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faithin_felix
post Jun 23 2004, 07:44 PM
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are people here allowed to date? if not, what excuses do you use?
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 07:50 PM
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I'm not allowed to for another year, but I'm allowed to go on "group dates". My friends and I have decided that that means we go as a group then split up. It's a nice loop hole. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 07:58 PM
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yehh i am... but wut do you mean by giving excuses though? huh.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 08:01 PM
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hurmm i think in my parents' eyes i will always be their baby..so no i would say never..but they are open to it. my brother never revealed anything to our parents when he was dating until it was serious and when he was like 20..they been together for like 3 years. DAMn blink.gif blink.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 08:19 PM
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jus like mini^^ i'm still my parents' baby... technically i'm not allowed to date, so i just tell my parents i'm 'going to a movie with some friends'....they trust me (they really shouldn't...) and its' all gd
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 23 2004, 7:58 PM)
yehh i am... but wut do you mean by giving excuses though? huh.gif

like saying you are going out with friends but dating.
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 09:19 PM
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My dad still doesn't like the fact that I am 19 and have a boyfriend. He doesn't say much about it though!.....lol.......
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 09:28 PM
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Geez, I'm 19 and I'm still not allowed to date, but that doesn't stop me from going out with my friends to meet guys. All I would tell my parents is that you guys said I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend, but you didn't say anything about not meeting new friends.

Eh, I don't want to have a boyfriend anyhow... all they do is tie you down.
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 09:39 PM
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I can "date" but I don't because we are all too young to actually go anywhere without parents having to drive us.. So I don't count it as dating..
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 10:36 PM
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i'm aloud to date. but i'm not allowed to date the guys i date. lol. laugh.gif i date older guys, and if my parents found out, then i'd be screwed. but since i always see my friend sam and walk to her house and stuff, i just tell them i'm with her.
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 10:57 PM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jun 23 2004, 9:13 PM)
like saying you are going out with friends but dating.

oo ok!!! now i get it!!! sorry im kinda slow... laugh.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 10:59 PM
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i' m allowed to date, my parents dont care _smile.gif as lonf as i dont go off and marry that person in vegas..or something like that
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 23 2004, 10:59 PM)
i' m allowed to date, my parents dont care _smile.gif as lonf as i dont go off and marry that person in vegas..or something like that

that`s awesome.

i can`t date `till i`m in college. sad.gif

it sucks waiting...but it`s worth it. happy.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:37 PM
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QUOTE(JessJR1022 @ Jun 23 2004, 9:19 PM)
My dad still doesn't like the fact that I am 19 and have a boyfriend. He doesn't say much about it though!.....lol.......

shouldn't people be allowed to date once their in college though? i guess its up to the parents...

yup i'm allowed to date--i think xD rolleyes.gif
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:41 PM
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I'm 19, my mom wont let me date, its sad...

Just kidding, i can date...

that would be pretty sad if they said no... i'd probably laugh at them
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:52 PM
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QUOTE(dukesoccer07 @ Jun 23 2004, 11:41 PM)
I'm 19, my mom wont let me date, its sad...

Just kidding, i can date...

that would be pretty sad if they said no... i'd probably laugh at them

dude, remember me? and look at top, your 19, and some other people 19 and they can't date if you say that you might hurt them.
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:53 PM
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yea i can. me n my parents "understand" each other thats y
 
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post Jun 23 2004, 11:56 PM
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hmmm maybe I should read all the threads before posting...


sorry if that offends anyone... sad.gif
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 12:36 AM
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yea im allowed. hehe i waz onli allowed to start dating wen i waz 14 but i realli started wen i waz 12 :P. mai parents r strict. i hate the way they c me as a little kid.
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 02:04 AM
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QUOTE(dukesoccer07 @ Jun 23 2004, 11:56 PM)
hmmm maybe I should read all the threads before posting...


sorry if that offends anyone... sad.gif

yea, you should. there were like two other 19 year olds.


and dani41790 i hate the way parents think of us lil kids, i so agree. we should rebel!
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 02:43 AM
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im not allowed to date either, not until university? well i still do anyways, denying if they asked. yep, excuses i usually use are blabbing a random name and say im going to the mall with them. heehee it always work but everytime i lie, i feel quilty _unsure.gif btw are u even allow to date? lol, use alex! heehee, so what excuses do u tell ur parents when ur out with me?
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 02:15 PM
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haha.. im not allowed to date! im 15 and my parents dont trust me. -___- and i just dont tell my parents that i have a boyfrend haha.

OH.. i`m like sandra, im not allowed to date until im in college hah. i hope my parents dont read this.. :P
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 04:56 PM
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I'm not allowed...until God knows when pinch.gif
 
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I'm not allowed, but I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I usually say I'm on the phone or going out with my girlfriends.
 
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post Jun 24 2004, 05:27 PM
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im allowed to but im scared to cuz my family would tease me forever
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 01:07 AM
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why would they tease you? TEASE?
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 02:13 AM
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lmao my dad gives me condoms when i go out, he says not to make him a grandpa haha
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 02:24 AM
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QUOTE(natE'z @ Jun 25 2004, 2:13 AM)
lmao my dad gives me condoms when i go out, he says not to make him a grandpa haha

It'd be a shame to ruin your life.
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 06:35 AM
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I don't think I'm really allowed but I still go on them anyway. But my mom's cool with group dates.
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 11:29 AM
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im allowed to date biggrin.gif
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 12:49 PM
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im only 12 and allowed to date. the weird thing is they dont really trust me that much but they let me date. wen my mom told me i couldnt date after sum1 asked me out (this wasnt too long ago actualy) i just said "mom just let me date! dan (older bro, now 14) already dated in 5th grade! its not like im gunna hav sex with him!" and that got her lol! sooooooooo now im allowed to date!
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 04:19 PM
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Well like forever my parents have been saying 16, but screw that.. maybe next year? (14-15) first year of highschool.. that'd be nicee biggrin.gif
 
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i'm not allowed..but i still do..juzt dunt tell dem.. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jun 25 2004, 07:30 PM
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I'm (quote-unquote) too young. pfft.
 
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post Jun 26 2004, 08:03 PM
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me n my parents didnt really talk about it until i got a bf...at first they were kinda wierd actin but now they don't care...they tease me about him but im ok w/that _smile.gif
 
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post Jun 26 2004, 08:29 PM
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i think so.. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jun 27 2004, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jun 26 2004, 8:29 PM)
i think so.. biggrin.gif

julia?!?! really?! no way..
 
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post Jun 27 2004, 06:59 PM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jun 27 2004, 4:43 PM)
julia?!?! really?! no way..

dude, julia's my name. whoa!
 
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post Jun 27 2004, 07:04 PM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jun 27 2004, 3:43 PM)
julia?!?! really?! no way..

yes dude.. reallyy isnt it awesome? too bad i havent found one yet.. cry.gif
 
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im not allowed to date but i do anyways my parents never find out except for this one time..
 
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post Jun 27 2004, 08:57 PM
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well, i'm not allowed to date. but i have dated, i just tell my parents that i'm out with a friend.
 
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post Jun 27 2004, 11:06 PM
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well~~~~
as long as "going out" doesn't equal to "having sex"
then i'm ok to go out

honestly,at the age of 16, i have too much to look foward to than having sex with boys dealing with puberty
 
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post Jun 28 2004, 12:53 AM
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im allowd to date i guess or have a bf haha but uhh some of my friends arent and they just tell their parents that they're going out with friends and yea.. meet up with their bf or a guy
 
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post Jun 28 2004, 12:55 AM
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^^ that'd be me..her friend. haha.
 
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post Jun 28 2004, 09:00 AM
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im not supposed to date until I am 16 but I date anyway.. I do feel guilty hiding it from my parents though
 
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technicalli im not allowed to date until i turn 16( in 2 months biggrin.gif ) but since im 15 now mi mom lets me group date lol she's so cute isnt she , but it doesnt realli matter cuz mi boyfriend moved 2 cali for college neway cry.gif
 
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post Jun 28 2004, 01:58 PM
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Nope, not until I'm 18.
That's freakin' college!
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post Jun 28 2004, 07:45 PM
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im allowed, but if i wasnt id do it anyway...heh. (from when I wasnt used to) but honestly...i guess tell them hehe.
 
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umm i thot about asking.. my dad.. haha.. but yeah..to everyone in my family.. im like the innocent boi.. haha.. everyone say i shouldnt date.. even though i do.. haha.. almost 16.. and family still say.. cant until like 19 or older.. or after college.. and damn.. i be like 30 by then.. haha
 
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post Jun 29 2004, 12:46 AM
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QUOTE(rOckThISshYt @ Jun 27 2004, 6:59 PM)
dude, julia's my name. whoa!

well theres more than 1 julia in this world. _smile.gif

idyll - who said your parents have to know? _dry.gif
 
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post Jun 29 2004, 01:41 AM
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haha i won't be able to date till hell freezes over. but ehh f*ck that ... i did't really give excuses... i just told my mom i was hanging with my friends and met my ex at the mall or something. _smile.gif
 
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not until college-- but it's okay, i'm not ready yet anyways.. _smile.gif but i'll get a bf when i'm a junior in hs... (hehe got it planned.. tongue.gif )
 
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post Jun 30 2004, 05:02 PM
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i'm sure i'm allowed, just no one has asked..
 
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post Jun 30 2004, 06:49 PM
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well my parents doesn't realli want meh going out wif guyss
and all i do ish tell them i'm going out wif my friends lols xD
buh afta i invite him to come ova my parents doesn't seem to care
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 01:54 PM
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my mom says i cant date until COLLEGE (im 13) .. but ive had three bf`s.. one of them she knew about wink.gif ...nd tellin her was tha biggest mistake.. so as long as I noe wut i`m gettin myself into nd as long as i play it safe.. i noe its okay for me to date...
 
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my parents don't like me too... they don't let me on private dates but they don't care if i hang out with guys and stuff... i just can't go into houses and stuff
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 02:42 PM
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i wasnt allowed to date at one time but i just told my parents i was going to a friends house......yep
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 03:20 PM
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Nope just say Im "studying" with a friend hahaha
 
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i can have a boyfrend..(mom found out)..buht i cant date..tell me how that makes any kind of sense pinch.gif ..buh i do it any way biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 08:33 PM
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well... uhm, technically no. i'm not supposed to be dating.

but heck, how would they know? =p not like i HAVE to tell them anything. whistling.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 10:18 PM
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I'm not sure. Cause if I ask my parents they may get suspicious that I've been asked out, or if I've snuck out.

Maybe in another 2 years when I'm 14...?? I dunno... huh.gif

I've never been asked out, so I've never used an excuse. mellow.gif
 
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post Jul 18 2004, 12:21 AM
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i actualli dont noe myslef...i never talked or asked my parents bout it...
all i ever did was keep everything away from dem..hmmm ermm.gif
 
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i WASNT ALLOWED TO DATE OR HAVE A BF TiLL i GRADUATED HiGH SCHOOL. bUT i MET MY CURRENT BOYFRiEND WHEN i WAS iN HiGH SCHOOL AND WHEN i TRiED TO iNTRODUCE HiM TO MY PARENTS THEY WOULDNT HAVE iT.. tHEY HATED HiM. sO i FiNALLY GRADUATED AND NOW THEY LOVE HiM... BLEH.. i DUNNO MY PARENTS ARE LAME-O!!!
 
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im not alllowed either, but its so easy to get past the parents. (ive been datin over a year) just be like hey im meeting with some of my friends at the movie .. could u drop me off at [time] and pick me up at [time] ?
works like a charm shifty.gif
 
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im allowed. even on a school night. i think that was only for the experience though that she let me on a school night.... laugh.gif
 
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im not allowed to date till im 16 (parents), but i do it neways
 
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i am and im 15
 
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QUOTE(mai_z @ Jun 23 2004, 8:19 PM)
jus like mini^^ i'm still my parents' baby... technically i'm not allowed to date, so i just tell my parents i'm 'going to a movie with some friends'....they trust me (they really shouldn't...) and its' all gd

ha same heree.. dey dunt really.. deyre gonna go all afjdlfjlakj lols
 
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