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 Jan 8 2008, 04:17 PM
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Recently, I struck up a convo with my brother-in-law's girlfriend. She told me (on her own) that she is still talking with her ex and invited him to her place to smoke (she is very ghetto) and I was shocked! Should I bring this up to my brother-in-law or no? He recently suffered a car accident that left him in a wheel chair and he has a 4 year old son with her. I just believe that what she is doing is wrong and wanted to hear what the public thinks about this! Thanks!
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Jan 8 2008, 09:48 PM
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Smoking isnt ghetto
If they love each other then why not! |
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Jan 8 2008, 10:13 PM
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You need to tell her to stop sluttin around. He needs better.
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Jan 8 2008, 10:18 PM
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Of course you bring it up. He has a right to know, and it's his business because she's with him. I hate friends like this who keep secrets from each other. "Don't tell my own f**king boyfriend, though." Please.
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Jan 8 2008, 10:25 PM
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if you think something is wrong, then bring it up. this girl doesn't sound too great.
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Jan 8 2008, 10:42 PM
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Wait a second...Your brother-in-law's girlfriend?
If he was your brother-in-law that means he would be married to your sister...and from the sound of it this girlfriend of his is not your sister...plus even if the girlfriend was your sister, he wouldn't be your brother-in-law, just your sister's boyfriend. |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(Becks539 @ Jan 8 2008, 07:42 PM)  Wait a second...Your brother-in-law's girlfriend? If he was your brother-in-law that means he would be married to your sister...and from the sound of it this girlfriend of his is not your sister...plus even if the girlfriend was your sister, he wouldn't be your brother-in-law, just your sister's boyfriend. you got it totally wrong. i am married to his brother. my husband's brother, which makes him my brother in law!!! |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(ComradeAlex @ Jan 8 2008, 06:48 PM) Smoking isnt ghetto If they love each other then why not! She smokes pot, that is ghetto and not a good habbit if you want a real job in this world buddy |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:11 AM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 8 2008, 07:18 PM) Of course you bring it up. He has a right to know, and it's his business because she's with him. I hate friends like this who keep secrets from each other. "Don't tell my own f**king boyfriend, though." Please. I totally agree with you. This was the type of reply I was looking for! You need to post to a lot of peoples questions! |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:18 AM
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QUOTE(ChanelAddict87 @ Jan 9 2008, 02:10 AM) She smokes pot, that is ghetto and not a good habbit if you want a real job in this world buddy Not true! I have worked in several different pharmacies and I smoke weed on a pretty regular basis. Um. I'd tell the guy what's going on. He deserves to know. |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:20 AM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 8 2008, 09:18 PM) Not true! I have worked in several different pharmacies and I smoke weed on a pretty regular basis. Um. I'd tell the guy what's going on. He deserves to know. Weed is not good for you. Thats all i meant, and yes it is ghetto in certain areas of the world (white trash)... i am not saying you are, i was just implying that the girl i was talking about was. you really smoke everyday?? damnnnnn thats a waste of money |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:21 AM
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Okay, I am also looking for a response from someone older, not a 18 year old or younger. Someone with wisdom and experience. The young crowd does not have the experience nor knows what to say to some of these posts!!!
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Jan 9 2008, 12:23 AM
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QUOTE(ChanelAddict87 @ Jan 9 2008, 12:11 AM) I totally agree with you. This was the type of reply I was looking for! You need to post to a lot of peoples questions! So, you weren't looking for advice, you were just looking for people to agree with you? |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:24 AM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 8 2008, 09:23 PM) So, you weren't looking for advice, you were just looking for people to agree with you? No, I am looking for advice. I just wanted to see what other women would do, I already know what I am going to do. |
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Jan 9 2008, 12:25 AM
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I see. Good, I'm a firm believer that people have the right to know, and if it involves them, they should not be left in the dark. This is what honor is about.
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Jan 9 2008, 12:26 AM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 8 2008, 09:25 PM) I see. Good, I'm a firm believer that people have the right to know, and if it involves them, they should not be left in the dark. This is what honor is about. Exactly, thank you for answering my post. I decided to mention it to him because in his situation he thinks he cannot get any better, but I believe that he can. :) |
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Jan 9 2008, 11:28 AM
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Well, yeah, you bring it up to him. It's his business, after all.
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Jan 9 2008, 11:32 AM
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Definitely say something, because God knows what happened in that house. Weed can sometime alter a person's judgment, and their inhabitions. (Basically, stuff may have happened because they were high)
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Jan 9 2008, 01:59 PM
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QUOTE(BunkyWhiteGirl @ Jan 8 2008, 07:13 PM) You need to tell her to stop sluttin around. He needs better. I agree.that`s just not right. he at least deserves to know.  |
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Jan 11 2008, 12:25 AM
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QUOTE(ChanelAddict87 @ Jan 8 2008, 11:10 PM) you got it totally wrong. i am married to his brother. my husband's brother, which makes him my brother in law!!! Oh my gosh I'm so sorry! I completly forgot about that whole way of having a brother-in-law and I also assumed you were younger than you are (nothing made it seem like you were younger, I just didn't know) So yeah, I'm sorry! |
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Jan 11 2008, 09:49 AM
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So how'd it turn out
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Jan 13 2008, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(Call911Quick @ Jan 11 2008, 09:49 AM) So how'd it turn out You may never know because she doesn't want to ask questions on here anymore. But, I'll find out because she's my best friend. 
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Jan 13 2008, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(luku @ Jan 9 2008, 01:32 PM) Definitely say something, because God knows what happened in that house. Weed can sometime alter a person's judgment, and their inhabitions. (Basically, stuff may have happened because they were high) Are you kidding me? I've never done anything like that because I was high. No matter how high you get you won't forget you have a significant other. If they f**ked around it's not the weeds fault it's her fault for being a whore. |
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Jan 13 2008, 04:55 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 13 2008, 04:52 PM) If they f**ked around it's not the weeds fault it's her fault for being a whore. Off-topic, but I couldn't agree more with this sentence; same goes for alcohol. |
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Jan 13 2008, 04:57 PM
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THANK YOU!
The only people I know that say they had sex with someone because they were high or drunk are sluts or girls that regret doing it and they think that saying they were in an altered state of mind will somehow make it not count anymore. |
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Jan 13 2008, 04:57 PM
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He deserves to know. I think its best if you tell him.
 THEY HAVE A KID! Think of the children. But seriously, you should tell him.
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Jan 13 2008, 04:59 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 13 2008, 04:52 PM) Are you kidding me? I've never done anything like that because I was high. No matter how high you get you won't forget you have a significant other. If they f**ked around it's not the weeds fault it's her fault for being a whore. ^^i agree. pot smokers are ghetto?? i was in band(almost 300 bandos) and about 75% of em were pot smokers, oh and they were also rich snotty white kids. i would tell. but then again, in the oh so called "ghetto" world that really isnt a big deal. cuz its jsut smoking hanging out with someone. its like a hobby to smoke. |
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Jan 13 2008, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 13 2008, 04:57 PM) THANK YOU! The only people I know that say they had sex with someone because they were high or drunk are sluts or girls that regret doing it and they think that saying they were in an altered state of mind will somehow make it not count anymore. I know? No one has ever agreed with me on this. Seriously, it's the same for me. I don't think, "But I was drunk/high" is a good excuse at all. That, in itself, is a retarded/immature thing to say, as if no one can be held responsible for their actions after a few shots/hits. Please. I certainly feel differently, but I don't suddenly forget my morals and start screwing everyone after a smoke or a drink. |
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Jan 14 2008, 06:58 PM
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Just say NO TO DRUGS! They're bad for you!
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