thinking about sex positions, its no stupid question. but am i wrong for this? Options

[SAMANTHAfamous]

ok. well im 14. and i know im a little young to say this...but i do think about my future sex life. and thats pretty normal for some teenagers. but in my opnion. do you think its wrong for me to never do freaky positions when i have sex in the future? maybe one on top of another but i dont think i would EVER do the whole sideways thing or such...

[MissHygienic]

How could it be wrong? You know, some people don't even do the whole oral sex ordeal, even though it's pretty much a universal activity during sex. It's about what's comfortable for you; we all have our limits.

Chances are that you'll grow out of it. C'est la vie.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

How could it be wrong? You know, some people don't even do the whole oral sex ordeal, even though it's pretty much a universal activity during sex. It's about what's comfortable for you; we all have our limits.

Chances are that you'll grow out of it. C'est la vie.

You mean grow out of the no sex position thing? Well I won't know that for sure until i'm older. But to be honest. I'm not really into that whole 'giving head' thing. To me that's degrading, but that's my opnion. It's just some people think it's wrong for me to not do that. I don't know if i'm friends with some real trashy girls or if it's just me. I want to do what I feel is comfortable for my sake.

[MissHygienic]

Oh, with the right person and the right time of the day and hormones, you'll be singing a different tune. I know I do.

Let your girly friends talk. Don't let it change your mind. It might seem right for them, but wrong for you. Respecting yourself is far more important than pleasuring a guy by performing oral sex or doing funky positions.

And always use birth control! (Unless you want children.)

[SAMANTHAfamous]

Oh, with the right person and the right time of the day and hormones, you'll be singing a different tune. I know I do.

Let your girly friends talk. Don't let it change your mind. It might seem right for them, but wrong for you. Respecting yourself is far more important than pleasuring a guy by performing oral sex or doing funky positions.

And always use birth control! (Unless you want children.)

Haha. It might seem that way. Well I guess that's my answer. Do what makes me feel comfortable.

[superstitious]

And always use birth control! (Unless you want children.) and/or STDs.

Variety is the spice of life. Sex shouldn't just be about the missionary position. I predict you'll come (no pun intended) to that conclusion yourself one day.

So in answer to your question, no, I do not think that freaky positions are wrong.

[Flaunted]

... if you do the same position over and over, its just going to become routine and boring. Different positions may feel better or be awkward. you have to take chances with your man to see which ones you or him and even both like best.

that is when you get one and totally ready. and be safe!

[trulyandnever]

I used to think the saaame thing about positions.
& in a way, I still reckon some positions are a total nuh-uh. (Who the hell invented Karma Sutra?)
I reckon I kinda grew out of it.. but I guess no one can be sure till they try huh
& like Valid above said, missionary would get boring after a while...