Would you ever get with a younger guy? |
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 Feb 21 2008, 06:58 PM
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Personally, I would never do that.
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Feb 21 2008, 08:37 PM
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 Beautiful Madness Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 620,642 |
No.
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Feb 21 2008, 09:16 PM
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 最高のLady Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 514,808 |
I prefer older guys.
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Feb 21 2008, 11:07 PM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
I personally would never ever in my whole entire life date a guy who is younger than me. It makes me seem like a pedophile or a child molester to be honest.
 Also, guys around my age (and area) are immature enough as is, and our hormones probably wouldn't be at the same level (just like the age). Don't get me wrong though, there ARE males who are young at age but definitely intelligent. :P. I would just want a older man, is all.
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Feb 21 2008, 11:15 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
It varies case from case. I don't see anything wrong with a younger guy when I'm 40 (and I look young, as well) if we have the same interests and beliefs. However, I'm already committed to a guy five years older, so I can't see this as a likely situation.
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Feb 21 2008, 11:27 PM
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You left out the maybe...
While it's certainly not preferred, it would depend on the guy, the actual age difference, and the situation. |
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Feb 22 2008, 12:07 AM
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I thought I'd never, but... I am now. :D We've been together for almost 2 years. <3
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Feb 22 2008, 06:14 AM
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 Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
I used to think I wouldnt, but I am right now. He's a year and a half younger.
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Feb 22 2008, 11:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,187 |
Never say "never", huh? :D My boy's 8 months younger. I think.
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Feb 22 2008, 12:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
It really depends on the guy himself. I've liked guys who were a month younger than me (or less), so it didn't really matter. But ultimately I'd prefer someone older.
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Feb 22 2008, 02:21 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I have, but I personally prefer older guys.
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Feb 22 2008, 02:25 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
It's gonna be a yes, seeing as my beau's two whole weeks younger than me! Gasp.
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Feb 22 2008, 03:34 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I'd say yes & no. Yes, because I've have boyfriends who were a few months younger than me, so that counts. And no, because I don't really see myself being with someone who is a year or more younger than I am.
Unless I'm like thirty/forty and somehow end up with a younger guy in the future. Sure, why not? 
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Feb 22 2008, 03:36 PM
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 Communication breakdown. Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,691 |
Why not? I used to have a crush on one of my friends and he's a year younger than me.
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Feb 24 2008, 06:00 PM
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 Free the Caged Bird. Let it Sing. Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 622,056 |
Me, personally...
A year or two younger, sure. Not bad. 3 years +....no. Big difference. But I'm not against those that do. Love is love... and I've read several books with the girl being 5+ years older and it didn't bother me. I just won't do it. |
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Feb 24 2008, 10:24 PM
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Nopee I like mature guys. Guys around my age are just.. Their brains are like sponges.
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Feb 25 2008, 11:04 PM
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 And in that moment.. I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,367 |
I have before, and it wasn't really too big of a deal. About half of my exes were younger than me. But I'll be 18 next week, so I can't see myself with a younger guy after that. I'd feel like a pedophile. =/
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Feb 26 2008, 01:14 AM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
Depends how much younger, but basically anyone who's over 1 year younger hasn't and never will happen.
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Apr 28 2008, 09:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
no. no. And no. I hate younger guys.
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Apr 28 2008, 09:19 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
Well I'm of the male species, but I would date a younger woman.
I've done it before. Not more than a year difference though. |
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Apr 28 2008, 09:31 PM
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Jeffie's 18, and I'll be 20 in August bleh males. |
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Apr 28 2008, 09:50 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Deffinately depends on how much younger. I just can't see myself, right now, being physcially attracted to someone a lot younger. A year or two isn't a biggie.
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Apr 28 2008, 09:52 PM
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 Farewell, Hello. I'm Colleen. Group: Official Designer Posts: 222 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 539,346 |
My boyfriend is exactly a month younger than me. But he looks a year older.
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Apr 28 2008, 10:12 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
everything points to NO! just wouldn't be comfortable, nor would i date anyone 5 + years older than me. guess it was the way i was brought up and the fact that my parents are a month apart... i want something like what they have!
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Apr 28 2008, 11:29 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
I prefer someone older than me. But if the guy is younger and is mature enough, I don't see why not.
I've always had this assumption that if they're younger (as in years not like months because that doesn't count for me) I would always have to baby him and I'd be like this motherly figure. I don't like being the pants in the relationship. My parents are like that, My mother takes care of everything basically and my dad's the bitch. Mostly she takes care of all the money, and my dad doesn't speak much english so thats the reason. She's more dominant in the longrun and I don't want to be like that. |
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Apr 30 2008, 02:36 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I like older guys...
But I suppose when I'm at an age when you can't really tell between a year or two - like late 20's or something, I don't think I would mind. |
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May 17 2008, 07:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,207 |
no b/c girls mature faster than guys so if a guy is a few years older than you, your maturity levels kinda match up lol. but if he's younger than you, ugh no way. it's like dating a five year old
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May 17 2008, 08:01 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Never.
I've only dated people atleased 2 years older than me and probably always will lol. |
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May 17 2008, 08:55 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
Nope; everyone I've dated was older even if they were a grade lower (their birthday's late like mine)...I date my age or older...
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May 19 2008, 09:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 648,583 |
my limit is a guy who is younger than me by about a year. more than that is just weird. unless he's really mature
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May 20 2008, 10:17 AM
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'course not !
 it just doesn't go >< it's ok for guys to date younger girls , but it's just wrong for a girl to date a younger guy 
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May 20 2008, 06:49 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
the youngest guy i've dated was like barely two months younger than me. and he was my first "boyfriend". after him, i've always had a boyfriend 2 or 3 years older than me. i just never saw myself dating someone my age because they were so immature or whatever. lol. they weren't my type. but i think i would date someone younger, ONLY ONLY ONLY if he doesn't seem younger. the farthest i'll go is like one year younger. that is it. i'd feel too weird if it goes past that.
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May 21 2008, 02:03 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
I voted yes, but really its a big 'maybe' It depended on their maturity level, because most guys that are younger than me are way to immature for me. A few months younger is probably the farthest I'd go..
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May 21 2008, 04:55 PM
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Never.
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May 23 2008, 03:01 PM
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 f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
i would. most of the guys i've had "more than friends" relationships with are younger than me. 3 years is my limit though. i think i have a subconscious preference for younger guys.
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May 24 2008, 09:57 AM
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probably. i kinda cut off about a few months younger than me. MAYBE a year. otherwise, i think it would be awkward.
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Jun 11 2008, 05:11 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
Yeah, I would.
Nothing really wrong with it. My boyfriend's 10 months younger then me. Same grade, now a sophomore with me. Though he acts older. |
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Jun 11 2008, 07:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 652,769 |
QUOTE(paperplane @ Feb 22 2008, 12:27 AM)  You left out the maybe... While it's certainly not preferred, it would depend on the guy, the actual age difference, and the situation. ^^^ |
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Jun 11 2008, 07:54 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
only if he was like 2 months youger. but anything more than that it a no.
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Sep 14 2008, 02:21 AM
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 [pandemonium] :3 Group: Human Posts: 225 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,107 |
QUOTE(paperplane @ Feb 21 2008, 09:27 PM) While it's certainly not preferred, it would depend on the guy, the actual age difference, and the situation. |
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Sep 14 2008, 02:43 AM
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Not at this point in my life.
God, does that make me sound like a future cougar? |
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Sep 15 2008, 07:57 AM
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i dont like the idea but my bf now is a month younger than me.
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Sep 16 2008, 03:25 PM
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if they're under the legal age....NO THANKS!
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Sep 16 2008, 06:14 PM
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no i aint sandy
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Sep 16 2008, 06:20 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Im dating a guy who is younger than me
Im a junior and he is a sophmore. Not a big difference, before it kind of mattered to me. But now it really doesnt matter to me at all. |
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Sep 19 2008, 06:31 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,790 |
Sure, if he's mature and the age difference isn't too much. A year apart wouldn't be so bad (: Otherwise, I'd go for an older guy.
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Oct 8 2008, 06:10 AM
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X x L o L a x X Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 430,749 |
i already did. but he lied about his age lolllllllll, i was mortitifed when i found out he only turned 15, he told me he wasa 16!
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Oct 11 2008, 11:21 PM
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Age ain't nothin' but a number!
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Oct 12 2008, 04:38 PM
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Naww
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Oct 24 2008, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE(AyeVickaye @ Oct 11 2008, 11:21 PM) Age ain't nothin' but a number! IAWTC! I don't see it mattering their age, if they're really immature that's a different thing, but don't write them off cause they had the misfortune of being born after you. And with that, I'm actually dating a guy 3 years older than me, but it I wouldn't care if he was 3 years younger.(however, that might be a little illegal?) |
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Oct 24 2008, 10:34 PM
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Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
Update: dating someone a year and a half older... big mistake.
Never again. |
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Oct 25 2008, 09:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
QUOTE(Tomates @ Sep 16 2008, 07:20 PM) Im dating a guy who is younger than me Im a junior and he is a sophmore. Not a big difference, before it kind of mattered to me. But now it really doesnt matter to me at all. yea but he also looks older and hangs out with our grade and seniros personally, i prefer boys older than me or in my grade |
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Oct 25 2008, 09:56 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i was with a freshman as a junior.
he was way too immature though. i won't be doing that again. |
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