Do you still think about your first love.., Is it wrong too.. Options

[someflipguy]

On some occasions I still think of my first love..and sometimes I just can't stop thinking about her..is it wrong? Or am I just missing her? Do you all still think of that special person?

[ComradeRed]

By Great Caesar's Ghost!!

[SupraS15]

yeah I do... and I'm going to see her tomorrow!! whooohooooooo!

[someflipguy]

hmm...i don't think about my first love, because i never had one..i THOGHT i did..but i waz wrong..so i don't think about n e of em..

You look like your still very young..so you have time before you really fall in love that person...

[xquizit]

no, because he was a jerk.

[ComradeRed]

In Physics, Jerk is the first derivative of Acceleration.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

i never had a first love. i mean...people YOUNGER than me say they had a first love and i`m only 14.

first loves are overrated [in movies].

[mai_z]

^^well not really overrated....of course none of them are the perfect childhood romances you see in movies, but it's still special, because it was your first, like ur first kiss...etc

[illmizzkim]

no, because he was a jerk.

Same here. I don't think about him but I have to see him all the time he lives in my neighborhood.

[LiNHy POO]

yehh sumtimes i miis mine too... but theres nothing wrong to miss them...

[hannie]

yeshh.. i miss mine too sometimes.. its normal [to me] because they were your FiRST and you will never forget them! its kinda hard for me now cuz hes one of my BEST frends now and we`re terribly close and he likes my best BEST frend in the world but then again, im going out with one of his frends so its kinda mixed up ! haha

[hatefulxlove]

mine was a total jerk. I still thought about him a whole lot, but then I kind of forget about him now and then. I dont think about him a lot anymore, but sometimes when I`m deep in thought about him I do kinda miss him..I dont think its wrong to miss your first love. I mean, when you first love someone, just because you broke up doesn`t mean you have to completely stop loving them, right?

[Winter]

I still do. I think of him a lot. I still haven't really forgot him yet. But I'm trying hard, I try to keep him buried deep in my heart.

It's not wrong to remember your first love, because face it, it's something special. But for me, I'd rather not coz it's given me too much pain. But I think when I'm older, I will open that lock once more and think back of our time together happily with a smile on my face.

[eboarder2020]

Im not sure... I mean i think about my ex alot....Its been like almost 10 months now and I still miss her and think about her alot. I dont think that thinking about your first love is bad and perhaps you do miss the person... But at the sametime you might just be missing the feelings of love and what not... COuld be a combination of both ya know

[aznraver396]

yeah, i still think about him...maybe it wasn't love..but it was..undescribable..and i don't believe there's any problem with thinking about him/her..no one can have control of your thoughts and dreams.

[y0urmistake]

I don't think about my first love.. he was a total ass i hate him now!

[islandkiss]

I do..

[x0143637x0]

i dont think bout first love anymore i hardly even talk to him so we're just friends i guess..

[dani41790]

yea still think about mai first love alot cuz im still with him ^_^

[Haruka]

Yea, i still think of my first love, in fact, i dreamt about her last night. I try to tell myself that i'm not in love with her anymore, but i still am, and i don't think that will ever go away
She's IS the reason i came to Bolivia, i had to get away from her for the sake of my mother because she thinks it's wrong for me to date girls.
well anyways, i think it's normal because i'm assuming that you spent alot af great times with her that you will never forget

[sandra]

hmmm at times when some things remind u of those memories... but he was a jerk so hes not worth thinking about!

[sugarcult86]

i think about him al the time. he comes up in my dreams once in a while, and i even get sad just thinking about what happened. we wbere best friends once, and i feel like i lost one of my closest guy friends and a relationship i once that iwould cherish.

[x_fatal_rose_x]

yeah...I think about him a lot. It's really annoying, though because I want to forget about him heh...

[silver-rain]

well, i've never really had a first love... but i still do think about my first boyfriend...

[vivieeeen]

No.

He was a tiny guy, dealing with first stage puberty.

[fullmusicedmajor]

less and less as time goe son

[LoST SouL]

well i do occasionally its kinda depresing

[lidoaznboi89]

umm i doint think its rong.. i thot i had first love.. but it was actually first real gf.. so yeah.. it been a year.. and a couple of weeks i thot about her.. but then realize had no chance.. so got over it.. took a year too.. sad huh

[xjjajeengx]

well, i dont even know if my "first love" was truly LOVE. im still so confused as to when i began this whole "love" buisness so yea... i dont know, bt i guess i do becuase sometimes i misss this speical someone being here with me. but i guess thas only natural and we all miss things we enjoy in life and learn to love...

[hair products]

no it's not wrong. just shit happens you know

[soulovely]

my first love? yess... i do still think of him. he was the sweetest guy in the world! Everyone thought so, if you knew him, you'd think so. It's been awhile, maybe I should stop. But I can't, he's my best friend. I still love him.

[Darkpekkle]

Im not sure... I mean i think about my ex alot....Its been like almost 10 months now and I still miss her and think about her alot. I dont think that thinking about your first love is bad and perhaps you do miss the person... But at the sametime you might just be missing the feelings of love and what not... COuld be a combination of both ya know

i agree with ^.

It could definitely be a combination of missing the person and missing the feelings of loving someone, and being loved in return, and other perks of being in a relationship.

[Squeegie]

people say idk what love is cause im only 16...but believe me i know love


and yes she is all i think about when i am hurt...depressed...sad anything!!

[litoazndragon]

On some occasions I still think of my first love..and sometimes I just can't stop thinking about her..is it wrong? Or am I just missing her? Do you all still think of that special person?

no its not wrong i have been recently thinking about her non-stop...i know my current gf is still thinking about her first (me) ..

[he_makes_me_happ...]

I don't think it's wrong at all. I still think about my first love, but it might be because we see each other so much. Like we just can't stop this on and off dating. LOL. I think about him all the time. Right on everyone! LOL, j/k.

[LiLCoCoBEaNiE]

i still think about my first love. and i feel bad because its like i seem to be comparing every single guy that comes my way to him. and if they don't compare..i drop em. its a bad habbit

[mistahpho]

yup,its the one that everyone cant forget

[siin]

I think of him as a friend hardly ever as my ex. We're still really good friends and talk as if we never went out lol

[pbear]

It's natural.
It's hard to forget your first love.

[emrzz09]

my first love is the one im with now

[whywasisostupid]

nah, i have someone better

[Caitlin]

I think about him a whole lot.. maybe because I am still in love with him. He may have cheated on me and crap like that but he still means everything to me. I cant get over him even though its really hard :X

[NawtyLilAznChic]

yea i think bout him from time ta time, i think its ok ta think bout them

i jus think bout tha fond memories n lyk tha stupid ones lol tha first thing he sed ta me was "hi, u lyk dogs?" cuz i was lookin at dogs wen we first actually met lol

there was nuttin wrong wit him, i was tha one that messed up

[[edit]]
i dont think theres n e thing wrong wit it unless ur already wit sumone n u still have lyk sexual thoughts bout ur 1st luv or if u still wana b wit them or if ur still in luv wit him/her

[ichiban]

Yepp .. 1st love was two years ago .. he was my best friend .. nd now we nevr talk to each otha any more ...

[x___ILoveYou]

*sniff* sniff* almost everynite.. i think of him.... we broked up like almost 6 months now.. and i miss him so0o much even tho did tried to date other guys.. my feelings for him never went away... how can i get him back?

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[babygurl_xtacy]

no, because ive never been in love.

[whomps]

I've realized.. I guess I've never really fell in love before.
But I've loved someone =)

Hrm.. I still think about my first boyfriend. Rarely. And when I do, I think about what an a-hole he is. Damn jerk.

[bLuE_GirL23]

ya...ya ....ya......

[*CEP*]

Only when I talk to her.
Other than that, I have some other girl in mind.
Hell, I may be even thinking about this girl when I'm talking to my First Love.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[SSJ Kenshin]

I think about mine all the time. She showed me that I can open my heart rather than being cold and detatched, and I can never repay her for that. I don't know if I can forgive her parents though, because they forced us to break up because I wasn't a strict Christian...

[LatinaLady]

its not worng to still think about him but its cute. also rember that is over and youhave to move on. cuz then you will be hurting yourself

[mouse_3k]

I think about him everyday....then again I am still with him haha

[LivinLifeForYou_...]

I can totally relate to how you're feeling. From a girl's point of view that is. You see, last year I went to Catholic School and met this really nice, hot, funny guy and we became friends. I'd always liked him more than a friend but never told him. I loved the friendship I had with him I'm not the closest with most guys as friends. But anyway, after he got to know me and stuff like that he started to like me too. He gave me his phone number and address and stuff like that vise versa. But then I broke up with him about after a day. Things were just too intense. Too fast for me. He was my first boyfriend. After I broke up with him he moved schools..just my luck. I never got to tell him sorry, I lied to him twice, and broke his heart. Now I called him two days ago and he still sounded mad at me even when I worked my butt off trying to find his phone number after I ripped it up and cried when we broke up. I just can't call him back, I'm afraid he's still hurt and will hurt me, emotionally. I have so much bottled up inside of me right now it's hard to think about anything, including him. But lately, he keeps wandering back to my mind, to my heart. I keep contemplating what would've happened if we wouldn't of broken up, he wouldn't of moved schools, we would've been friends. I can still see myself with him I'm just not sure if we're friends or a couple. I need to know. I just can't bring myself to call him back like I said two days ago. Maybe I'm scared of heart break. But then I realize I did that to him over a year ago. I want to tell him I'm sorry. I love him. I want him back in my life.

Will you give me advice? You're a guy...I need a guy's point of view on my situation.

Look at my xanga and leave a comment telling me what I should do. I'm really clueless and desperate right now.
Do you think he's thinking about me now that I called him?
Do you think he's thought of me at all after last year?
Do you think he still likes me?
Do you think we could re-build our friendship?
Do you think he could ever want to be with me like that again?

His name's Harley, my name's LaToya.

<3 HELP!

My xanga's http://www.xanga.com/Secrets_Leftover please help.

[LiTToE_sLeEpii]

nope it's not wrong to because i think about my first love a lot and it's just something you'll never forget. it's part of you.. and not everyone ends up with their first love. even though mine was a complete asssssshole jerk. i still got love for him =) . maYbe not in love but yeah. don't feel bad for what you feeeeel.!

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

yea i use to always think about her,but recently i told her ima have to stop talking to her and stuff cuz i'de get mix feelings about her while im with other people, it sucked but i feel better in a way.

[Scandalous_angel]

yes..i still think of him but that's because i still regret the things i did for him n all da crap he put meh through n at da same time glad dat i dont have him nemore.

[someflipguy]

Man never knew there were so many people that were in the same situation as me! Now I know that Im not alone...thanks for the support everyone...

[lilJdawg]

[COLOR=blue]i still think about my first love en it aint wrong to

[LiNHy POO]

well actually... my first love was my recent ex... he was the best out of all my boyfriends.. i loved everything about him.. and he taught me alot.. i will always remember the times he helped me out.. his paient ways, and that caring tone he had... and wow now i miss him alot!!

[sheepy]

its okay to dink about them.. since dey did make a diff in ur life rite?

[xsweetdreams12x]

It's not wrong to think about your first love. I mean, he/she was the first time you felt strongly about somebody.

I've never been in love, so... yeah.

[babySTEPH]

i never had a first love.. but i had this boy i really liked. we never went out.. but months after we stopped talkinq we told each other we used to like each other. now we're not even friends. i really miss him

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

my first true love is the one that i'm still with .. so yes i still think about him<3 ;]

[death_kitten]

Well I only loved the guy i am with now cuz well my first b/f tryed to beat me he cheated on me 3 or 4 times and he tryed to rape me which he didnt cuz i am still a virgin and i didnt let him cuz you have to give it up to the right guy and i knew he was not but I have the gratest guy in the world named Andrew he is sweet and he always there for me well most of the time he wont cheat or rape me he wont hit me either i think this one might be the one but the answer on the first love thing I never had one till now and im still with him so I think about Andrew all the time....

[xpiixeespriitx]

i know i do, wq were best friends, and we talked about everything! he meant soo much to me...

[defjam_gangsta]

GREETINGS!!

it's normal. coz tat's wat feelings all abt. yeah, i did think abt ma x-boo. she was amazing. but it's just those one -off kinda incidents.

CHEERS CB!!

[aznmunki]

only every night i never got over.. that person .... i still miss him a whole lot... but now i gots myself a gurl sweet as can be.... but i still think about.. that person....

sorry cought up talkin bout this.... i miss that person sooooooo much...

[frzn-lilyv]

no i dont think about my first love. i have better things to think about.

but in your case, ehh.... if you still talk to her and such, i dont see whats wrong. try hooking up with her again if you really want to.

btw, thats a sad signature, man!... ingat ka!!

[s0emotionalx3]

Well Im not sure if it was my first LOVE, but my first relationship, yes. And i don't think it's wrong to ever think about your ex's. I mean, somewhere deep inside, a part of you will always be with them and will always love them, but you're not IN LOVE with them so it's not wrong. Ah.. my first relationship, still wondering if I should get baq with him

[sunshine8o8]

course its okay... when you are in love.... it never fades. no matter what happens. dont feel bad... its okies.. =]

[lurideyes]

of course I do, they are the people you first were completely true with and had no walls with. They are going to stay with you forever, but that doesnt mean you still like them or anything. But it isn't wrong.

[Levy2k6]

i think about her once in a while but not alot... its not wrong.

[SurferGurl2007]

Girls always want what the can't have... in other words..yeah I do and sometimes it hurts like hell..

[LiL_RiZZLe]

u should nevr forget ur first luv....cuz it's special

[sammi rules you]

i think everyone does. i hate it when i do though; it ended badly. but, when i do, i just flush him out of my mind with my current one.

[sunshiNe_sweeTi_]

there's nuttin wrong w/ thinking about ur first luv..cuz u'll alwayz remember....

[southern4life]

shoot.. i still spend time with my first love. he's one of my best friends.

[brokenskys]

yeah i do... and its not that rare either. i guess it is wrong since my bf has no idea... but its just kinda dwelling on old memories. not like i want to... get back with him. just a good friend now.

[*FreeStickers*]

I do cause I'm still dating him.

[Streetbawler91]

no i dont think its wrong becuz i do it too eff i have the same problem as u

[vergi]

ugh, i do .. he will alwaysz be in my heart, even if he doesnt love me back ... </3
it was in 4th grade when we got together and now im in 8th, lol .. i never thought i would like him so long ! but i guess your first love always stays with you !

[dreamerOi]

all the time i hate it. because sometimes i can do the stupidest things ever. its so cruddy cause he gets mad at me if im just around a guy but then its like how about you and all that crud.

[*jimmyjackiechan*]

yeah,. i still think of mine, my first love. And it kinda sux. Cause obviously we broke up for a reason and cant have each other back. SO y think about it.

[.t3e.]

i still think of mine...theres nothing wrong with it..or well i think that

[sikdragon]

i had a dream about her recently it was really weird

[KrunkMuzik]

You 1st love is ALWAYS unforgetable. Remembering isn't a bad thing. You're just re-living those good times. For me, I still think about my 1st love (Still current love). Don't worry, it'a good thing.

[sikdragon]

well mine wasnt so great, my dream was like me watching me watching myself talk to her. and how she didnt look interested

[lilteardrop]

sometimes i think of him not much though. first love yo` you`ll never forget that person.

[xXExiled]

i think of mine only when she calls other than that i dont care, she left me twice for some guy who is one major drug head lol but hey her day will come and i will laugh!

[sweetdreamsx3]

I only think about him to remind myself that he's getting played and I should say something, but he's too stubborn to listen to me. *shrugs* Oh well, he's a jerk anyways and so is she.