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 Mar 15 2008, 10:25 PM
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 loved. knocked at my door.  Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399  |
been the cheater???
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Mar 15 2008, 10:45 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Ouch. No. Never been cheated on, either.
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Mar 15 2008, 11:03 PM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
but i've learned my lesson...what goes around, comes around
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Mar 16 2008, 12:23 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 628,760 |
nopee.
been cheated on though. 
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Mar 16 2008, 12:37 AM
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Haile High Philosophy Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 609,644 |
Nope.Never
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Mar 16 2008, 01:31 AM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
no...ive been severely tempted which has me guilt-ridden enough
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Mar 16 2008, 01:55 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
no, ive never been in that situation
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Mar 16 2008, 05:14 PM
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loved. knocked at my door. Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
if u have...
did u feel really guilty or slightly guilty?? |
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Mar 16 2008, 05:18 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
ill get back to you when ive been in a relationship
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Mar 16 2008, 05:19 PM
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 metalmouth hoee Group: Member Posts: 786 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 566,794 |
nooo.
meanies  j/k |
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Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM
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loved. knocked at my door. Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
it's definitely one of the hardest things i've ever had to deal with
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Mar 16 2008, 06:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I've never cheated on my ex or boyfriend.
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Mar 16 2008, 11:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 553,667 |
It isn't in me to cheat. It's the worst possible thing you could do in a relationship; you can never get the trust you once had back. I love my boyfriend more than life itself; he's my everything. I could never hurt him like that.
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Mar 18 2008, 04:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
No... I don't believe in promiscuity. Before I even get into a relationship with a girl, I make it clear and simple that I do not expect for my girlfriend to become promiscuous. If there's ever any problems, any sort of slight changes in the relationship that concerns them, they should bring it up to my attention like a caring human being.
That's how things are solved, avoiding arguments. |
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Mar 18 2008, 10:55 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
nope but a guy has cheated on a gf with me =/
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Mar 20 2008, 11:16 AM
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 SubuBabiix33 Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 628,163 |
QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM)  it's definitely one of the hardest things i've ever had to deal with awh... im so sorry,. so have i you can talk to me about it if you want. [: |
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Mar 20 2008, 01:22 PM
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 <-[RaWR]-> Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133 |
my girlfriend is the cheater..
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Mar 21 2008, 02:39 PM
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loved. knocked at my door. Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
QUOTE(sububabiix33 @ Mar 20 2008, 12:16 PM) awh... im so sorry,. so have i you can talk to me about it if you want. [: like how was he afterwards? heartbroken?? forgiving?? |
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Mar 22 2008, 12:00 PM
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 Hablamos Español. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,283 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 549,364 |
yesterday. i found out. mmhmm.
 thanks.
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Mar 22 2008, 08:47 PM
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loved. knocked at my door. Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
i'm sorry to hear that.
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Mar 22 2008, 08:53 PM
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I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before.
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Mar 22 2008, 08:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 15 2008, 11:25 PM) been the cheater??? no.. butt u mom cheatt me.. 
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Mar 22 2008, 09:03 PM
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 Comatose Prodigy Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 630,536 |
i've never been in a relationship.
it just seems to complicated for me right now |
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Mar 23 2008, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 15 2008, 08:45 PM) Ouch. No. Never been cheated on, either. |
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Mar 23 2008, 07:18 PM
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loved. knocked at my door. Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Mar 22 2008, 09:53 PM) I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before. it was the same for me..like the guilt was there but it never really hit me. & then i was just like i have to tell him. & then the guilt really set in the last time it happened. yes, it happened more than once people. & my heart felt like it was about to fall out of my chest & i called and was like "baby...." and he was broken. like i still don't forgive myself at times. i think it hurt me a little more than it hurt him & it's been awhile but we still talk and stuff. it's almost like we never broke up but u can't be with someone if u don't trust them. |
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Mar 23 2008, 08:52 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
No
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Mar 24 2008, 05:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,063 |
Wow so why do you think it happened? Why more than once? You don't have to answer if you don't want to. Mine was just making out nothing more, but it was only once and I felt so guilty. I could never go through that again.
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Mar 24 2008, 08:09 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
lot of my friends say its not considered cheating but i still feel guilty. when i was still going out with my ex, my current boyfriend kissed me. and i kissed him back. but yeah. i still feel bad about it. it was last year
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Mar 25 2008, 10:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Mar 24 2008, 09:09 PM) lot of my friends say its not considered cheating but i still feel guilty. when i was still going out with my ex, my current boyfriend kissed me. and i kissed him back. but yeah. i still feel bad about it. it was last year If it was a kiss on the cheek.. there's nothin to worry about. But dead ass on the lips lol... honestly if I caught my lady kissing some dood in the mouth and he already knew she was taken, best believe I'd give him a bloody face. But fortunately I don't have anythin to worry about. |
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Mar 25 2008, 10:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 448,573 |
No I haven't cheated, or been cheated on...
But I hooked up with a friend numerous times while he was going out with an acquaintance of mine. Which is just as bad in my opinion. They're still going out, and everytime I see her I feel horrible, I can't look at her. Can only blame myself for that one obviously. But yeah I'm not exactly ready for serious relationships, I'm too nervous. Definitely done with doing things like that though. |
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