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[PrideOfAzia]

its been a week since my gf broke up with me and things have changed a lot. She use to be like.. the quiet type i guess? she never swore and she was well mannered, she was kind.. gentle and lately shes changed. She swears every time we talk, i see f**k every other line, i ask her why shes being like that and shes like like what? im always like that. Anddd she acts really dry to everyone, not just me.. but to everyone she use to be pretty close with. I don't kno much about her friends cuz she moved back to china but she constantly talks about drinking with them and they seem pretty sketchy to me. Basically.. shes changed a lottt, and even though were over i dont wana see her go down that f**ked up path. I duno how to talk to her anymore, i've tried asking her friends to talk to her but they say she responds differently to them also. She keeps thinking i dont care about her anymore, when i tell her i still do, cuz after all she broke up with me.. i didnt want it to end.. anyway.. What can i do ? im worried about her =\

[MissHygienic]

What path is she going down? She's just angry or trying to momentarily piss her life away. Stop trying to control her actions, and let her do her own thing. She's out of your reach now, anyway, there's nothing you can do. I'm sure she's a big girl, and she probably wants to feel like one. Stop treating her as if she were a little girl who doesn't make mistakes, ever.

[absinthe]

Agreed. Let her be. Seems to me like she's having an angry/angsty moment in her life, and just wants to to be reckless for a while. If her friends there are halfway decent, they'll make sure she doesn't do anything that can't be reversed. If she's still like that after a while, seriously get someone to just bitchslap her and tell her how the world really works. *shrug* I'm pretty sure she knows people care, but I think she's more inclined to believe they don't atm.

[Tung]

She seems like she's going through the normal phase a teen goes through. What that is? She's going through the phase where you don't give a shit about anyone, and just want to party and have fun, getting drunk all the time. Forget about her, and let her do her own thing.

[S-Majere]

I cut my butt-length hair and turned gothic when I fell out with a big group of my besties, so what your girlfriend is doing is pretty normal after a breakup. It's called 'reinvention'. She'll probably snap out of it; leave her to it.

[JCLore]

she has to learn in her own a time. she'll make a mistake and then she'll learn from it, unless she's really really stubborn, in which case she'll do it again then maybe you could interveen (dunno if thats spelt right)