Love?, How do you know if he/she loves you.... |
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 Jan 19 2008, 11:25 PM
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 DeadlyKitten  Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383  |
So how do you know? There are things my bf does that makes me feel he trully loves me but how can i be sure?? How can anyone be sure?
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Jan 19 2008, 11:35 PM
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I think people think they know, but I don`t think anyone really knows. I think it`s just one of those things to risk, imo.
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Jan 20 2008, 02:36 AM
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You canīt always know if they love you. Maybe itīs his way of showing that he cares for you.
But then maybe in the future he might tell you so himself...mean while you never know. |
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Jan 21 2008, 10:42 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
i'm in a similar situation. my boyfriend told me that he loves me and i think i love him too but i feel like it's a little too early to know for sure. i don't wanna rush into such a strong emotion. so i think you should think about it and maybe one day you'll definitely know how you feel. i hope the same for me.
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Jan 21 2008, 10:44 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
If you're not sure, you're not in love. Plain and simple.
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Jan 21 2008, 10:52 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 21 2008, 10:44 PM)  If you're not sure, you're not in love. Plain and simple. She's confused about whether or not her boyfriend loves her. I don't think it's a question about whether or not she's in love. It's extremely hard to read people, regardless of how deep or devoted the feelings towards the person is. Even when you really love someone, it isn't always that easy to tell if your feelings are reciprocated. Back to DeadlyKitten, we have no idea who you are or who your boyfriend is. Why don't you talk to him? We can offer you no help here. |
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Jan 21 2008, 11:04 PM
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Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
QUOTE(resplendence @ Jan 21 2008, 10:52 PM) She's confused about whether or not her boyfriend loves her. I don't think it's a question about whether or not she's in love. It's extremely hard to read people, regardless of how deep or devoted the feelings towards the person is. Even when you really love someone, it isn't always that easy to tell if your feelings are reciprocated. One of her questions was, "How can anyone be sure?" It wasn't necessarily directed at her, but the post above me when she said, "I think I love him." Vague stories will receive vague answers. I can't imagine she honestly expects anyone to relieve her curiosity about her boyfriend, whom we don't know. |
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Jan 22 2008, 12:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
when he tells you.
i kind of felt the same way too. my boyfriend and i started the same time around other couples from school. and they all said " i love you " in like a few months. by a year my boyfriend still didn't say it to me! at times i THOUGHT i was in love. but i wasn't too sure, i'm also more traditional so i wasn't gonna say it until he says it. (stubborn of me, i know) but now he's said it and he said he felt it for awhile and he doesn't care if i say it back or not cause he loves me anyways. so it depends on you, if you're more "the guy has to say it first" or you truly feel it and want to say it, despite if he feels it yet or not. (it'll hurt, but at least you got your feelings out) or if you guys are comfortable enough you can discuss what he thinks about love. i know some guys don't say " i love you " until they KNOW they are the one they're gonna marry. i mean if you're in your teenagers, you're probably not gonna date for 10 years straight and marry... |
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Jan 22 2008, 03:19 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
if you purposely kill his parents and all the family he has, and he still tries to make things work, you can be sure.
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Jan 22 2008, 03:29 AM
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 Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
no, take his car keys, crash it, call him n be like sorry i crashed ur car. if he asks how the car is, he doesnt love u. if he asks how u are, he prolly loves u. prolly.
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Jan 22 2008, 04:26 PM
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You'll know. It's all in the eyes.
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Jan 22 2008, 11:13 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(PrideOfAzia @ Jan 22 2008, 04:29 AM) no, take his car keys, crash it, call him n be like sorry i crashed ur car. if he asks how the car is, he doesnt love u. if he asks how u are, he prolly loves u. prolly. true. probably means maybe not. |
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Jan 22 2008, 11:41 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 19 2008, 10:25 PM) So how do you know? There are things my bf does that makes me feel he trully loves me but how can i be sure?? How can anyone be sure? How old are you? |
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Jan 23 2008, 04:34 AM
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DeadlyKitten Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383 |
20, and i think i know that he loves me now. He just doesnt show it as much as a girl would and i have to deal with that. lol otherwise i miswell date a gay guy. haha he told me last night that i've done more things for him then anyone has ever done for him and he shed a tear
 it was sooo cute. haha
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Jan 24 2008, 10:38 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 23 2008, 03:34 AM) 20, and i think i know that he loves me now. He just doesnt show it as much as a girl would and i have to deal with that. lol otherwise i miswell date a gay guy. haha he told me last night that i've done more things for him then anyone has ever done for him and he shed a tear it was sooo cute. hahaYikes. Is he all effeminate and what not? That could be a warning sign. |
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Jan 25 2008, 12:25 AM
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DeadlyKitten Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383 |
what do u mean?
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Jan 25 2008, 06:21 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
It's really hard to know if someone loves you or know. Time isn't always the case like many people say. People might say, you have to be with somebody for a period of time, but I don't think love has a period. Maybe it does, but there are no time frames.
Anyways, I can tell someone loves me, when they worry about me. They talk me to about my problems, and want me to change for the better. They are always there for you, through thick and thin, and doesn't care what people say about you. All that matters is you, and that's it. I can usually tell if someone really loves you by the way they kiss, and they way we talk with each other. Happiness is good sign to show the other person you are in love. |
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Jan 25 2008, 09:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
depends if you believe in love at first sight or if you believe in making the relationship take the test of time...
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Jan 26 2008, 11:52 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 24 2008, 11:25 PM) what do u mean? Nevermind. |
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