Hardest Part Of A Relationship Options

[Stumbleine]

If you are in a relationship, what is the hardest part about it for you?
If you are not, what has been the hardest part.. or the cause of the break up?

[Silly--x]

the break up is not hard for everyone.. of course it hurts if you love him/her but if you're just playing them then you feel nothin.. hmm for me the hardest part in the relationship for me.. it's trust.. i mean.. i trust my boyfriend but sometimes its just hard to trust him even thou i know he wouldn't go for other girls.. but how would you know if he's cheating or not right?

[shoryuken]

sum ppl just wanna be in relationship cuz dey dont like be alone.. so dey go and find some low azz standard boy/girl then become boyfriend/girlfriend..

others wait till they find somebody that meet their requirement.. once they find that one person.. then they're set..

overall.. when i get into a relationship with a girl.. she gotta have everything i want.. once we're together.. i dun think nothing gonna b hard..

neither of you should breakup in the first place if you ppl know how to pick your mate..

[Mutantbrats]

Well it depends you know. For me its those thoughts that i sometimes get that make me wonder if i can trust the person or not. Or when you get jealous when you see them with someone else. But the hardest part of a relationship for me is letting them go....especially if ive been with them for a while its hard.

[shoryuken]

average couple.. tha nuttin da worry about if other ppl check out your mate or not.. cuz they aint gonna bother..

cute/hot couple.. tha ginna be hitting on and checking out nonstop whenever one of them is out.. so gonna be hard to not cheat..

[Silly--x]

the looks the outside it doesnt really matter the insides is what it really matters so why go for someone thats really hot and would cheat on you non-stop?

[shoryuken]

sigh..*

like i said.. some ppl will go fo average or low standard just so dey aint alone..

but otherss.. dey dont cur if they alone while dey look fo something they think hot/cute.. when they find it.. they're gonna be happy once they get it so they aint gonna cheat cuz they got what they want..

for cheating.. dat depend.. if the guy hotter/cuter than the girll then the guy got the advantage..

i couldd care less if my girl go out every night n party.. but try n cheat on me.. like shes dat stupid.. i know she dont got the guts to.

[Silly--x]

lmao i remember i used to just play around ayy having 5 boyfs at the same time haha bahh nawhh iv found the guy hes perfect

[brestar]

Where to start? Everything about my relationship is challenging. I think the hardest part of any relationship is trust, hands down. These days everyone's cheating on everyone. I'm never too sure if I can truely trust my boyfriends judgement based on the things he's told me about his past. Also, communication is a big issue with us. Neither of us have quite figured out the correct way to approach each other when it comes to bringing up delicate issues. A lot of arguments are stemmed from this. It's tough!

[deplorable]

hmm. hardest part. well. distance at the moment.

[AngelinaTaylor]

The hardest part? Feeling like the other person cares about you. Right now it seems like he really, really, really doesn't give a shit.

[smoke]

^ I'm sorry. He's crazy if he doesn't.

For me, it's definitely trust. I don't trust anyone anymore. Takes a lot to get me to trust you.

[Becks539]

For me it is trust as well and jealousy. When I see him with someone else I can't help my jealousy. And like someone previously said, everyone cheats these days. Deep down I know he never would but I just can't help the thoughts.

[shoryuken]

for guys to cheat.. if he find a girl thats alot prettier/cuter than you.. then he'll cheat..

for girls to cheat.. if she find a guy that make her feel like a princess.. and if she find a guy that look hotter/cuter than her current boyfriend..

[S-Majere]

We have a somewhat perfect one. But concern for the other and his happiness is always at the back of my mind.

[superficial]

For me it is trust as well and jealousy. When I see him with someone else I can't help my jealousy. And like someone previously said, everyone cheats these days. Deep down I know he never would but I just can't help the thoughts.

^ Same with me. I get jealous real easily.

[aznraver396]

distance.
and being overly jealous even though he doesn't do anything.

[pandora]

the hardest part for me is figuring out each others boundaries and learning to respect them.

[ChildMolestor]

Is when the parents find out.

[SimplicityGirl]

right now, distance.

[lovescream]

For me it is trust as well and jealousy. When I see him with someone else I can't help my jealousy. And like someone previously said, everyone cheats these days. Deep down I know he never would but I just can't help the thoughts.

Same. And what's worse is that he admitted to me he once has cheated before. "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? Gah, ionno. He said he hasn't since then and if I can't trust him, he'll understand, but I chose to trust him but I'm still a bit fishy, you know? And I can't help my jealousy either, so ehh.
But along with that, haha, I've been having trouble making the move first. I feel like he's been doing everything first and I don't want him to feel that way. :p

[ersatz]

The hardest part is getting to the point where you are over the excitement and exhilaration of it being new and seeing if you can actually make it last.

[transcendentalis...]

finding specifically what you need to work out and how to deal with different beliefs.

physical limits and time constraints after that.
communication, sometimes.

[teeners4]

for me, at the moment (we're both 18, freshmen in university, dating a year, basically high school sweethearts), the toughest part is probably having different career choices or taking different paths in life.

he IS a big part of my life and i am a big part in his life. but we're not set on marrying any time soon and we're not going to commit to marrying 10 years from now when we have stable careers and ready to settle down.

so like, i guess the hardest part is that being so young, there HAS to be a time when we got to make a choice. it's kind of inevitable we'll fade away but the question is...do we stay in touch and be devoted to each other for that long.

i mean i don't expect him to give up his dream career for me. and he doesn't expect me to either.

so this is what is hard, if that makes any sense at all?

[shannonx1]

The break up is killing me.
And finding another is so hard...

[pinacoolada]

Trust. Oh God.

[Insurmountable]

I think the hardest part of relationships is when you get over the lovey dovey part of the relationships and you start to hit the hard parts and the fighting to see if you guys are really good for each other so to speak. Pretty much testing the whole relationship over and over to see if its going to work throughout all of these fights..

[SeonLee]

Fidelity & trust & communication & suffocating & etc. But I think my top two would be trust and communication.

[transcendentalis...]

for me, at the moment (we're both 18, freshmen in university, dating a year, basically high school sweethearts), the toughest part is probably having different career choices or taking different paths in life.

he IS a big part of my life and i am a big part in his life. but we're not set on marrying any time soon and we're not going to commit to marrying 10 years from now when we have stable careers and ready to settle down.

so like, i guess the hardest part is that being so young, there HAS to be a time when we got to make a choice. it's kind of inevitable we'll fade away but the question is...do we stay in touch and be devoted to each other for that long.

i mean i don't expect him to give up his dream career for me. and he doesn't expect me to either.

so this is what is hard, if that makes any sense at all?

that makes plenty of sense. it makes me think about whether the purpose of teenage relationships would solely be for making memories and gaining experience.

i do respect and give best wishes to the relationships that have lasted even through all these crazy teenagery years. it's so difficult sometimes to understand how your "other half" changes over long periods of time, so ... kudos.

[Flaunted]

Trust definitely.
And like Sammi & holly said, post lovey dovey.
We're still at that stage right now but I dont see it ending anytime soon. But i know that in 2 years he plans on studying abroad in japan and.. it's scary knowing he'll be gone though it seems far from now.
so distance and communication will also be very hard.

[azndreamer]

Definitely the distance. Me and him are so close, have been ever since we've been friends. But we only recently got together. What is amazing is how good we are with each other. But now we are on winter break and he lives in another freaking country.. So i cant see him for a month. Miss him a lot..

[nosylilme]

I think the hardest part of relationships is when you get over the lovey dovey part of the relationships and you start to hit the hard parts and the fighting to see if you guys are really good for each other so to speak. Pretty much testing the whole relationship over and over to see if its going to work throughout all of these fights..

For sure.