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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
Okay, this is kinda a long story. Kinda not. I just get into too many details whilst telling stories. I can't help it.
italics - not crucial. you can skip it. i just really need advice. So I'm a freshman in high school. In first quarter, my very first class was Physical Science. There was this one kid who ran out of class one day before our teacher handed out our assignments, and the next day he was like, "huh?" when the teacher asked for our assignments. So I thought he was lame and unintelligent. So that's how I recognized him when he added me on MySpace. His display name was[is] Butters, so I was like, "hah... South Park, nice.." and I accepted him. So just out of randomness, I went to go see his profile, 'cause that's just what I do when I add someone. And he had this awfully pwnsome layout with sheet music as the background. At this point, I still didn't even know his name. But I decided to comment him telling him that his layout was cool. So I did. Apparently, the Charmander t-shirt I'd worn the day before stuck out, and we started talking rapidly about pokemon... and insomnia, and reading, and just a shitload of stuff. We just started posting these HUGEUNGO comments on each other's spaces, over the duration of like one night. And so then, blah blah blah, basically, he started hanging out in our friend circle. So around the middleish/endish of first quarter, I peeked at his [psst. his name is Mark] top friends, 'cause they're hidden, and I wanted to see where I was, and I was second. So I posted a bulletin saying something like, "top friends don't really matter, but when you find out that you're 2nd on someone's top, and they secretly mean a lot to you." and he responded saying, "you're second on mine. feel special." and i said, "actually, that bulletin was referring to you." BLAHBLAHBLAH. Long story short. We kinda had a thing, even though we never "officially" went out. Blah. And then I got uncomfortable and was like, "no." And then blah. Problems. And then we were still like BFFL and in 2nd quarter we had almost the same exact schedule, so we spent like the entire day together every day, and then we'd go home and talk online for like 3-5 hours. And even have shower races, which he always won. And we'd share like every thought. And I even told him my one secret that I'd kept for like five years and never told anyone and it was SO liberating. He's the closest I've ever gotten to a guy, and I kept on like, thinking I liked him, and then thinking no. And back and forth. And it was this big huge thing. And then I all of a sudden got really annoying, and I don't know why. But I think I was pissing him off, but I was definitely pissing me off. 'Cause I was getting awkwardly outgoing with him and stuff. And it was like UGH. So after Christmas break, we kinda stopped talking as much, and then I got really sick for the first three weeks back, so I was really stressed out with homework, and then at the beginning of 3rd quarter [i stopped having classes with mark] I got super depressed 'cause of this stupid shit with some guys who were being retarded and basically, my self esteem dropped COMPLETELY. until like a week ago. But yeah, so that resulted in my like, inability to converse correctly with just about anyone. And I started trying to talk to Mark on AIM, and like, all I could say was like "lairhes. napples." and stuff, and he was just like, "okay, whatever." [At this point, he doesn't like me like that anymore.] Blah. And now, I have a crush on this kid named Zach. But like, everytime Mark talks about some other girl he likes or thinks is pretty I get like, insanely jealous. And I know I at least love him as a person. But romantically? It seems the less I'm around him the more I want him, and the more I'm around him, the less I want him. So I don't know if it's just the like, "want what you can't/dont' have." type of thing, or if it's something honest. Me and him are kinda talking on AIM right now. It goes on and off. I'm like, desperate for topics. According to him, "we just don't have anythign to talk about anymore." and inside I'm just like NONONOI'LLFINDSOMETHINGFINDSOMETHING!! And it's like. I'm starved for him. So I have no idea what the hell to do. -deflates- |
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idk, it seems as if you've pretty much figured out the situation yourself and need to rant about it, which is fine. We all want what we can't have. I think at the time, you guys really did like each other so much that you just... ran out of fuel. He got over it and you're still kind of crushing on him. Just remember, you're still really young, so try to take things easy.
You seem like kind of an awkward person socially right now, which, imo, is always fun and interesting, but if he can't get/understand you and connect with you, maybe you should start looking somewhere else. I've been through the whole needing to have something to talk about with a certain someone; sometimes the effort pays off, but most of the time, it's just really tiring and it's you trying to hold onto something that's already dead. I don't think that helped at all, but I really hope you feel better about your situation with your guy and all! |
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![]() cvchango ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 ![]() |
I know where you're coming from, I've been through it.
Let me sum up how I think you are feeling. You think there is no chance between you and Mark, and you hope there was. It's hard to accept. You try to move on, but naturally, it's hard. You "like" someone else, but deep inside you still hope you could have Mark. Therefore, you get jealous whenever Mark tries to talk to someone, because you still like him and you are holding on to hope. You want him to be single. ^^ correct me if I am wrong Right now, you are at a stage where deep inside, you still strongly hope you can make things work out. I don't know the situation, maybe you can change things or maybe you just can't accept the fact that he doesn't like you (my situation...=[ ). So you are still trying. Believe me, I was in that stage for 3 years, no fun. The only reason I got out of it is because the girl I like turned really really annoying and bitchy girly last year, so I can honesty say I hate her. Ok so bottomline, you still like him a lot, no matter what you tell yourself. Looking back, I think the best thing to do is to tell him your feelings directly face to face, tell him you like him more than a friend, and go from there. If he tells you it'll never work out, that is the easiest way to get your heart too move on. and about conversation topics, AIM is rough. I don't use it when I talk to girls. Phone or in person is the best way to get to converse. It is more personally. Easier to come up with things to talk about, because it's easier to go more in depth.AIM and text message are bad! and btw, I don't think you truly like Zach, maybe just a baby crush hope that helped a little. |
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![]() creepy heather ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 ![]() |
i actually read all of that and i know exactly how you feel :\ its devastating to know that you and a friend that you were so close with are no longer on the same, for lack of a better work, "brainwave".
its tough to let go but dont try to force conversation with him right now. maybe things will be different over time but i think he just needs his space with whatever flirting you guys did and whatever everyday friend stuff you did. |
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Good job.
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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
Okay you guys. This really helped.
So I took the one person's advice. To tell him. Only I couldn't wait till in person. And so I just copied the URL of this thread and gave it to him on AIM. And we started talking about it. And there are too many details. So basically. It's not going to work out. But we ended up talking for *counts* Four hours. :] GO ME. It's still never going to work out though. Mark: oh geez Mark: we haven't been through this in a LOOOONG time. Mark: kay. lets make this nice and quick. Mark: hm. how to put this. Mark: some people are just born. Mark: and are NOT meant for eachother. Mark: thats you and me. Mark: no matter what oh beautiful sin: are you kidding me? Mark: you and i will never like eachother enough Mark: to be able to commit Mark: longer than like Mark: a day oh beautiful sin: but you're perfect. Mark: shuddup Mark: see the only problem is Mark: you don't like me Mark: or not enough. Mark: not enough to make it last. Mark: forever. oh beautiful sin: urrgh. Mark: trust me. Mark: its not happening. Mark: ever. Mark: don't wanna be mean. Mark: but no. Which is poopie. He has no reason to believe that I could ever actually love him anyway. Becauuuuuuuse. Mark: remember. after we "broke up". Mark: we kept on having that thing Mark: where you would like me Mark: for like. oh beautiful sin: mhmhmhm. Mark: a day. Mark: and so forth. Mark: and that happened Mark: like. 4 times. Mark: now i don't know what goes on in your head. Mark: but odds are, this is just another one of them things. oh beautiful sin: and the only reason it hasn't gone away yet is 'cause you don't like me I'm screwed. Ohh. And another terrible thing. oh beautiful sin: if i wouldn't've stopped it back in november, do you think we would still be together at this point? Mark: yes. POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP. |
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Uh.. just end it and move on. And watch Idiocracy.
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![]() cvchango ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 ![]() |
Okay you guys. This really helped. So I took the one person's advice. To tell him. Only I couldn't wait till in person. And so I just copied the URL of this thread and gave it to him on AIM. And we started talking about it. And there are too many details. So basically. It's not going to work out. But we ended up talking for *counts* Four hours. :] GO ME. It's still never going to work out though. Mark: oh geez Mark: we haven't been through this in a LOOOONG time. Mark: kay. lets make this nice and quick. Mark: hm. how to put this. Mark: some people are just born. Mark: and are NOT meant for eachother. Mark: thats you and me. Mark: no matter what oh beautiful sin: are you kidding me? Mark: you and i will never like eachother enough Mark: to be able to commit Mark: longer than like Mark: a day oh beautiful sin: but you're perfect. Mark: shuddup Mark: see the only problem is Mark: you don't like me Mark: or not enough. Mark: not enough to make it last. Mark: forever. oh beautiful sin: urrgh. Mark: trust me. Mark: its not happening. Mark: ever. Mark: don't wanna be mean. Mark: but no. Which is poopie. He has no reason to believe that I could ever actually love him anyway. Becauuuuuuuse. Mark: remember. after we "broke up". Mark: we kept on having that thing Mark: where you would like me Mark: for like. oh beautiful sin: mhmhmhm. Mark: a day. Mark: and so forth. Mark: and that happened Mark: like. 4 times. Mark: now i don't know what goes on in your head. Mark: but odds are, this is just another one of them things. oh beautiful sin: and the only reason it hasn't gone away yet is 'cause you don't like me I'm screwed. Ohh. And another terrible thing. oh beautiful sin: if i wouldn't've stopped it back in november, do you think we would still be together at this point? Mark: yes. POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP. WHY DID YOU USE AIM? PERSONAL TOUCHY HEARTY EMOTIONAL CONVERSATIONS NEED TO BE IN PERSON, AT WORSE ON THE PHONE. there is no tone or special feeling in talking on AIM. haha, I'm one to talk, I used to be like you, I even used the same "show her the forum" strategy as a cowardly way to express my feelings about two years ago, check it out if y ou want =P. and I do not know of any guy who would say "shuddup" in such a serious topic. |
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I would think it would seem massively creepy to show someone a forum post
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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
WHY DID YOU USE AIM? PERSONAL TOUCHY HEARTY EMOTIONAL CONVERSATIONS NEED TO BE IN PERSON, AT WORSE ON THE PHONE. there is no tone or special feeling in talking on AIM. haha, I'm one to talk, I used to be like you, I even used the same "show her the forum" strategy as a cowardly way to express my feelings about two years ago, check it out if y ou want =P. and I do not know of any guy who would say "shuddup" in such a serious topic. Ahgh. But I'm on spring break. I couldn't possibly wait 'til next week. O.O And most of our more serious conversations were late at night over AIM. And it probably seemed more emotional at the point. 'Cause rereading AIM conversations is different than when they actually happen. I just don't know what to do at this point, though. I would think it would seem massively creepy to show someone a forum post ![]() I don't. And neither would he. Why would it be creepy? |
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i would find it awkward if i was in his situation. I wouldn't want a girl to go to strangers for advice about a something like this.
It seems like mark is getting tired of you playing with his feelings. if you truly do like him this time, i say try to get back together and give it one more shot. If things turn out like they did before.. i think you should move on. |
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It seems like mark is getting tired of you playing with his feelings. if you truly do like him this time, i say try to get back together and give it one more shot. If things turn out like they did before.. i think you should move on. She already tried talking to him about it. He said no. Read the AIM conversation she posted. Well, I'm sorry that this didn't work out. Sometimes things go really well and it feels like you're meant for each other, but a lot of the time you run out of things to talk about and it's just hard to communicate the way you used to. In that case, it's best to stop trying to rekindle the flames you used to have for each other and move on from him. It was great while it lasted, but there's always someone else. |
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WHY DID YOU USE AIM? PERSONAL TOUCHY HEARTY EMOTIONAL CONVERSATIONS NEED TO BE IN PERSON, AT WORSE ON THE PHONE. there is no tone or special feeling in talking on AIM. Cuz they're lil kids... they don't know what a real relationship is. They're too young to realize any of that ish =\ |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 ![]() |
MeanBastard and Tamacracker, get out of this thread if you're not going to say anything helpful. The OP posted a reason as to why she used AIM rather than talking IRL or on the phone.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 ![]() |
MeanBastard and Tamacracker, get out of this thread if you're not going to say anything helpful. The OP posted a reason as to why she used AIM rather than talking IRL or on the phone. I already posted my thought. And using AIM makes you less of a human, imho. No excuse in the world should be given to use the internet or text messaging for that matter to talk things out. It should be done face to face... not even a phone is worthy =\ People can easily hide their feelings over the phone. People can sit there and say mean things over the phone because they don't see the person's face and their emotional reaction to what they're sayin. I find it very immature and having a lack of decency. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 ![]() |
Okay, whatever. You still didn't have to call the OP an immature child who doesn't know what a real relationship is. She's having hard enough of a time as it is. I'm ending this here because I don't want to spam her topic.
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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
I already posted my thought. And using AIM makes you less of a human, imho. No excuse in the world should be given to use the internet or text messaging for that matter to talk things out. It should be done face to face... not even a phone is worthy =\ People can easily hide their feelings over the phone. People can sit there and say mean things over the phone because they don't see the person's face and their emotional reaction to what they're sayin. I find it very immature and having a lack of decency. Meh. He didn't say anything mean though. I know him well enough to know how he'd react, and it went a little something how I planned. Like, I showed snippets of the conversation to my friends, and they were like, "whoa. that's harsh." But it really isn't, and I understand his intentions. We're just blatant people. But anyway. Synethesia is right. Like, if you're just going to be an a-hole, I'd like to kindly ask you to leave me alone. EDIT - But yeah. So... like, I'm really against relationships at this age, too. And like, looking back at some of our conversations make me cringe 'cause it was so retarded. And I don't want that. 'Cause we were just... dumb. But reading the conversations where we were talking about like, other stuff, like God or music it's like, blah, I want that back. Bleh. I don't even know. I just spent like 2 hours reading one conversation. O.o |
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Meh. He didn't say anything mean though. I know him well enough to know how he'd react, and it went a little something how I planned. Like, I showed snippets of the conversation to my friends, and they were like, "whoa. that's harsh." But it really isn't, and I understand his intentions. We're just blatant people. But anyway. Synethesia is right. Like, if you're just going to be an a-hole, I'd like to kindly ask you to leave me alone. EDIT - But yeah. So... like, I'm really against relationships at this age, too. And like, looking back at some of our conversations make me cringe 'cause it was so retarded. And I don't want that. 'Cause we were just... dumb. But reading the conversations where we were talking about like, other stuff, like God or music it's like, blah, I want that back. Bleh. I don't even know. I just spent like 2 hours reading one conversation. O.o Trust me when I say this. Worry about family and school. Not even friends are important right now in life. I don't mean disrespect, but dating at a young age is not even worth it... you guys still have a "shit load" to learn. Then when you're mature/older you can discuss your opinions and have great educational conversations. When you're older, more mature, actually have a vehicle of your own etc... then having a relationship is worth it. But meh... I'm just one opinion. |
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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
Trust me when I say this. Worry about family and school. Not even friends are important right now in life. I don't mean disrespect, but dating at a young age is not even worth it... you guys still have a "shit load" to learn. Then when you're mature/older you can discuss your opinions and have great educational conversations. When you're older, more mature, actually have a vehicle of your own etc... then having a relationship is worth it. But meh... I'm just one opinion. I agree with dating at this age being stupid. I just kinda just... Eh. I don't know. I'm just so goddamned sick of my stupid friends with their stupid boyfriends who stupid go and stupid double all the stupid time instead of hanging out in a huge group like we used to. And blah. I don't even know what words to write right now. I'm just one messed up kid. -_- |
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i would find it awkward if i was in his situation. I wouldn't want a girl to go to strangers for advice about a something like this. It seems like mark is getting tired of you playing with his feelings. if you truly do like him this time, i say try to get back together and give it one more shot. If things turn out like they did before.. i think you should move on. I know, but try harder =] of course he'll say that the 1st time cause he's tired of it, and it might say it the next couple of times and that'll be it.. but you will never know. but try not to ruin the friendship at the same time. |
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![]() Napple Hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 631,472 ![]() |
I know, but try harder =] of course he'll say that the 1st time cause he's tired of it, and it might say it the next couple of times and that'll be it.. but you will never know. but try not to ruin the friendship at the same time. I don't think I'm catching what you're throwing. |
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![]() cvchango ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 ![]() |
I know, but try harder =] of course he'll say that the 1st time cause he's tired of it, and it might say it the next couple of times and that'll be it.. but you will never know. but try not to ruin the friendship at the same time. Bad advice, he told you no pretty harshly. You have to make yourself accept it. Don't lie to yourself. There is no hope, move on, I know it's hard. If you try harder, this is where everything gets really awkward, and then you can say bye bye friend or the friendship will never be the same again. Then you will be so sad, you'll cry all day, cut yourself, and eventually die from lose of blood... maybe that's a little extreme... |
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I agree with dating at this age being stupid. I just kinda just... Eh. I don't know. I'm just so goddamned sick of my stupid friends with their stupid boyfriends who stupid go and stupid double all the stupid time instead of hanging out in a huge group like we used to. And blah. I don't even know what words to write right now. I'm just one messed up kid. -_- Nah you're not. Be yourself. You know it's dumb dating right now... so don't do it. Doesn't mean you can't have guy friends. The thing that your friends are doin, is sort of a social trend. My lil cousins' friends are the same, middle school and in highschool and they have lil relationships. All three of my lil cousins find it a waste of time. Kids try to grow up too fast, they forget about all the fun and important things in life and much rather try to be an adult. Which is normal, that's why people tend to watch more mature shows/movies because that's what they're lookin to be... they're tryin to find a path in maturity to grow up that way. For example, when I was in middle school, I would watch the Simpsons and my mom would flip out because it was a mature cartoon, an adult cartoon. Instead I should have been still watchin nickelodeon and bugs bunny. But because my friends would talk about the episodes I would have no clue what they were talkin about, I started to watch it just to fit in and be able to talk about the funny things that happened in the show. And for what? To be a follower? To just fit in with a group of people? It's really not worth it :P We just get influenced by others we like, it's human nature. But it should be the human to decide how they want to live their lives, they should have control of their own actions. Instead of tryin to fit in, try to be a leader. Demand that you all hang out as friends instead of "dating" and makin people feel lonely and exclusive. And like I said before, right now in your young life... what's more important is your education and your family, friends are just free entertainment, nothin more. |
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People can't ask for things like this to happen. It has to happen on its own. If you hang out with him a bunch and talk to him like you used to (you can't force that to happen either; if you're searching for topics, they won't come to you) I'm sure you're both bound to realize what could happen. When people are that close of friends and understand eachother that well, it's inevitable.
So for now, I personally wouldn't bring up the subject again, but just keep talking like it never happened. If it does happen, it does, and if it doesn't, it's not going to. |
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Bad advice, he told you no pretty harshly. You have to make yourself accept it. Don't lie to yourself. There is no hope, move on, I know it's hard. If you try harder, this is where everything gets really awkward, and then you can say bye bye friend or the friendship will never be the same again. Then you will be so sad, you'll cry all day, cut yourself, and eventually die from lose of blood... maybe that's a little extreme... If you think it's worth it, try again. but like i said.. if you don't like him again.. then i suggest you find somebody else or just be single for now. Time will only heal what you're feeling right now.. just try not to feel so depressed. And don't do anything that would ruin the friendship you guys have now. some people here think they know everything.. possibilities are endless. |
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If you think it's worth it, try again. but like i said.. if you don't like him again.. then i suggest you find somebody else or just be single for now. Time will only heal what you're feeling right now.. just try not to feel so depressed. And don't do anything that would ruin the friendship you guys have now. some people here think they know everything.. possibilities are endless. oo, so are you saying 31miracles cried all day while cutting himself because this happened to him. :P |
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![]() cvchango ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 ![]() |
some people here think they know everything.. possibilities are endless. Get out of here with you magical Disney happy endings possibility ![]() oo, so are you saying 31miracles cried all day while cutting himself because this happened to him. :P ![]() ![]() |
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Get out of here with you magical Disney happy endings possibility ![]() ![]() ![]() haha ok, i've been there. Idk about ALL day but ya. let her be young and experience =] learning from experience is better sometimes and who knows what could happen. **i just noticed i quoted myself instead of tama |
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you know, everything happens for a reason and that's my quote i live by. you'll never know what it is right then and there but after awhile you'll see why. give it time but don't force fate to do something it's not suppose to or else it'll blow up in your face.
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Tamacracker, why do you find it fun to degrade others just because you're older than they are? get a life, i'm sick of reading posts about "You're too young to know what love is." LIKE YOU DO!
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Tamacracker, why do you find it fun to degrade others just because you're older than they are? get a life, i'm sick of reading posts about "You're too young to know what love is." LIKE YOU DO! Eh. Don't try to defend me over this. Honestly, I had a bad first impression of Tamacracker, but after this, I thought he was kinda cool. I mean, he's trying to help. He's obviously more experienced than me, so I didn't take it offensively. |
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