the friend zone, prevention |
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 Feb 3 2008, 04:55 PM
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 dammit!  Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,153  |
Pretty much i think this has happened to everyguy, u kno how u hang with a girl and u get really close with them and u think u hve something with them that they just want to be friends. I call this "the friend zone" and this has happened to me alot bc its gotten to the point where i think no girl would want to date me bc i'm just a good friend. does anyone have any ideas on how i ca get my ass out of the friend zone and prevent this from happening.
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Feb 3 2008, 05:04 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Tell her how you feel.
Moved to Relationships. |
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Feb 3 2008, 05:06 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
uhh, for starters, you can tell them you're interested, or you can maybe get touchy-feely & give her compliments you'd make to someone you like. just don't overdo it, or you'll look like an ass.
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Feb 3 2008, 05:22 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I put my current boyfriend in the Friend Zone for over a year - just because I had never had a boyfriend before and I didn't know what my feelings were towards him. I'm so very glad he persevered, I couldn't be without him now. I'd suggest sticking with it - drop the hints but don't take things further than she's comfortable with. Good luck!
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Feb 3 2008, 06:05 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
prevention? how do you purpose this be prevented?
if you know her well, it would be simple to make her your girlfriend |
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Feb 3 2008, 07:35 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Do you have any idea how she feels about you? I mean, you could go for the telling her how you feel part, but if you think you have a good chance then go for it! Or you could drop some hints to warm things up and let it simmer first.
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