Do you think you're pretty? Options

[miyashu]

Ok SO. I searched and I didn't find a topic like this. Let me know if I'm wrong about that :P.

My question to all you girls is: Do you ever feel pretty/beautiful?

Some days, especially if I get dolled up to go out, I feel beautiful but there are other days where I feel like I should wear a brown paper bag over my face.

AND

Whenever I feel insecure, I think I look weird or awkward, but when I feel confident, I think DAYUM I'm hot.
not to sound arrogant or anything...

So what about you? Be honest!

[Tung]

I think I'm the prettiest girl ever!

[livwho]

I don't scrutinize myself really.
There are days when I feel fat and overweight, but I don't complain about it; the feeling passes pretty quickly.

Society focuses way too much of their attention on appearance. Beauty is only skin deep.

[michellerrific]

honestly? i think i am okay. i will not be like every other girl and say "NO WAY! I AM SO FLIPPIN UGLY!" because a majority of girls do have much lower self esteem. I guess I'm not like that. Hm. But I know i do look better now than maybe a couple years back.

[fameONE]

From a guy's perspective:

If you're comfortable in your own skin, confident in who you are and in your own abilities, aware of your faults, and you take pride in all of this; you are beautiful.

Ladies, get with the program.

[missnh]

Somedays, when I put in the effort (hair, make-up, specially selected outfit), I feel pretty and confident. Confidence = attractive-ness for me *shrug* Otherwise, I just feel plain, and it doesn't bother me. ^_^

[livwho]

Somedays, when I put in the effort (hair, make-up, specially selected outfit), I feel pretty and confident. Confidence = attractive-ness for me *shrug* Otherwise, I just feel plain, and it doesn't bother me. ^_^

I agree. Confidence means a good day.

[transcendentalis...]

i don't feel insecure about how i look very often.
if my hair, face, and body are in good condition, i don't have anything to worry about.

[Joss-eh-lime]

it may sound shallow, but i feel pretty when I'm dressed cute.
if I'm wearing something i don't feel comfortable or confident it, my self esteem goes down.

[dadoe]

i think i'm quite pretty quite a lot of the time...


other times, all i see are all the imperfections

somtimes i love my imperfections, sometimes, i hate to look at myself in the mirror.

[miley]

well, i look alright when i go out, bu when i have just woken up...

[S-Majere]

I'm stunning.

[B-NOX]

FOR SURE IM PRETTY

[Cattt]

Pretty much like what you said. It all depends.

[Melissa]

I used to have an I-am-ugly complex, but I think I grew out of it. I know I have my good features and my not-so-good features, but I've learned to just accept myself and my appearance. It's a waste of time to dwell on things like that when you can just be having fun and not being self-conscious.

[MissFits]

The things I find pretty on myself are little things. I love the shape of my eyes and my lips are great. I love my big chipmunk cheeks, they are so cute when I smile.

But, I think the opposite sex doesn't notice those things. I mean, John does, but before him the most compliments I got were on my ass.

[Tracy-14]

I think I'm the prettiest girl ever!

Lol, yeah I think your the prettiest girl too.

[xCutUpAngelxxx]

I look absolutely disgusting without make up.But when I have make up on and my lip ring in, I think I look okay.

[miyashu]

I used to have an I-am-ugly complex, but I think I grew out of it. I know I have my good features and my not-so-good features, but I've learned to just accept myself and my appearance. It's a waste of time to dwell on things like that when you can just be having fun and not being self-conscious.

well said. i realized that, too. it's not worth the time to constantly pick flaws when i can just be enjoying myself.

if i had a personality disorder; i'd be a narcissist. xD

ahaha, i can be quite narcissistic, too

[Smarmosaur]

tung, you're gay.

in all seriousness.
every now and then, in certain light with certain makeup and hairdo and colors on, there's a brief few seconds where i feel like the most attractive person ever.

that sounded oober stuck up.

but other than that, i rarely feel normal, let alone pretty.
i honestly think i used to be pretty...then i chopped up my hair and it went downhill from there. one length definitely worked for me.

[Tung]

^ that's f**ked up

[Smarmosaur]

^so are you but we don't complain much do we?
just kiding, before somebody comes along and freaks out...

wait, which part is f**ked up? you being gay? yeah, sad, i know.

[Tung]

i aint gay!

[iDecay]

Eh, there are some times when I feel gorgeous, and other times when I think I look like shit. I have pretty low self-esteem for my personality.

[Smarmosaur]

rlly? 'cause i could have sworn that was you and spencer i walked in on earlier. i could be wrong since i was so disturbed i had to run and go cry that image from my poor little head.

Eh, there are some times when I feel gorgeous, and other times when I think I look like shit. I have pretty low self-esteem for my personality.

awe, i think you're cute in a little girlish way...


[edit-whoops, didn't mean to double post...]

Reason for edit: Merged your double-posts. - Cristy

[icecreamisyummy]

i think im prettier in person than in pics. but i know im not like hottest person ever. and plus i get enough attention from guys, so i guess i am pretty

[tokyo-rose]

Some days I think I am; other days I feel quite average.

[iDecay]

awe, i think you're cute in a little girlish way...

Haha, really now? *giggles*

[AMBERLY07]

im purtyfull lol

[MissHygienic]

I'm sexy, I'm cute, I'm popular to boot. I'm Wh Wh Whitney.

[Tung]

rlly? 'cause i could have sworn that was you and spencer i walked in on earlier. i could be wrong since i was so disturbed i had to run and go cry that image from my poor little head.

Wtf are you talking about? Me and Spencer wtf? Me and Spencer don't even talk.

[technics]

I don't think I'm absolutely hideous. But I do think i'm alright.

[littleswallow]

I personally think I'm okay. I'm not the prettiest girl out there, but I'm not exactly bad looking either.

[superficial]

I'm a narcissist. Better to live life in the highs instead of the lows. Positive > negative. Although there are times when I think that I look like shit. :(

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

sure, why not.

[lovescream]

honestly, i feel pretty sometimes. only sometimes. haha. but usually i just think i'm normal, average, decent. not exactly gorgeous or pretty, but not exactly ugly either. i mean ever since i got a boyfriend, i felt content about my looks so yea. x]

[shoryuken]

howw boutt ppll putt upp sum pix...

cuz dizz threadd crapp if tha no pix..

i needaa c summ pixx da telll u prattyy r not..

[miyashu]

howw boutt ppll putt upp sum pix...

cuz dizz threadd crapp if tha no pix..

i needaa c summ pixx da telll u prattyy r not..

this thread wasn't created so you can judge someone's appearance

[superficial]

howw boutt ppll putt upp sum pix...

cuz dizz threadd crapp if tha no pix..

i needaa c summ pixx da telll u prattyy r not..

how about you shut the f**k up? that's what a MEMBERS' PHOTO thread is for. and no one cares about your opinion.

[Joss-eh-lime]

It wish that girls wouldn't base the idea of being "pretty" on how much attention they get from guys. Self confidence is sort of rare these days.

[miyashu]

It wish that girls wouldn't base the idea of being "pretty" on how much attention they get from guys. Self confidence is sort of rare these days.

Very true. The attention is nice but I certainly don't rely on the opinions of others for a self-esteem boost. I believe that if you want to feel better about yourself, the love/attention has to come from you and not from someone else.

[shoryuken]

truee datt sistaa..

u sayy ditt sistaa...

*highh fivee*

TRUEEE DATT SISTAA..


i thinkk i preetty 2

[Smarmosaur]

Haha, really now? *giggles*

yes and that was so lesbian we'll just drop this now and pretend it didn't happen.



and tung, it was a joke...
i couldn't think of anyone and i was scrolling through the new posts and he was there so it kinda just happened.

[Becks539]

I only really feel pretty on special occasions like homecoming when my hair is all done and i'm all dressed up.

I don't think I'm the most hideous creature out there though. I think I'm alright. No point to dwell on it though, this is what I got and crying over it won't change that.

[Joss-eh-lime]

i think ages 11-13 are and "ugly" phase for most girls. its the awkward time where you don't look cute in pig tails anymore, but you don't have "body" and you dont wear makeup.

random thought.

[MissHygienic]

I wish that girls wouldn't base the idea of being "pretty" on how much attention they get from guys. Self confidence is sort of rare these days.

How would you gain or develop self-confidence without the validation of others?

I think girls are annoying in general when a few guys come up to talk to them, or "hit on them" in their heads, and they walk around ever-so-proudly the following days due to it. "I'm so hot; guys hit on me all of the time!!!"

[Joss-eh-lime]

self confidence is different than validation.

a whole stadium of people could tell you that you are the hottest thing on the planet, but you could still feel hideous.

[AMBERLY07]

i think ages 11-13 are and "ugly" phase for most girls. its the awkward time where you don't look cute in pig tails anymore, but you don't have "body" and you dont wear makeup.

random thought.

hey im 13 and i think im hot :)

[MissHygienic]

self confidence is different than validation.

It's different, but that's not to say that they are not related. When you've not been validated or encouraged in your life at all, chances are that you're not going to be confident later on in life. I'm having a hard time seeing how you can gain confidence out of nowhere.

[roses_are_r.e.d.]

From a guy's perspective:

If you're comfortable in your own skin, confident in who you are and in your own abilities, aware of your faults, and you take pride in all of this; you are beautiful.

Ladies, get with the program.

Awesome... Hehehehe.

[shoryuken]

bietchezz plz... alll ya'lll lil gurlzz alll FUGLYY @zzz shiett!!!

[KissMe2408]

There are some days when I really do.
and other days i feel invisible.

[JokeInsideJoke]

Sometimes ill just throw up my hair when i get home and scrubb all my makeup off and i put on some cumfy clothes and ill look in the mirror and i think, 'oh, wow... i look reaelly good. now if only guys could see me like this'
but there are other days when i hate looking in the mirror

[MissCuppyCake]

im the same as you...
most days if i get the right outfit and do my hair...
i think DAYUM!!!

but

sometimes im like im NOT going out of the house today...
lol

[absinthe]

Mmm, most definitely. ;)

[Eww]

Not really.
I don't have the confidence to feel so highly of myself.

[AimeeLynn]

I don't think I'm "drop dead gorgeous" but I don't think I'm ugly

[membrthetimewthe...]

Hmm depends. Sometimes I do, sometimes not so much.
Other times i tend to avoid mirrors. xD

[AMBERLY07]

I'm hot and i know it..
y b modest?

[Tung]

I'm hot and i know it..
y b modest?

This girl speaks the truth.

[transcendentalis...]

I'm hot and i know it..
y b modest?

just to name a few...
because not everyone thinks so, because you'll make a fool of yourself, and because it makes you come off as a conceited prick.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Honestly? No. I dress okay, but I don't really think I'm pretty/beautiful. But it's not like it's the most important thing to me, so who cares?

[AimeeLynn]

I'm hot and i know it..
y b modest?

uhh yeah ok.

just to name a few...
because not everyone thinks so, because you'll make a fool of yourself, and because it makes you come off as a conceited prick.

Agreed...girl if you think you are pretty chances are people would think other wise.

[tinababy143]

i think everyone is insecure about themselves in general, whether they want to admit it or not. i think im good looking. do i go out && act like im all that?? no. its not conceit, its confidence. but then yeah..there are days when im like "crap i look ugly" or "i dont look as good without makeup." yada yada yada..be crazy. be sexy. be confident. be you.

[Trinity54]

Meh I ussaly feel indiffrent about my looks most of the time.

But yes some days I feel as if my passion within my soul is burning slightly more.

In other words some days I feel great about myself at others just meh.

[ChangeofHeart]

Come on girls show some confidance. I as a guy consider self confidence extremely important for girls and guys. Dont worry about how you look too much, people arent going to notice since their too busy worry about how they look.

[haylerbird]

I think I'm ok.
I do have a confidence booster of going to a school with a 200:1 guy:girl ratio.
I'm one of the hottest girls there.

And I've been the hottest girl in all but MAYBE one class.

[ChangeofHeart]

^^ your pretty danm confident

[stephinika]

Nguo: Seriously, cut it out.


I think I'm on the pretty side I guess, but I have my off days and better days too. I used to be really self-conscious. Not as much anymore, but like I said, I still have those off days...

[pedophile]

Agreed...girl if you think you are pretty chances are people would think other wise.

yeahhhhhhhh... why should what someone else thinks affect what you think about your appearance?

but anyway, i'm like most girls; i have my days where i do, & where i don't.

[pandaa]

there are days... lol

[dasemd]

hmm honestly.
yes I think so. Most of the time I feel pretty good with myself. hm yes I can be a bit of an Ego, but I honestly don't care.
But ofcorse there are days when I just wanna stay in bed and never leave that place.


hmm I havn't tried this but some people say it accually help in building a courage.
Every morning when wake up you should look into the mirror and say
"I'm amazing"
"I'm pretty"
"I'm gorgeous"
or what ever you feel like saying.
You should go happier through your day.

[JokeInsideJoke]

just to name a few...
because not everyone thinks so, because you'll make a fool of yourself, and because it makes you come off as a conceited prick.

true that!

[miyashu]

hmm I havn't tried this but some people say it accually help in building a courage.
Every morning when wake up you should look into the mirror and say
"I'm amazing"
"I'm pretty"
"I'm gorgeous"
or what ever you feel like saying.
You should go happier through your day.

i would recommend doing this!

when my self esteem used to be extremely low, i started assuring myself that i really AM pretty/beautiful/etc. although i felt stupid at first, it did make me feel better, and the words just sunk in after a while.

although i get insecure every once in a while, i don't stress about my looks as much as i used to. and i consider my self esteem to be at a healthy level now :)

[haylerbird]

I've been the only girl in my classes except on.
I'm not being confident.

That just makes me the hottest girl in my class.

[Vyrrei]

Yup.

[Joanne]

I don't think I'm pretty, but I don't think I'm disgustingly ugly either. I'm more in the middle for myself. =P

[madilove]

to be completely honest, i don't think i'm pretty.
i mean i can look at pictures of myself and see that i look better in real life
but ehhhhh, i'm just not attractive

my eyes are too big
my nose is huge
my lips are too small
my cheekbones aren't high enough
my hair line is weird
my hair is too short
my skin is too pale
i'm far too chubby
and my hair is way dead


that's just the begining too




but, hey, i have killer eyebrows

[Packratofthemind]

Some days I feel pretty.

I'm not a hideous beast or anything, at least I hope I'm not...

[Be-Faithful]

I am the beauty.

[IzzyGrace]

Ok SO. I searched and I didn't find a topic like this. Let me know if I'm wrong about that :P.

My question to all you girls is: Do you ever feel pretty/beautiful?

Some days, especially if I get dolled up to go out, I feel beautiful but there are other days where I feel like I should wear a brown paper bag over my face.

AND

Whenever I feel insecure, I think I look weird or awkward, but when I feel confident, I think DAYUM I'm hot.
not to sound arrogant or anything...

So what about you? Be honest!

Ahahaha, I swear, you must be like, my twin or something.

The thing I like about myself is my hair.
Even when I'm having a bad day, I can't hate my hair.
Other days, I'm like, omg my thighs can be seen from China,
this shirt makes me look pregnant when I eat,
I have acne, I hate my nose... it goes on and on.

But I'm getting better, I'm not so down all the time.
And er, I'm trying to learn to take compliments.

[AimeeLynn]

I don't think I'm ugly nor drop dead gorgeous

I feel decent, I think I'm good looking people say and I flaunt

[MissFits]

I think I'm pretty.
Not beautiful, but I'm nothing tragic.

I feel a lot better about myself when I my hair is freshly dyed and my makeup is looking cute.

[Joanne]

^ Whoa, judging from your photos, you look totally different from before!!

[aaayotiffany]

the only thing i really like about myself is my hair, my eyes, and my smile. thats pretty much it.
there's some days when i feel pretty, but thats when i dress up like semi-formal or formal. its rare for me to feel pretty. people tell me all the time, but i don't believe it.
i think i'm pretty cute, i hope that counts. because i act like it sometimes. and i've heard it a gazillion times.

[MissFits]

^ Whoa, judging from your photos, you look totally different from before!!

I don't think so, I just change my hair color every month or so.
I liked the blonde for a while, because it looked really marilyn monroe-esque, but it just got too boring.

How do I look different?

[Joanne]

^ I don't know... I guess it's how you're wearing glasses in most of your pictures. And maybe the hair style and you didn't have any tattoos then. =P

I see the Marilyn Monroe. =]

[MissFits]

Thank you :)
I loved it, but it only looked pretty like that if I curled it, and I got sick of curling my hair every day.

I had tattoos then. I only have 2 more than what I had. And, my dog ate my glasses, I was SO sad.

[Eww]

Some days I feel pretty, other days I don't.
Right now, I don't feel so pretty.

Also, I suck at taking pictures.
Probably 'cause I'm stuck with my cheap camera phone, hahaa.

Anyhow, I think I don't feel pretty so often 'cause I'm mad self-conscious. My self esteem can get really high, but other times, I'm a completely different person.


Edit: That was my 900th post. (Finally D:)

[Rachel]

Yes.

[Gigi]

^ I agree.

[na-nancy]

only somedays i feel pretty, i ususally say i'm ugly -
but i don't think i'm that ugly, i'm hard on myself > <
but i'm self conscious, have a low self-esteem.
I agree with TheFegNut on this. ^ ^

[Amaranthus]

Gorgeous, darling.

No but really.
Some days you feel modelesque.
And other days, you feel like the creepy guy who stalks you're neighbor after school.

[EMELYYxo]

i tell myself i'm pretty....on a good day. :(

[WrathOfOnigo]

When I was in the 6th grade some anonymous person who hated me said I was ugly. Never found out who it was but it scarred me for life.
And (5 years later) I'm just getting around to accepting that some people think I'm unattractive, but the more important ones think I'm pretty.
I don't think I'm so bad, but there are just some days.

[xhidethedetails]

I have poor self esteem so its very rarely that I find myself good looking.

[datass]

today i feel ugly as hell.

[AnnahhbeL]

Well, some days I feel pretty...and some days I just don't.
Depends on my mood and whatnot, also my outfit, hair, makeup that day.

If not, I'd feel just fine and like my normal self.

[Just_Dream]

I usually feel blah lately and I'm recuperating from the weight gain from birth control, so for the past 5 months I've been feeling very unpretty.

Although when I am happy with my image, I just think I am average looking. I guess I'm not one of those people who model in front of a mirror and smile all the time at how beautiful they look

I don't actually "feel" pretty, so I have to ask my boyfriend to know whether I look alright in something. =X

[ofconfidence]

somedays i feel confident about my looks but not pretty.
other days i feel fat, ugly and completely horrible.
it fluctuates as much as perez hiltons hair color.