Asking my girlfriend for sex, Asking my Girlfriend for sex |
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 Dec 19 2007, 05:14 PM
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I've been dating this girl for a good while. We have done everything except sex. I dont know how to ask her for it. HELP PLEASE!!!
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Dec 19 2007, 05:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
How long have you been together, exactly?
If you discussed waiting to have sex at the beginning of your relationship, you can bring that up and ask her if you think it's time to take the next step. But if she says no, don't push it. |
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Dec 19 2007, 05:23 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,232 |
We've been dating for 6 months now. So I should ask her if she wants to take it to the next step?
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Dec 19 2007, 05:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Six months is decent.
That depends on what kind of girl she is. If she's told you she's not ready while you were doing "everything but have sex," then chances are she still isn't. Discuss it with her, but don't whine or beg. |
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Dec 19 2007, 05:29 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,232 |
We've never really discussed it honestly. We have a healthy sexual relationship except it. But I honestly dont know how she what she will saw and I dont want it to be awkward if she says no
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Dec 19 2007, 05:49 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
theres no harm in asking right?
you'll be in the exact same position or get bumpin' sure it may get awkward but its normal in a relationship for a boy to ask? o_o get over yourself and go go go! just don't turn to jamie lynn spears. or another statistic for that matter. |
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Dec 19 2007, 06:25 PM
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 ;) Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
Next time you're with her doing everything except "it" ... keep going and ask her if what you're doing is okay and if she says no, then she's probably not ready and you guys should have a talk.
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Dec 19 2007, 06:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
If you can't openly talk about sex, you shouldn't be having sex.
In my opinion. |
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Dec 19 2007, 08:59 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
You have three options:
1.) Take it out of your pants and shake it around in circles in front of her. She'll know that you mean business. 2.) Suck it up and get over it; six months is nothing. 3.) Ask her what she wants to do and talk it out. |
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Dec 20 2007, 02:31 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
you need to talk about it way before actually doing it.
so if you have never brought it up in a regular conversation, you need to. because having a plan could save you bother from a lot of problems. but you should wait till marriage in my opinion |
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Dec 20 2007, 11:15 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Well, if shes never set any limits when you guys first got together, I guess it wouldn't hurt if you asked her, right? I mean, if she does say no, you can't say you didn't try.
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Dec 21 2007, 12:25 AM
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<3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
I like the first option, it shows you're direct and not just beating around the bush.
bush hahaa. |
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Dec 21 2007, 09:13 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
No need to ask, dude. Just play it like you usually do and finish the race this time. If she says no, then no would be the answer. If she doesn't answer or says yes, then we all know the end result there.
I've never asked. Haha. So, that's just my advice. |
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