Sex + Guy = Ask me., [[Free Ice Cream!]] |
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 May 25 2008, 11:08 PM
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 MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3  Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953  |
Sooo. Theres this guys that I was sorta friends with last year. Well we started talking after like 10months and we are talking SOOOO much now.
but he kinda asked me to have sex with him. I said no but now its kinda awkward to talk to him. What should I do? Ooops. I just bought the Ice Cream. If you like Rocky Road then feel to take A SCOOP! I need the rest for me. Ahaha! |
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May 25 2008, 11:14 PM
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 AIDS at RAVES. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 |
thats weird 0_0 were you guys going out?
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May 25 2008, 11:20 PM
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MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3 Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953 |
noope.
and i hadnt talked to him in like FOREVER! haha |
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May 25 2008, 11:49 PM
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AIDS at RAVES. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 |
so he didnt even ask you out before sex? isnt that kind of like using you ?
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May 26 2008, 12:08 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Potential reasons for his behaviour:
1) He's joking, and you shouldn't feel awkward. 2) He was serious, and he's a jackass for asking, so you probably shouldn't be associating yourself with him. |
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May 26 2008, 12:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
Yeah, tell him to f**k off if he's trying to use you like that.
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May 26 2008, 12:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 282 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,342 |
what an extremely bizare man/a-hole. Just pretend he didn't say it and talk normally with him. If he brings up again then he is an a-hole.
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May 26 2008, 10:41 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Maybe the guy's just speaking his mind. Just let him be. I mean, us girls are always talking about whats on our minds "love, emotions, feelings" all that stuff. Like if guys even care about that sh*t!! Why can't guys do the same? Why can't guys speak their minds and talk about sex? girls? cars? Give him a break. Guys always do it for us.
(im not speaking as if all men and women feel an think this way) |
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May 26 2008, 11:09 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
that would make it awkward for me too!
i say dont get too close to him, b/c all he wants is sex. |
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May 27 2008, 12:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
How... extremely random. If all he's doing is getting close to you just to have a sex buddy, then I'd suggest you not do it. It could lead to complications in your relationship as friends, plus, it can already show you that that's all he has on his mind in terms of your friendship.
Tell him that you're awkward being around him. I'm sure he's picked up the hint by now. Explain your reasons, and try talking it out with him (you did mention you two did talk a lot before the big question). I can sort of sympathize with how awkward that must feel, but just hang in there. |
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May 27 2008, 06:23 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
LOL! WTF?
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