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 Nov 9 2007, 09:04 PM
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 chocolate luva  Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450  |
So basically, I have had my first kiss already (it was soo bad) & have a boyfriend I like but the problem is... I don't know how to kiss.
Uh, I totally missed out during my childhood or something 'cuz I'm a total ditz when it comes to shit like this. =/ Idenno, but is it supposed to be forced? or natural? |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:06 PM
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First kisses are always awkward. First make-out sessions are even worse. Don't worry, as you become more comfortable with each other, things won't seem as forced and strained.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:07 PM
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People aren't born with good kissing skills. Like Olivia (aestheticYOU) said, things will become easier and more natural the longer you're with your boyfriend.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:11 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' & then , I don't even know how kiss my boyfriend.
haaaaaaaaaaah. damn, thats lame. |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 08:11 PM)  But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' What the hell's a 'mack'? Sorry, I'm hopelessly white. 
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Nov 9 2007, 09:16 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
Haha, its okay.
Its like when you get a lot of guys and/or girls. Whatevv floats your boat. |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:20 PM
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Obviously, that isn't me. Hehe.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:26 PM
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most sluts only know how to suck and not kiss. it
s ok jkk |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 09:11 PM) But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' & then , I don't even know how kiss my boyfriend. Let people think what they want, but you will get better at kissing. x] |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:28 PM
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Chances are he didn't even notice.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:28 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
But i don't even know how to.
Hm, =/ |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:32 PM
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That's why it's a good thing you can practice with your boyfriend instead of on your hand or a pillow.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:32 PM
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Or your teddy bear.
Guilty.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:55 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
practice on the bf?
i'd rather not 'cuz he's had numerous girlfriends & well, he's pretty much super experienced. hm. but f'real tho, people practice on their hand ? is that even possible ? |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:57 PM
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LOLOL^x2
and yeah, just give it a try with your bf. It'll become more comfortable eventually. lol |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:00 PM
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QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 08:55 PM) hm. but f'real tho, people practice on their hand ? is that even possible ? You've never seen any pre-pubescent teen movies have you? Where the awkward guy always tries to simulate a kiss with the back of his hand? For the record, it really isn't possible. It's like licking your hand; Not that I've tried or anything... |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:03 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
wow, okayyyyyy.
eh. maybe i'll try the hand thing... =] |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:09 PM
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It's rather unsatisfactory...
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Nov 9 2007, 10:13 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
hm.
probably. then im doomed. because im going to undoubtedly avoid the situation with my boyfriend. laaaaadeeedaaaaaaa. |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:14 PM
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you gotta kiss him eventually.
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Nov 9 2007, 10:37 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
not if i cant help it.
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Nov 10 2007, 01:45 AM
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That's odd, the first time i made out was like if i've made out before. I duno.. it's like i just followed exactly what he was doing and it was all good =/
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Nov 10 2007, 01:49 AM
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No one really knows how to kiss unless they do it, and everyone does it slightly differently. Just "kiss" them. It will come to you through experience.
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Nov 10 2007, 01:57 AM
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if your boyfriend likes you enough,
he won't care that you don't know how to? I mean what if you practice on your hand and you become a bad kisser? that's even worse than not knowing how to kiss at all. I'm sure he'll find it cute and let you practice on him. I mean, i'm sure he'll like that more then knowing you're practicing on him and not your hand or teddy. Because that would be a major blowoff. pun. hahahahaha. |
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Nov 10 2007, 06:30 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
A kiss is natural. In time they become more and more better but thats because your expierenced.
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Nov 10 2007, 09:21 PM
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 hello Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,878 |
QUOTE most sluts only know how to suck and not kiss. it s ok hahaha. good call. |
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Nov 11 2007, 10:28 AM
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Let your boyfriend teach you! My first boyfriend knew I'd never been kissed before, and knew that I wanted him to kiss me, so he initiated everything. If he truly likes and cares about you, he'll be fine with it.
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Nov 12 2007, 01:03 PM
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don't worry about it.
just relax and things will be ok. yea it feels awkward at first but it'll get better. way better. lol |
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Nov 12 2007, 09:21 PM
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what are u doing that u think is making it bad
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Nov 12 2007, 09:39 PM
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just tell him. im sure he'll understand.
i have a problem with kissing guys who have big lips. the first time ... HORRIBLE second time a little better... so on. sucks not having a bigger upper lip lol although ive been told im a good kisser and my lips and really soft. |
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Nov 14 2007, 03:32 PM
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everyone makes a mess of their first kiss(es), i know i did. but it is natural, and it IS meant to be fun and not a chore, so be patient and once u get the hang you will love it =] everyone kisses differently so just let your boyfriend kiss you and follow what he does. if you do that, you cant really go wrong, and if u do, who cares? if he likes you he wont mind, especially if he knows its your first. yes it can be awkward, but you will get there. good luck =D
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Nov 16 2007, 04:28 AM
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maybe you should grow up a little bit, take matters into your own hands, grab that boyfriend of yours & kiss him like there's no tomorrow.
 boyfriends are meant to be kissed. if he's dating you just based on how well he thinks you probably kiss than dump his ass. if he's sweet/patient/cares about you/sees the relationship lasting longer than an incredibly short while, he will 'train' you.
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Jan 12 2008, 12:50 AM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
grow up a bit?
i'm basically 16 and i still dont know how to. and i still don't know because i did end up avoiding the situation and breaking up with my bf. or my ex. but i'm doomed. im too scared to admit that i don't know how to . especially since everyone i know has lost their virginity ages ago. =/ |
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Jan 12 2008, 01:36 AM
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QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Jan 11 2008, 09:50 PM) grow up a bit? i'm basically 16 and i still dont know how to. and i still don't know because i did end up avoiding the situation and breaking up with my bf. or my ex. but i'm doomed. im too scared to admit that i don't know how to . especially since everyone i know has lost their virginity ages ago. =/ losing your virginity doesn't make you "cool." You shouldn't do that or feel left behind just because everybody else lost theirs. It's a big turn off for me when girls under 18 (in high school) lose their virginity in a SHORT term relationship. anyways I think you should admit it to your boyfriend.. if he likes you, it shouldn't matter. You shouldn't be embarrassed about it. I know you'll still feel embarrassed but just try not to. I don't really know how to kiss myself. But i'm guessing all you need is experience. |
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Jan 12 2008, 06:58 AM
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don't worry about it
i'm 17 & i can barely kiss HAHAHAHA ahem |
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