Fighting with my best friend. :[, Helllpp!!! Options

[Heartourbeat]

So for about a month now, it seems like my best friend and I are always mad at each other. All of this really started because I broke up with my boyfriend, and I guess she was upset cuz all 3 of us had been hanging out and stuff. Well since she was mad, and I was upset because I broke up with him, I said things I shouldn't of said (not that bad, but I guess she thought it was)

Now it seems like we still haven't gone back to normal. We have said like 3 times that we just werent going to be friends anymore, but then we kinda makeup. After we makeup we just get mad again though...A few days ago we went with a group to the movies and we reall had a good time like we used to, but now we are barely talking again.

I really need us to work things out because she is like the best friend I've ever had, and I trust her with everything.

What should I do to fix this?? I really think this is the last time we argue about this, because we are about to permanately not be friends. :[

[dpl313]

If she has the label of being your best friend? Then you should be able to talk things out with her. My 2 best friends and I argue, but we're friends for a reason.

[aaayotiffany]

this reminds me of me and my old best friend. we don't really talk anymore. we still have that bond where i know i can go to her for anything but i can't say we're still the "best of friends". i, too, trusted her with everything. we've been friends for seven years, but when we kind of faded out like we did, i realized that even the "best" friendships you have won't last forever.

one. she's kind immature and wrong for being mad at you for breaking up with your boyfriend. that relationship is between you and him, not the three of you. if she still wants to be friends with him, then she can continue being friends with him, thats between them.

two. if you guys really are best friends and you BOTH truly care about each other and your friendship, you guys will work it out. just talk to each other, spill out your true feelings, tell her everything even if its bad stuff, its the truth. best friends don't beat around the bush.

[Heartourbeat]

thanks guys.


well it seems like shes getting mad at me for everything. I have said how i feel and everything, and she kinda has to-but i guess we arent friends anymore because we were texting earlier and she said she didnt want to be friends anymore, that it was better for both of us.

I really dont understand that though.


sucky weekend....

[karmakiller]

Well how long have you guys been best friends? Some guy shouldn't come between that. She shouldn't have put herself before you breaking up with YOUR boyfriend, and you shouldn't have said what you said. She needs to realize what the situation is. Friends are the ones that should be there to accept you no matter what and they should be understanding that any relationship has issues come up that need to be worked out.

[aybaybay007]

do u ever wonder if its worth it being friends with her if shes gonna be such a bitch?
bitches just ruin my day. even if they started out as my best friends

[TiffanyFactorial]

do u ever wonder if its worth it being friends with her if shes gonna be such a bitch?
bitches just ruin my day. even if they started out as my best friends

true, i definitely agree. i've had someone back stab me and i wanted to remain friends but you know what? once a backstabber, always a backstabber.

i'm not really sure i see the reason in her being upset with you just because you & your boyfriend broke up. so you guys may have been bff, did she think he was really good for you or what?

i think that if she doesn't try to make things work, then it's something you shouldn't keep working on...and remember, it takes two people not to talk to each other. if you try to talk to her and she brushes you off, then maybe it's time to back down. true friends will always be there for you, through thick and thin, especially in times like these when you're without your boyfriend. she should be comforting you, not arguing with you.

sometimes the people you think you know, you don't really know at all. it's hard to really trust people, and people change. don't worry too much because i'm sure you'll be friends with her, but not BFF like before. it's better than nothing. it's better to know how she is now than get hurt by her later when you guys start arguing again.

:) hope that helped!

[Heartourbeat]

hm, about a week ago she actually said was sorry, and she was a bitch. i was a little shocked...but i guess everything is okay for now. i have my guard up though...and we still bicker a little every once in a while, but thats it. i hope things turnout okay...and thanks for the replies :]

[Heartourbeat]

hm, about a week ago she actually said was sorry, and she was a bitch. i was a little shocked...but i guess everything is okay for now. i have my guard up though...and we still bicker a little every once in a while, but thats it. i hope things turnout okay...and thanks for the replies :]

[Insurmountable]

I mean if you both want to work things out, then I suggest you guys go sit down somewhere and talk about everything that led up to this. It sounds like shes still bitter about what happened and she probably isn't going to drop it until you give her an apology of some sort.