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 Nov 5 2007, 01:53 PM
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 shboom =]  Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693  |
so like friday my best friend moved away and now school sucks without him..use to after every class we would find each other and hug and talk...he was my shoulder to cry on, he was the one person i could ever rly count on and now when i don't see him waiting for me at my locker it makes me wanna cry...and i have to take a different route when i go places just so i won't pass his house cause it makes me cry..gah i hate this so much....he has always been there....
and then on top of that my bro who is married and has a baby moved to belgium this morning...he;s in the AF and they sent him over there and he'll be gone for 4 yrs...and his wife and me have gotten rly close and i can count on her so its going to suck to not have them either...and plus my lil niece will be almost 6 by time they come back... :( gah..i just wanna cry today... |
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Nov 5 2007, 02:24 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
Its ok girl.
Just let it all out Though since this relates to family issues and such id like to move this to relationships so that the right people can see this. Moved to [b]relationships[/b]. |
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Nov 5 2007, 07:49 PM
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Diana, you messed up the bold tags in your post.
That's tough, but you'll get through it. How often will you be able to talk to these people? And how far away did your best friend move? Keep in touch with them as best you can, but learn that the people you love can't always stay with you. You need to learn how to live without them. |
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Nov 5 2007, 09:39 PM
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1. cry. crycrycry. NEVER EVER EVER hold it back-if you're in public, go to a restroom. if you hold back too much, it'll become permanent.
2. give yourself some time...just don't dwell too long. 3. keep in touch-if it gets hard, just chill for a few days and remember to CRY when you need to. 4. you'll eventually learn that life goes on-they'll always be there for you, but you can't depend on people that much. |
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Nov 5 2007, 09:45 PM
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hopefully they have the internet because it connects me to everyone who moved
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Nov 6 2007, 03:30 AM
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Aw, sorry to hear about it. Basically the same thing happened to me, about the friend moving away. It was what, three months ago, and still I feel the need to kick and scream and cry every single day without him. Which IS everyday. I'm pretty sure he's moved on and living a new life, but I just can't. I understand how you feel completely. Just remember,
Never keep it in for too long. If you need to let it all out, let it all out. Try your best to keep in contact with him. You'll regret it if you don't, believe me. Good luck with it all. 
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Nov 6 2007, 03:58 AM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Nov 5 2007, 10:53 AM)  so like friday my best friend moved away and now school sucks without him..use to after every class we would find each other and hug and talk...he was my shoulder to cry on, he was the one person i could ever rly count on and now when i don't see him waiting for me at my locker it makes me wanna cry...and i have to take a different route when i go places just so i won't pass his house cause it makes me cry..gah i hate this so much....he has always been there.... and then on top of that my bro who is married and has a baby moved to belgium this morning...he;s in the AF and they sent him over there and he'll be gone for 4 yrs...and his wife and me have gotten rly close and i can count on her so its going to suck to not have them either...and plus my lil niece will be almost 6 by time they come back... :( gah..i just wanna cry today... LLOL DO YOU HAVE NO OTHER FRIENDS? |
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Nov 6 2007, 06:43 AM
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I hate to say it but Wreckless is right, you should also have other friends you can rely and depend on... female ones. You ARE female, right?
Unless you like him. Which you probably do, you just don't know it yet. I never get "platonic" relationships anyway. |
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Nov 6 2007, 09:42 AM
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I don't know, some times life sucks. The only thing you can do is move on. Don't forget about those people, just move on. My friend Alex moved away for two years. I rarely talked to him while he was in Arizona, but when he came back it was just like it had always been. I never forgot about him. We just resumed our friendship where we left off. We weren't worried about a thing.
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Nov 8 2007, 01:55 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(wreckless @ Nov 6 2007, 03:58 AM) LLOL DO YOU HAVE NO OTHER FRIENDS? i do have other friends...but not rly friends who i can count on if ya get what im saying? he was rly the only one who rly understood me and knew enough about me and my past for me to be able to talk to. |
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