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 Dec 12 2007, 11:48 AM
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so i had dated this one guy for 2 years. we started out great but after a while our relationship just went downhill. when we first started dating i was 15 and he was 17. so i mean we weren't rly all grownup and stuff yet if ya get what im saying. well i decided to call him yesterday because we had been talking some and stayed friends and we started talking about old times and everything and how we missed them and everything and it was like one of the best convo's with him and it just reminded me so much of old times. and we started talking about getting back together. i think it might would work because me and him have gorwn up alot since then and see things differently. but i was just wanting your opinion on if you thought it might work or not. so just let me know what you think.
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Dec 12 2007, 11:55 AM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I think that you need to do what is best for you. If it is in your heart that you want to be with him, then do it.
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Dec 12 2007, 12:05 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
i think you should give your relationship another chance. Start out slow, and rebuild your feeling for each other. You might have strong feeling for him, but he might not. It has been a while, like you said. And you don't want to put everything on the table, and not have him reciprocate. That's what i mean by rebuilding your relationship.
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Dec 12 2007, 12:57 PM
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If you still feel anything for him then go right ahead before it's too late.
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Dec 12 2007, 01:13 PM
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Well, why didn't it work out the first time?
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Dec 12 2007, 01:19 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(me1issaaaa @ Dec 12 2007, 01:13 PM)  Well, why didn't it work out the first time? my mom got in the way she didn't like the relationship because it was long distance but he made me happy. and she kept banning me from talking to him and stuff like that. and then after a while we just started fighting alot over really stupid stuff. |
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Dec 12 2007, 01:43 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
So is the mom here this time around?
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Dec 12 2007, 01:45 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
well right now yes but thats why we're just talking as friends.
but next wednesday i'll be 18 so my mom won't have anything to do with it. |
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Dec 12 2007, 01:58 PM
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Just go for it.
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Dec 12 2007, 03:17 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Dec 12 2007, 01:58 PM) Just go for it. Spoken by a true lady. |
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Dec 12 2007, 04:08 PM
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So, it's still going to be a long distance relationship, right?
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Dec 12 2007, 04:41 PM
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i think that.. if you feel something for him.. still you should give your relationship another chance ay
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Dec 12 2007, 08:28 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Dec 12 2007, 04:08 PM) So, it's still going to be a long distance relationship, right? right! but thats not what broke us apart. |
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Dec 12 2007, 08:33 PM
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go for itttt babeh!
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Dec 12 2007, 10:07 PM
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GO FOR IT! just make sure these feeling are true and you're not just telling yourself that they are. :]
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Dec 12 2007, 11:22 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Seems like the old flame has been rekindled. I mean, take a chance.
 If you two like each other, go for it!
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Dec 13 2007, 02:25 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Dec 12 2007, 11:48 AM) so i had dated this one guy for 2 years. we started out great but after a while our relationship just went downhill. when we first started dating i was 15 and he was 17. so i mean we weren't rly all grownup and stuff yet if ya get what im saying. well i decided to call him yesterday because we had been talking some and stayed friends and we started talking about old times and everything and how we missed them and everything and it was like one of the best convo's with him and it just reminded me so much of old times. and we started talking about getting back together. i think it might would work because me and him have gorwn up alot since then and see things differently. but i was just wanting your opinion on if you thought it might work or not. so just let me know what you think. Haha, that in the most loving and respecting way is the worse logic. Being a guy, I'm just gonna tell you no. Don't do it. Trust me, guys aren't usually a dynamic character. Getting back together with some one over a conversation... not the way to go. Move on. |
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Dec 13 2007, 07:50 AM
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ummm happy early birthday?
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Dec 13 2007, 11:40 AM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(Call911Quick @ Dec 13 2007, 07:50 AM) ummm happy early birthday? thanks lol |
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Dec 13 2007, 04:57 PM
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Ohh, parents. Gotcha. I was in a long-distance relationship for close to a year and a half, and at first, my parents HATED it. They tried everything they could to get me out of it. But eventually, they got to know him better and they realized how happy he made me, blah blah blah. My relationship didn't work out because of the distance; I hope yours turns out better, if it's what you want to pursue. I personally wouldn't think it would work out, but who knows. I don't know either of you, and I certainly don't know the details. But like someone stated above, if you're going to start things up again just because of a conversation, I don't know that that's the correct way to go... but if you're willing to, then I wish you the best of luck.
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