationship healthy. Quit before you get hurt. You two would probably be better off as friends anyway. A boyfriend can come and go but a true friend will always be there.

I don't think that anyone should play "games," they're unneccesary and besides, there will always be someone else.

Hi Chii! Not sure if you remember me (I've had some name changes), but you and I were made People Staff at the same time. xD (I think that was you).

I don't think that it's fair for you to call him a jerk either. You can't begrudge others' feelings, even if they are not pleasing to you. Unfortunately, chemistry and who you are attracted to is a fickle beast.

I would move on, if you can.

[Kay-]

Yucky juniors.

[karmakiller]

I think that you should be glad that he was honest with you, and wasn't pursuing something behind your back and letting you have feelings for him. That doesn't make him a jerk. In my opinion, if it's something that gets in the way of you two having a friendship than I would say move on. I've had feelings for friends, too, but in time they've passed and we're still friends.

[ReggieM]

find another guy.

[Sandraaa]

I don't think that it's really fair to call him a jerk, he let you know that he is not going to be with you.

You should respect what he says if you want to keep him as a friend and if you want to keep the relationship healthy. Quit before you get hurt. You two would probably be better off as friends anyway. A boyfriend can come and go but a true friend will always be there.

I don't think that anyone should play "games," they're unneccesary and besides, there will always be someone else.

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