I need major help..someone please help... |
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 Jan 13 2008, 05:26 AM
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I just talked to my ex-gf who broke up with me and she finally told me the truth on whys he broke up with me, which was because she thought I tried to hook up with another girl while she was gone. But, that's completely WRONG! Someone she hardly knows texted her saying that I brought her a flower and all this BS and ive never brought anyone a flower IN MY LIFE! and she called me and told me that she still has feelings for me and I asked she asked me if i had feelings for her and I said yes I do. The hard part is that her friends hate me because of what I supposedly did.
Can someone please tell me what to do..this whole break up was a misunderstanding... |
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Jan 13 2008, 09:03 AM
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If this girl believed someone elses' version of events over yours, she obviously doesn't (or didn't) trust you at all.
Let her go, this sounds like it's her fault for being scarily paranoid. Find someone else to share trust with. |
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Jan 13 2008, 01:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
She has a reason to not completely trust me..because I lied to her about something before but we had gotten over that.
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Jan 13 2008, 01:54 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
gee. the high school dramas.
im sorry. you gave her a reason not to trust you, and lack of trust = termination of relationship. |
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Jan 13 2008, 04:42 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
You shouldn't let what other people think ruin your happiness. If they don't know the other side of the story, then its none of their business. If you like her, then go for it. Communication is key, just tell her how you feel and your side of the story. She'll never know, if you never tell her.
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Jan 14 2008, 06:46 PM
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1. You guys have a big trust problem.
--but you can try to fix that. 2. if you think its worth a shot. its really up to you, in my opinion. |
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Jan 15 2008, 05:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
thanks guys..I talked to her and it seems like we're getting back together..
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Jan 15 2008, 05:20 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
That is good to hear. I guess what I would say, is that she needs to get over the past and look forward to the future. I feel as though when girls do this, it is very childish and stupid.
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Jan 16 2008, 07:06 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
She's a queen, forget about her.
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