GIRLS ONLY.. Do you say yes if you like a guy..? Options

[shoryuken]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

[deplorable]

yes i would.
for me a relationship has to grow from friendship, but thats only my opinion.

im always wary of people i dont know well, and getting involved with someone i dont truely know on a personal level would freak me out. i dont think id be able to enjoy the relationship.

[Uronacid]

I would turn him down because I wouldn't know him well enough. I would want to get to know someone before I got "serious" and made it an exclusive relationship. But I'm not a girl soo...

[shoryuken]

I would turn him down because I wouldn't know him well enough. I would want to get to know someone before I got "serious" and made it an exclusive relationship. But I'm not a girl soo...

thought u a guy this whole time...?
*ahem*
then why not take the offer and go out with him to get to know him better?

[Uronacid]

thought u a guy this whole time...?
*ahem*
then why not take the offer and go out with him to get to know him better?

*pretends he's the girl*

You're coming on too strong. It turns me off. Haha... try to think like a girl buddy. She's probably worried abotu some dude just wanting to get in her poocha. You've got to be more subtle about it. Don't be so forceful.

[MissFits]

^ I agree.
I can say that I'd most definitely say no if some random guy asked me to be his girlfriend.

If you want to talk to her when you see eachother I'm sure that'd be fine though. Whatever you do, DO NOT come on to strong. Just try being her friend and see where that goes.

[shoryuken]

Im talking about just 1 date here ppl.. not get into RELATIONSHIP..

[Kontroll]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

Well what do you mean? I know I'm not a girl. Deal with it. Seriously. Are you talking about a guy who ask you to go steady, or just on a date? I hope you wouldn't turn a guy down asking you to go on a date if you didn't know him. That's how things work.

*pretends he's the girl*

You're coming on too strong. It turns me off. Haha... try to think like a girl buddy. She's probably worried abotu some dude just wanting to get in her poocha. You've got to be more subtle about it. Don't be so forceful.

Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example.

[shoryuken]

Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

^ if thats the case then... i'll be getting something soon from a girl im planning on asking out.. ^^

jakkey.. but i'm FUGLY though.. will i still have a shot..?

[MissFits]

Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example.

I think Josh has the right idea.
I know I am only one girl and I don't speak for all of the female population, but I can tell you honestly that when I was single and guys I didn't know talked to me I would be friendly, but the second the conversation turned from "let's be friends" to "do you wanna go out" I was the biggest bitch I could be.
I want guys to be my friend and like me for me not my looks. If this guy doesn't know anything about me he is only wanting to date me for the way I look and that's just no fun seeing as I am more than just a set of boobs and a vagina.
I'd say talk to her for a few days. Ask her for her number. Then, ask her out after you get to know each other.

[superficial]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

First off, I wouldn't like a guy who I hardly even knew... that's like love at first sight... and to me, that's bullshit.

But, if that wasn't a factor, I would say no. I agree with deplorable. It has to grow from a friendship.

[shoryuken]

I think Josh has the right idea.
I know I am only one girl and I don't speak for all of the female population, but I can tell you honestly that when I was single and guys I didn't know talked to me I would be friendly, but the second the conversation turned from "let's be friends" to "do you wanna go out" I was the biggest bitch I could be.
I want guys to be my friend and like me for me not my looks. If this guy doesn't know anything about me he is only wanting to date me for the way I look and that's just no fun seeing as I am more than just a set of boobs and a vagina.
I'd say talk to her for a few days. Ask her for her number. Then, ask her out after you get to know each other.

i know what you mean.. i said somewhere i need 2-3 weeks until i ask her out.. i'm using those 2-3 weeks to get to know her.. then i'll ask her out..

its not like im just gonna walk up to her and then ask her out..

[Kontroll]

^ if thats the case then... i'll be getting something soon from a girl im planning on asking out.. ^^

jakkey.. but i'm FUGLY though.. will i still have a shot..?

Chances are you're not bad looking compared to some guys I've seen. Just think about it. We're guys. Throughout history we've been the dirty ones. We grow up playing in the mud and dirt, not sitting by the garden drinking tea. It's our nature to be a little bit manish, I guess you would say. Don't worry about what you look like. It's not the "hot" guy that gets all the girls, it's the confident guy.

I know this kid Bob, and he really isn't the most bright, or attractive guy I've seen. But, he landed a girl that looks like Keira Knightley. Everyone of my friends was thinking the same thing...How the hell is Bob with her? He's got his inner Bobness figured out. Figure yours out.

^ I agree.
I can say that I'd most definitely say no if some random guy asked me to be his girlfriend.

If you want to talk to her when you see eachother I'm sure that'd be fine though. Whatever you do, DO NOT come on to strong. Just try being her friend and see where that goes.

NO NO NO!!! DOn't be her friend. That's only going to get you one place. The worse place you can be in if you're trying to go steady with her. And that place is called the friend zone.

Once you're there...chances are you're never leaving there.

[shoryuken]

how about this jake.. is this ugly..?

[Kontroll]

how about this jake.. is this ugly..?

Nah. You're fine. Just be smooth. You look like you could be a smooth talker. It would work for you.

[shoryuken]

how would you rate me jake.. ^^ LMAO!!
scale 1-10.. lets hear something NICE!! ^^

P.Snguoicasison is GAY!! <<

[MissFits]

NO NO NO!!! DOn't be her friend. That's only going to get you one place. The worse place you can be in if you're trying to go steady with her. And that place is called the friend zone.

Once you're there...chances are you're never leaving there.

Not true. I have never dated a guy that wasn't my friend first. Most girls I know would rather date a guy she knows than date some dude she sees at work.

[Kontroll]

how would you rate me jake.. ^^ LMAO!!
scale 1-10.. lets hear something NICE!! ^^

Dude. You're missing the point. Looks have nothing to do with anything. Even if it did, there's six billion people on this planet. You're destined to find some one. But for now, you're young, and you got options.

So, relax. There's nothing to worry about.

The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

Maybe you missed that one, MissFits. I don't know.

[shoryuken]

i'm not worry.. i'm just being GAY..
*ahem*

i limit my options as low as possible when it come to girls.. very picky.. but now that i found this HOTASS blondie who been checking me out.. i'm MOVING in soon!!


BTW:JAKE THX FOR THE REQUEST I ASK FOR.

[Kontroll]

i'm not worry.. i'm just being GAY..
*ahem*

i limit my options as low as possible when it come to girls.. very picky.. but now that i found this HOTASS blondie who been checking me out.. i'm MOVING in soon!!

Why do you limit yourself? You're just stealing from yourself dude. You shouldn't need any limitations. Cause in the long run, you're just gonna screw yourself because you're going to keep that thought process going, and it's going to be hard for you to keep a relationship. Trust me I'm the same way. It's hard to erase, but I have to realize that everyone's got their flaws, and usually the ones with a little more flaws are way more interesting. From experience that is. Saying that, you shouldn't just go for the average girls. You could date some good looking girls dude.

[MissFits]

Maybe you missed that one, MissFits. I don't know.

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

[shoryuken]

Why do you limit yourself? You're just stealing from yourself dude. You shouldn't need any limitations.

actually.. in a sense i am.. cuz im really picky.. only some out there that will make me wanna UH UH TAP DAT SHIETT!! well this blondie happen to be one ^^

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

scroll up n read where i say about 2-3 weeks stuff..

[MissFits]

I was replying to IGetSex.
I paid attention to what you wrote

[Kontroll]

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

That's what datings for. I'm not saying a guy should go up to a girl and ask her to be his girlfriend. That's ridiculous.

[MissFits]

It seems like that is what you said.
I guess I misunderstood. I apologize

[Kontroll]

It seems like that is what you said.
I guess I misunderstood. I apologize

I apologize wholeheartedly for allowing that misunderstanding.

[ilauqh]

i would turn him down but i would be open-minded. id say that id like to get to know him better and that i want to hang out with him a few times to get to know him better and then decide if i want to date him or not.

[Uronacid]

Jake,

Buddy... We are but one mind. I'm not saying, "you shouldn't play the field." In fact, I'm saying just the opposite. All I said was, he shouldn't be forceful. Like you said, "be smooth."

[Silly--x]

i would say yes..

the first time me and my boyfriend met.. we've only known each other for an hr or two then i went up and pash him lmao.. a week later he asked me out now we'r best friends and we been together for 6 months

[tokyo-rose]

I would get to know him on some casual dates before saying yes to being his girlfriend.

[Joss-eh-lime]

i would turn it down.

we need to get to know each other before i can call him boyfriend.

[transcendentalis...]

asking someone out doesn't constitute the beginning of a relationship, it just means you're dating.

i've never been really attracted to someone without being friends with him first.

"all right, when do you want to hang out?"

[S-Majere]

It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend.

Six months.

The poor man.

But saying that, we started hanging around more in those six months.

[Silly--x]

It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend.

Six months.

how long have you been with him?

[transcendentalis...]

It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend.

Six months.

The poor man.

But saying that, we started hanging around more in those six months.

that's got to take some dedication, haha. did you like him at all during those six months though? just wondering!

[S-Majere]

This is our second Christmas together *beams*

And no, revoltaire, I liked him as a 'friend' at first (ah, the old adage) and it wasn't until I thought 'Oh, to Hell with it' and said yes that I really started to develop feelings for him.

Now I couldn't be without him.

[Castaway]

i would turn it down.

we need to get to know each other before i can call him boyfriend.

i'm a boy,

I think this is reasonable. Why would you turn him down? Get to know him by going out on some dates. If you don't like him after a date or two, then tell him.

[iDecay]

Well, I don't really like a guy unless I know him. I guess that's just how I am. But obviously I'd say yes. Tehe.

[Smilessss]

it depends how much you like him even if you dont really know him, well to me, if a guy i really like asked me out, i said yes, and like we would go on dates, and while we go out, we would learn about each other, but if it doesnt really work out then we would just become friends

[shoryuken]

where sum place you gurlz like to go out on the NEW YEAR..?

[happydimples]

I would get to know him better
before I went out with him.

[superficial]

where sum place you gurlz like to go out on the NEW YEAR..?

At a club. :) Or at the house of our special someone.

[lizzabeth]

I would say yeah. I did say yeah to my boyfriend of now four months.

[shoryuken]

I would say yeah. I did say yeah to my boyfriend of now four months.

y da h3ll sum troll.. justt bumpp mee threaddd 4...

[IamRad]

if i really liked him, i'd tell him, not just immediately say yes to being with him...

I'd go through the whole dating/getting to know eachother bit first!

ah darn, sorry, i didnt realize it was a bumped thread!

[JokeInsideJoke]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

i would turn it down. i like it if im friends with the guy first

[Kay-]

Yeah, why not? I'd give any guy a chance and usually when i get to know a guy as a friend first this always happens:
1. He's in the friend zone
2. He becomes so much of a good friend that i wouldn't want to put on friendship at risk by going out and then breaking up and never talking to each other after

[shoryuken]

if i really liked him, i'd tell him, not just immediately say yes to being with him...

I'd go through the whole dating/getting to know eachother bit first!

ah darn, sorry, i didnt realize it was a bumped thread!

uh... rittteee...

i would turn it down. i like it if im friends with the guy first

nottt eveenn hee sexxyy princee..?

Yeah, why not? I'd give any guy a chance and usually when i get to know a guy as a friend first this always happens:
1. He's in the friend zone
2. He becomes so much of a good friend that i wouldn't want to put on friendship at risk by going out and then breaking up and never talking to each other after

... justt cuzz hee sooo gooddd friendd dun meann u canntt moveee uppp NUB..

[CO0KiE]

if i like him but we hardly know each other, i'd ask him to wait. cus' if he really wanted to be with me, then he'd wait and get to know me more and hopefully the two of us would still feel the same.

[paolabear20]

Well what do you mean? I know I'm not a girl. Deal with it. Seriously. Are you talking about a guy who ask you to go steady, or just on a date? I hope you wouldn't turn a guy down asking you to go on a date if you didn't know him. That's how things work.
Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example.

I love Sex and the City and it is a perfect example.
I think I would say yes, if it was only a date and I liked him.
But if he asked me to be his girlfriend, i would think twice if I didn't know him.

[towntown2]

I think I would.
I'd use the date as a chance to get to know him and see if I want to pursue anything.

[AimeeLynn]

No if he is good looking... sure.



















But if he is a jerk or a dumbass...no.

[theerinkal]

*pretends he's the girl*

You're coming on too strong. It turns me off. Haha... try to think like a girl buddy. She's probably worried abotu some dude just wanting to get in her poocha. You've got to be more subtle about it. Don't be so forceful.

I agree.

[pedophile]

as a date? of course, why not?

[Tok]

Even if i didnt like that guy at all, i still agree to go out cuz yeah, u'll know about him better that way.
I'd def say yes if someone i like asks me out. That's how we'll get to know each other rite?

[paolabear20]

Duh... WWSD! What would Samantha do?

http://www.hbo.com/city/img/episode/season...28_samantha.jpg

lol, wow, it took ma all this time to look at that. Sorry! totally. =)

[lovescream]

I think I would.
I'd use the date as a chance to get to know him and see if I want to pursue anything.

Same.
But, uh, with that came bad problems. Because after a couple of dates, I said yes to be his gf, but it was then I started realizing his flaws (clingyness) and got annoyed. Lol, I was really infatuated with him. Jumped the wagon too quickly. xD

[xhugerific]

HAHA i would turn him dooowwwnnn ! if you guys go out without even knowing each other, then that's pretty much the same thing as online hoook-up xD

[fairytale-magic]

I'd tell him no. [:

Dating and relationships are something serious to me. I'm not the kind of girl to date around a lot to get to know people, partly because I'm too shy, mostly because I'm lame and because I don't talk to other people enough for them to want to ask me out.

Besides. If I don't know him, I'm not going to willingly be alone somewhere with him without a means of defense. \:

Also because none of the guys at school are really boyfriend material, in my opinion.

Well, just boyfriend material for me.

[emmasawr]

This depends...
If he seems nice and we've talked before than I'd PROBABLY say yes. Personally I don't think you have to become best friends or really good friends with a guy first, that usually ruins your bond after you two break up.

[crypt-tick]

i'd only say yes if i really knew and liked him. apparantly that doesn't register with the guys at my new school. it's quite irksome >_> a relationship is something that i'd look at seriously and it a committment that i wouldn't want to make unless it was with someone good

[maumse]

I'd ask to get to know him better first.

[Tung]

I miss you so much Prince.

[pinayprincess]

That just brings back memories of me and my boyfriend over the summer. I honestly did not know him well enough to be going out with him... I only got to know him for a good two weeks and then he finally asked me out. As much as i wanted to be with him, i thought we were moving tooooo fast... He was already tempted to kiss me after the third day! I couldn't help myself, because he treated me so nice, like a queen i couldn't say no!

Til this day him and I have been together =]

[Burenduhhx]

I would get to know him first & then go out with him.
He might end up like a jerk.

[imnoxonesmemory]

Depends what he was like.
If I could see some sort of a stereotype in him, or if I didn 't like part of his personality I would say no, simply because I don't know him well enough but if he seems cool or interesting I'd say yes.

I've started relationships with people I hardly known and they've worked out fine before. :)

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i think i will say yes. because i wear my heart on my sleeve! lol (x honestly i really don't know what i would do.. if i really liked the guy, and i knew him enough to say boyfriend. then yes i would (:

[gojira]

should always give it time to get to know a person before doing anything drastic.

[walkdownalameda]

^ if thats the case then... i'll be getting something soon from a girl im planning on asking out.. ^^

jakkey.. but i'm FUGLY though.. will i still have a shot..?

probably not.
and you have a retarded UN. wtf?

[walkdownalameda]

i think i will say yes. because i wear my heart on my sleeve! lol (x honestly i really don't know what i would do.. if i really liked the guy, and i knew him enough to say boyfriend. then yes i would (:

i wear sleeves on my heart!

[Burenduhhx]

No, I would like to get to know a little bit more about him.
He might end up being a jerk!