Who should make the first move? Options

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[Insurmountable]

the boy has to do it.

the end.

;]

oh and I like it when the boy makes the first move, or well I like it when this one boy makes the first move

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[LadiieKay-Mamii]

Girls Likes Guys To Make The First Move

And

Guys Likes Girls To Make The First Move Too

So I Guess

Both Gotta Try At The Same Time?

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[MissFits]

Why wouldn't you make the first move? What if you really like a boy, would you still wait for him to make the first move, even you really really like him?

Um.
It really depends on the personalities of the people.
If I really liked a guy and he was too shy to make the move I would tell him how I felt.

I guess that the guys sometimes deserve to get those butterflies in their tummies that people get when they are getting asked out.

I'd do it, but some girls are too shy.

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[toxicity584]

In my case...I am terrified to talk to girls that I like, but when my friend likes a girl...I'll go and do the talking for them. Weird eh!?

[*jeanna*]

my guy friend is really shy but i told him earlier this year i liked him and i played the "oh it's ok if you don't like meeeeee." and he said, "well i didn't say no." yet didn't say he agreed. idk.

he has had like 2 girlfriends and slept with 1. lol. so i guess i can imagine the reason why he is shy.

but i wouldn't make the first move. no way.

[toxicity584]

I have always liked agressive girls, but there is nothing like a shy good ole girl to make your heart feel good.

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[EddieV]

Whoever. Doesn't matter.

[S-Majere]

The boy made the first move. I liked that.

[Prophet]

the boy has to do it.

the end.

;]

I hate when girls tell me that, why can't they do it, there human too lol.

[MissFits]

What if you've never talk to him before, but see each other once in awhile? Would you get to know him first or just go for the kill? If you want to get to know him, what would you do in his presence to show you want to get to know him?

I would, personally, get to know someone before I ever dated them. It's pretty ridiculous to date someone you don't know.
When I wanted to get to know a guy I would just talk to them, maybe give them my number, invite them to a party I was going to be at. I really think it depends on what kind of girl we are talking about.

[LadiieKay-Mamii]

How can both people try at the same, it's either the boy or the girl. So what's the final answer?

Okay Well Let's Say.. If Your A Girl And Is Waiting For The Guy To Make The First Move.. And He Is Waiting For You To Make The First Move At The Same Time.. And Both Of You Will End Up Waiting For Each Other Make The First Move.. And Yehh It's Best To Just Do It At The Same Time..

[stephinika]

Doesn't matter to me. Some people prefer to, while others prefer to wait. Depends on the personalities and the specific people I think. Personally though...I wouldn't mind making the move...but I prefer to wait it out a little. If I get impatient, then I'll make the move.

[shoryuken]

So basically the guys are supposed to make the first move in the end huh.

*put clothes on*... *walk out the door*... *checking out the girl i like*... *work my magic*... To be continue..

[*jeanna*]

Why not?

like you said, rejection. i don't do anything unless i know 100% sure when it comes to boys and stuff.

[toxicity584]

Yeah like what if you make the move, and it is all for nothing? The egg would really be all over your face then eh?

[xFaith]

It doesnt really matter. I prefer that the boy makes the first move, but when he's really shy you shouldnt wait for that to come along. You could always try to hint him/her when you want him/her to make the first move. =)

[toxicity584]

Some people are oblivious to hints lol

[sheridan_whitesi...]

White always makes the first move. Smoke before fire.

[*jeanna*]

It doesnt really matter. I prefer that the boy makes the first move, but when he's really shy you shouldnt wait for that to come along. You could always try to hint him/her when you want him/her to make the first move. =)

lol i always TALK instead of body language the most. i hate secrets so i always say, "ok let's get this straight, i like you." or something

[yaamakoh]

lol i always TALK instead of body language the most. i hate secrets so i always say, "ok let's get this straight, i like you." or something

we need more women like you in this world

[arcanum]

I prefer if the guy does, but if I really like him then I will let him know. I told one of my friends that I liked him (before the summer), but my feelings faded after I got to know him better. hahahaha

I am somewhat like Jeanna though. Talking > body language.

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[TaintedSakura]

GUYS MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[micros]

I personally don't think it should matter who makes the first move. My ex was the first to kiss me. I didn't know what to think at first. But since both partners are able to make a move it shouldn't matter who it comes from.

[Smilessss]

hahaha for me the guys have to do it, if they dont then sure, i wouldnt mind first talking to them *n.n*

[RyanWasHere]

Personally I'd prefer to make the first move, I feel more in control, and I don't think I've ever really found a girl that makes the first move...ok well there was this one slut girl I hooked up with...but that wasn't a relationship. I'd prefer to be the one doing the action, not the one sitting around waiting to "see what happens", or doesn't happen.

[icecreamisyummy]

i like making the first move :-D

which is surprising cuz im a shy person.

[Insurmountable]

Why wouldn't you make the first move? What if you really like a boy, would you still wait for him to make the first move, even you really really like him?

Nope I still wouldn't do it. I think the guy should be confident enough to make the first move Its just what I have grained into my head.

[NoSex]

Nope I still wouldn't do it. I think the guy should be confident enough to make the first move Its just what I have grained into my head.

Yo, that's unhealthy.

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[Stumbleine]

I make the move a lot of the times but when the guys does..its really nice. :)

[SimplicityGirl]

For me, I think it depends on the situation. I've had guys make the first move on me...those were nice. However, I made the first move on my boyfriend...and that worked out nicely too.

[1angel3]

I'm part of that group of people that believe that the guy should make the first move.

[transcendentalis...]

What if you've never talk to him before, but see each other once in awhile? Would you get to know him first or just go for the kill? If you want to get to know him, what would you do in his presence to show you want to get to know him?

if i've never talked to a guy before, but i've seen him around, i wouldn't be attracted to him. but i definitely do just approach people i see regularly and say "hey, i've seen you around" and introduce myself.

why would i try to send out subliminal messages by flipping my phone and smirking and shit? not that that's possible because my phone doesn't flip anyway... haha.

i suppose i make the first move usually because i start up conversations faster, but it's usually the guy who asks if i want to go out. if i'm impatient, then i don't ask - i TELL him to hang out with me.

[Tung]

It depends, but usually the guy should do it.

[MissHygienic]

If there's a mutual attraction and you can just tell, I'm usually aggressive enough to make the first move or say something about it. I don't mind it. I'm a time-saver.

[deplorable]

its a guy job.