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melodyus
post Mar 15 2008, 10:25 PM
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been the cheater???
 
karmakiller
post Mar 15 2008, 10:45 PM
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Ouch. No. Never been cheated on, either.
 
Melie
post Mar 15 2008, 11:03 PM
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but i've learned my lesson...what goes around, comes around
 
cupidstunt
post Mar 16 2008, 12:23 AM
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nopee.
been cheated on though. thumbsup.gif
 
Packratofthemind
post Mar 16 2008, 12:37 AM
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Nope.Never
 
Heathasm
post Mar 16 2008, 01:31 AM
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no...ive been severely tempted which has me guilt-ridden enough
 
Joss-eh-lime
post Mar 16 2008, 01:55 AM
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tell me more.
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no, ive never been in that situation
 
melodyus
post Mar 16 2008, 05:14 PM
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if u have...
did u feel really guilty or slightly guilty??
 
lkajsfklajskds
post Mar 16 2008, 05:18 PM
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ill get back to you when ive been in a relationship
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foxx
post Mar 16 2008, 05:19 PM
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nooo.
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melodyus
post Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM
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it's definitely one of the hardest things i've ever had to deal with
 
tokyo-rose
post Mar 16 2008, 06:18 PM
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I've never cheated on my ex or boyfriend.
 
DeviantShadows
post Mar 16 2008, 11:06 PM
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It isn't in me to cheat. It's the worst possible thing you could do in a relationship; you can never get the trust you once had back. I love my boyfriend more than life itself; he's my everything. I could never hurt him like that.
 
illriginal
post Mar 18 2008, 04:04 PM
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No... I don't believe in promiscuity. Before I even get into a relationship with a girl, I make it clear and simple that I do not expect for my girlfriend to become promiscuous. If there's ever any problems, any sort of slight changes in the relationship that concerns them, they should bring it up to my attention like a caring human being.

That's how things are solved, avoiding arguments.
 
Kay-
post Mar 18 2008, 10:55 PM
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nope but a guy has cheated on a gf with me =/
 
sububabiix33
post Mar 20 2008, 11:16 AM
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QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM) *
it's definitely one of the hardest things i've ever had to deal with

awh... im so sorry,.
so have i you can talk to me about it if you want.
[:

 
Dabme
post Mar 20 2008, 01:22 PM
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my girlfriend is the cheater..
 
melodyus
post Mar 21 2008, 02:39 PM
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QUOTE(sububabiix33 @ Mar 20 2008, 12:16 PM) *
awh... im so sorry,.
so have i you can talk to me about it if you want.
[:


like how was he afterwards?
heartbroken??
forgiving??
 
weed
post Mar 22 2008, 12:00 PM
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yesterday. i found out. mmhmm. cry.gif thanks.
 
melodyus
post Mar 22 2008, 08:47 PM
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i'm sorry to hear that. sad.gif
 
TearsOfAPhoenix
post Mar 22 2008, 08:53 PM
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I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before.
 
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post Mar 22 2008, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 15 2008, 11:25 PM) *
been the cheater???

no.. butt u mom cheatt me.. stubborn.gif cry.gif
 
Anephoria
post Mar 22 2008, 09:03 PM
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i've never been in a relationship.

it just seems to complicated for me right now
 
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post Mar 23 2008, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 15 2008, 08:45 PM) *
Ouch. No. Never been cheated on, either.

 
melodyus
post Mar 23 2008, 07:18 PM
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QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Mar 22 2008, 09:53 PM) *
I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before.


it was the same for me..like the guilt was there but it never really hit me. & then i was just like i have to tell him. & then the guilt really set in the last time it happened. yes, it happened more than once people. & my heart felt like it was about to fall out of my chest & i called and was like "baby...." and he was broken. like i still don't forgive myself at times. i think it hurt me a little more than it hurt him & it's been awhile but we still talk and stuff. it's almost like we never broke up but u can't be with someone if u don't trust them.
 
MeanBastard
post Mar 23 2008, 08:52 PM
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No
 
TearsOfAPhoenix
post Mar 24 2008, 05:31 PM
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Wow so why do you think it happened? Why more than once? You don't have to answer if you don't want to. Mine was just making out nothing more, but it was only once and I felt so guilty. I could never go through that again.
 
fathomlessdame
post Mar 24 2008, 08:09 PM
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lot of my friends say its not considered cheating but i still feel guilty. when i was still going out with my ex, my current boyfriend kissed me. and i kissed him back. but yeah. i still feel bad about it. it was last year
 
illriginal
post Mar 25 2008, 10:43 AM
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QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Mar 24 2008, 09:09 PM) *
lot of my friends say its not considered cheating but i still feel guilty. when i was still going out with my ex, my current boyfriend kissed me. and i kissed him back. but yeah. i still feel bad about it. it was last year

If it was a kiss on the cheek.. there's nothin to worry about. But dead ass on the lips lol... honestly if I caught my lady kissing some dood in the mouth and he already knew she was taken, best believe I'd give him a bloody face. But fortunately I don't have anythin to worry about.
 
Danielle-Son
post Mar 25 2008, 10:57 PM
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No I haven't cheated, or been cheated on...

But I hooked up with a friend numerous times while he was going out with an acquaintance of mine. Which is just as bad in my opinion. They're still going out, and everytime I see her I feel horrible, I can't look at her. Can only blame myself for that one obviously.

But yeah I'm not exactly ready for serious relationships, I'm too nervous. Definitely done with doing things like that though.
 

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