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 Dec 22 2007, 01:33 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
Okay, well this is pretty complicated so ill try to make it short.
i was with this guy for a year and a half, ( i am 17) i started a new job and met some of the collest people ever..then there was this guy that started working there and we conected instantly. we talked and hung out all the time. well the guy i was with didnt trust me even though i was just hanging out with him ( and other people). He started following me to make sur ei was goin home and all of the stupid things. so i ended it after a year and a half. well this guy and i have become alot closer. i want to be with him. but my mom wants me to wait a while before i date anyone else. she says she wants me to be happy, but im the happiest when i am with him and she doesnt understand that. I really have alot of feelings for this guy, but my mom thinks that he is a rebound. do u think i should get with him now? or should i listen to her and wait a while.. if so .. how long?? |
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Dec 22 2007, 01:57 AM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
Get him now before you never get him. You could wait another two or three weeks before you get into a relationship. Do what you feel is right.
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Dec 22 2007, 03:39 AM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
He could well be a rebound. I'd wait it out for a while, get to know him even better (and he may even ask you on a date this way anyway) before you make a move.
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Dec 22 2007, 01:07 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Usually, a mother knows best and it isn't a really good idea to just jump into a new relationship when you just got out of one, ya know? I agree with the others, you should wait it out a little more. But if you wanna go for it, then go for it.
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Dec 22 2007, 08:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
if you like him, go for it. although i think you should get to know him more. It'll show the guy that you're not a person that dumps somebody for someone that's better.
I'm not saying u are that person though =] i'm sure u have ur reasons for dumping ur ex, he was too overprotective anyways and i think you made the right choice. |
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Dec 22 2007, 08:51 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
i dont really know if it counts as a rebound since you had a great connection with him for a while. i would say go for it?
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