what to do???..., when it's like this... |
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 Dec 30 2007, 11:31 PM
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 na-nancy  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179  |
so at the school dance..
my best guyfriend.... confessed to me... and he asked me out. he told me he really likes me. and i was surprised..but i knew that he liked me..for awhile.. ever since freshman year too. and...he's a sweet guy..all i can ask for in a guy. but here's one thing.... he's a bboy..im a bgirl...he, me, and my brothers are in a breakdancing crew...together. so we're a team. it's hard because. he's my brother's friend too. i think i like him too, maybe even wanting to be is girlfriend. but i'm afraid...of the relationship between him and my brothers. it's gonna change...he and i aren't so sure either. i don't really know what to do. and he and i are afraid of what might happen between me n him if we break up one day and never talking again...never being friends how we are today. he's giving me time, all the time in the world to answer him. he says he can wait, no matter how long. i enjoy being with him...at times. but still..i don't know what to do. advice? |
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Dec 30 2007, 11:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,948 |
Be w him, throw your silly fears to the side, and enjoy being w him.
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Dec 30 2007, 11:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
I'd sit down, you and your bboy, and talk to your brother.
It's a scary thing to date your friends, but if you really care about eachother and don't f**k eachother over the friendship shouldn't really be that different. If anything it would only make it stronger. |
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Jan 1 2008, 12:16 AM
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 Yupp Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,721 |
Id say do what you want to a certain extent, dont put their relationship (your bros and his) in jeperdy to go out with him, take things slow!
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Jan 1 2008, 02:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 541,260 |
Follow your heart, but at the same time take everything slow. Whats meant to be will work out...if it doesn;t see it as a learning experience.
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Jan 1 2008, 05:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
make him promise you that if you guys ever break up you are going to stay best friends!
if he ever cheated on you when you guys are together the hes not even worth being friends with aye so i say go for it! if your brother loves you he will have no problem with you going out with his mates, really, he would actually make his friend swear that he will never hurt you! |
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Jan 1 2008, 09:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,099 |
If he breaks up with you go smoke his ass in a battle.
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Jan 1 2008, 10:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Just do what comes instinctively, cliche but on-the-spot.
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Jan 1 2008, 09:35 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
i guess.
this is what ive been told when i asked my friends for advice too. T T. still worried. |
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Jan 1 2008, 10:14 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
just do it! if you really like each other, just say yes~
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Jan 2 2008, 12:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
QUOTE(sheepy @ Jan 2 2008, 12:14 PM)  just do it! if you really like each other, just say yes~ Listen to Nike, "Just do it." |
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Jan 2 2008, 07:07 AM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
You and the enter key seem to have a very intimate relationship. I got lost after your third sentence because my mind doesn't work like a grocery list.
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Jan 2 2008, 08:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,099 |
The ellipses distracted me more so than the format
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Jan 2 2008, 09:46 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
gosh it still bugs me...hehehe..sorry for the format guys..=)
yeah...it's just so complicated...*sigh..i kinda wish he hadn't asked me out in the first place so i or we wouldn't be in this mess. |
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Jan 4 2008, 12:26 AM
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 ~a caged bird sings what you can't understand Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 550,749 |
If you let the fear of "everything comes to an end" rule your life, by the end of it you wouldn't have lived at all. You don't sound particularly happy that this guy has turned his attention on you, and you have even more pressure because you have to see each other often because of breakdancing. Forget about the affects this could have on your brothers, your team, anyone but yourself. When it comes right down to it, Would you like to be with him? Does he make you happy more often that not? Don't be afraid that rejecting him would cause him to hate you and strain the relationship between him, you, and your brothers. If he's truly a good friend and person he would get over the rejection.
Good luck =] |
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Jan 4 2008, 09:33 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
I don't even know,
i'm kinda confused at this myself. very confused right now. we both don't even know what to do or say or when to talk about it in person. *sigh... yeah..it's so true..im just a stupid girl who thinks like that. and i hate that about myself. |
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