I need advice., Is she really worth the drama? Options

[SAMANTHAfamous]

Well to start, I had this best friend. Well, at least I thought she was. But I'm not going to mention her name though. Anyways, we met last year and I sorta didn't like her at first, because many people told me that she was mean and a bitch. I didn't jump to conclusions, only because i've never met her. So after constantly talking and socializing. She admitted that I was her best friend. At first, I was just like "Ok, that's cool." But then I started to feel like she was mine too. After awhile, I got to know her more, but started to dread her too. She was threatening and confusing to me. Because she would be calm and nice to me. But sometimes out of nowhere she would pick a fight with me. We would argue frequently, and I felt bad because I thought everything was always my fault. I would always be the one to apologize, even when it wasn't my fault. I guess back then I would be too nice. But now i'm starting to speak out and tell people what I truly think. Well, my boyfriend is 'cousins' with her so she speaks. And I think our arguements affect him because he doesn't want us to fight. But I honestly think it shouldn't matter anymore. I'm tired of her putting me through a bunch a crap. Me and her just got into another predicament. I asked her a simple question and she turned on me and started to bitch and complain to me. Saying "I changed" and that "Everytime she tries to talk to me like old times, I'd rather talk about my boyfriend instead." Wtf? I don't talk about him all that much to her because I know it pisses her off. But she whines way too damn much and I don't want to deal with this anymore. A part of me still wants to be her friend but another part of me just says "f**k her." I don't know what else to do. I've tried with her. It's so foreseeable of what she does now. Even my dad told me that she was a bad influence on me. I honestly don't know what else to do. Am I really being the good person in trying to forgive and forget? Or am I bad person because I supposably start most of the fights with her?

[tailoredtrouble]

id just not talk to her for a while and see how you feel then. like, not go out of your way to avoid her just dont talk to her if she doesnt talk to you. if after that for a while you feel better, then maybe you should hang around her less. like be casual friends instead of best friends. as for your boyfriend, just tell him that youre not really sure about you and her right now but youre going to stop fighting with her and see how it turns out. i know, i know, im hardly helpful.

[Elba]

You two sound like you're going out. Forreals, it sounds like she is your boyfriend with all the arguing and jealousy. I didn't think best friends really fought? I wouldn't know, actually, but that doesn't seem good to me. I don't think the fights are your fault, she may just be crazy. Run away from her asap.

[tilaaaaa]

dude. if this is the chick you mentioned earlier. she's not f**king worth it. shes a whiny bitch and she needs to get over herself. >:[ it really pisses me off on how she disrespects you like that. you dont deserve that shit. and your hubby told you that he would pick you over her anyways. you really want to go through that mess again? always fighting and fussing 24/7? best friends arent suppose to that all the time. if she was really your best friend. she wouldnt have talked mess. shes such a drama queen and takes everything so damn seriously. honestly. wtf is she complaining for because you like to talk about your bf? if i remembered right. everyone told me that she would ALWAYS talk about the guy she liked ALL THE DAMN TIME. and she liked 4985309453457397639876209857240857 guys. and she said she 'loved' them. like she knew shit about them. shes just being a bitch because she cant find a REAL man that wont make her a booty call.


haha.
p.s.
i am also sorry for my language. i express my opinions differently. :)

[SAMANTHAfamous]

I guess...I just don't know anymore. I'm not the only one she's done this too. She's been like this with her other 'best friends' and now i'm finally realizing that she just used me and abused me. :( Which is messed up. She acts like she's always right. And earlier she deleted me off of MySpace and said that I had good stuff written about my bf but not about her. WTF????? What does she expect? He's my BOYFRIEND. Of course i'm going to write cutesy stuff about him, why wouldn't I? This was such a minor problem, it could have been forgotten in 5 minutes. But no f**king no. She had to be so dramatic about it. Now i'm starting to think she's doing this on purpose and using this as an excuse not to be my friend anymore. >:(

[tilaaaaa]

dude...seriously...that probably is the case. she's probably forgotten about you and moved on like she did with all the other "best friends". gosh its so obvious. you have a simple answer to your problem.

"f**k her, forget her, move on. it is what it is. shit happens. hoes will be hoes. snitches will be bitches. and thats the way life is. its gonna be unfair alot. thats why you live and learn."

forget and dont forgive. if you've done that too damn much with her. but shes not f**king satisfied. oh f**king well. her fault. if she wants to be a bitch. be a bitch back. if not. ignore it. cause i know your the type of person to tell someone straight up wtf their problem is. you speak your mind honey. dont let that change. :)

[SAMANTHAfamous]

well...still...

[tilaaaaa]

whats even more funny. is thats shes a hypocrite. honestly dude. f**k her. >:[ soooo not the drama.

[mauriciocruelty]

SLAP THAT BITCH! & SAY! "WHAT NOW HOE?!?"


bahaha nobody is worth in this world other than yourself, family, & friends..& i mean true friends..


by the way whose the Tilaaaa chick?

[SarahxJoy]

My 2¢: She's not worth the drama. Explain to her what it is she does that drives people away. Although I honestly don't think she's going to like hearing it, but someone has to tell her. Avoid her when you can and soon enough she'll get the hint.

[tokyo-rose]

No one is ever worth the drama.