Are you ashamed of being a virgin?, ?? |
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 Oct 23 2007, 01:04 PM
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If you are or were ever ashamed of saying that you are a virgin?
Is it different for guys to admit that they are or the other way around?  I am a virgin and my boyfriend isn't and is alright with it. |
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Oct 23 2007, 01:59 PM
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 :) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,636 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,459 |
Nah, I don't care.
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Oct 23 2007, 02:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
When I was a virgin, I was proud of it.
It is nothing to be ashamed of. |
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Oct 23 2007, 02:14 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
Like said above, nothing to be ashamed of.
I'm not ashamed to say I am, I think I would kinda be if I wasn't. Maybe, maybe not. ha. |
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Oct 23 2007, 02:45 PM
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 -i-twitch- Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,541 |
When I was a virgin, I was always proud of it. Especially when I could brag about what loser I didn't have sex with(Unlike so many other girls I knew at the time.) and I dated many losers. Although, I was always told I never looked or acted like a virgin. Some people were pretty surprised when I would admit that I was one. Oh well, people should be proud of whatever they are. If someone don't like it, they can go play hide and go f**k themselves.
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Oct 23 2007, 03:40 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I'm very proud to be a virgin. Going on 20 years now. My boyfriend's the same; we like to think we're an unusual couple in that respect.
xtwitchyx - kudos to you! |
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Oct 23 2007, 03:43 PM
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when i was a virgin i wasn't. now i want it back!
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Oct 23 2007, 03:48 PM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
no... to be honest I don't see why its such a big deal.
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Oct 23 2007, 04:01 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Each to their own I guess, clarity.
 For me, it represents a massive commitment and is something I'll always remember and wouldn't want to look back on and feel any sense of regret. I know I'm not ready for it, my two decades of life regardless! |
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Oct 23 2007, 04:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
I'm still a virgin, and I'm proud of it; I have no problem admitting.
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Oct 23 2007, 06:23 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I am proud to be one. I'm waiting till marriage, as prude-ish as that sounds. There's nothing wrong with it.
I don't think it's alright for your boyfriend to judge you because of that though. |
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Oct 23 2007, 07:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
I dont get why being a virgin wouldnt be something to be proud of.
Someone asked me about that before and I was just like "I know how to keep my pants on" and they shut up. |
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Oct 23 2007, 07:29 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Oct 23 2007, 07:17 PM)  I dont get why being a virgin wouldnt be something to be proud of. Someone asked me about that before and I was just like "I know how to keep my pants on" and they shut up. do u think everyone who isn't a virgin is just someone who doesn't know how to keep their pants on? |
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Oct 23 2007, 07:32 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
When I was, no.
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Oct 23 2007, 07:37 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
When I was, I didnt care.
If I still was now, I think I might be just a little. |
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Oct 23 2007, 07:39 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 23 2007, 02:28 PM) I'm still a virgin, and I'm proud of it; I have no problem admitting. I was like this when I was. |
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Oct 23 2007, 09:03 PM
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I'm proud to be one. So many people lose theirs to people who just come and go in their life. I'm waiting until marriage, it's the best gift you can give to your new spouse.
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Oct 23 2007, 10:51 PM
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 Xscape Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,014 |
I hate being a virgin, especially knowing I could've lost it three years ago to the love of my life.
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Oct 24 2007, 12:10 AM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Nah I never really cared. Except once o_O I mean it didn't affect me to the point to go out and sleep with someone but this one guy in 10th grade made me feel like complete shit for being a virgin
 in the past.
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Oct 24 2007, 12:11 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
I was once a virgin. 3 years ago. I was never proud. I'm now proud that i'm not a virgin anymore.
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Oct 24 2007, 12:59 AM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
I didn't mind being a virgin. I still am. If people asked me if I was, I'll be straight forward and say yeah and I'm proud of it. I'm not ashamed of it whatsoever.
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Oct 24 2007, 01:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Oct 23 2007, 08:29 PM) do u think everyone who isn't a virgin is just someone who doesn't know how to keep their pants on? Pretty much. |
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Oct 24 2007, 01:11 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
when i was, i wasn't. i didn't really care, though. i used to be all OOH ABSTINECE except it was pretty much.. a bunch of spoon-fed shit from sunday school. i didn't really believe it; it was just what i was taught to repeat.
now, it's just a don't ask don't tell. i'm not gonna lie to someone, but if he or she has an issue with me not being a virgin, he/she can shove it up his/her ass.  i think the whole "it's the best thing you can give to your husband/wife" thing is... just dumb, really. "hey, it's my first time, congrats you just took my virginity!" is bizarre to me. to me, the best thing you can give your partner is, "i love you more than anything, anyone, everything, and everyone in the world... combined." - maybe losing your virginity to someone earlier was a mistake, but we're human. mistakes happen, and you can get over them and make up for them. nothing complicated. |
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Oct 24 2007, 07:26 AM
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 I'm like a leaf on the wind, watch how I soar Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 555,605 |
No, I'm not. I think its disgusting for people my age to be having sex, so I won't be doing it for a number of years. |
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Oct 24 2007, 11:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I'm not ashamed of being a virgin. It just means I'm not ready to have sex yet. So what?
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Oct 24 2007, 12:47 PM
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QUOTE(revoltaire @ Oct 24 2007, 02:11 AM) when i was, i wasn't. i didn't really care, though. i used to be all OOH ABSTINECE except it was pretty much.. a bunch of spoon-fed shit from sunday school. i didn't really believe it; it was just what i was taught to repeat. now, it's just a don't ask don't tell. i'm not gonna lie to someone, but if he or she has an issue with me not being a virgin, he/she can shove it up his/her ass. i think the whole "it's the best thing you can give to your husband/wife" thing is... just dumb, really. "hey, it's my first time, congrats you just took my virginity!" is bizarre to me. to me, the best thing you can give your partner is, "i love you more than anything, anyone, everything, and everyone in the world... combined." - maybe losing your virginity to someone earlier was a mistake, but we're human. mistakes happen, and you can get over them and make up for them. nothing complicated. You're just f ucking retarded. You're just all indifferent and apathetic and "OH-ITS-NO'BIG-'DEAL-" attitude about it because you've lost it. Face it, that's the truth. You probably would want it back if you can. |
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Oct 24 2007, 12:49 PM
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 shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
well when i was still a virgin i wasn't ashamed of it at all. in fact sometimes i do still wish i was a virgin but then again i don't.
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Oct 25 2007, 05:04 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
Back when I still was, I wasn't ashamed of it at all.
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Oct 25 2007, 03:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
I wasn't ashamed. I didn't just brag about it.
Honestly, sometimes I do want it back. Anyway, I'm quite happy with the way things are now. |
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Oct 25 2007, 03:49 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
When I was one I wasnt ashamed really.
When people ask me if I'm still one I don't lie but I'm not exactly proud. |
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Oct 25 2007, 11:16 PM
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 rorhinna Group: Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,214 |
I'm a virgin, proud of it,
and wait'n till marriage |
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Oct 25 2007, 11:32 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 24 2007, 01:47 PM) You're just f ucking retarded. You're just all indifferent and apathetic and "OH-ITS-NO'BIG-'DEAL-" attitude about it because you've lost it. Face it, that's the truth. You probably would want it back if you can. face what? i lost my virginity, but it's not going to bring tears to my eyes every time i think of it. i'm not being all indifferent and apathetic - i think you just assumed that because you can't tell what sort of tone i'm using when i type. i'm saying that people make mistakes, and you can't change the past... but it doesn't mean that you have to mentally thrash yourself every time it comes to mind. you can, however, commit yourself to change. |
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Oct 26 2007, 07:02 PM
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 hello. Group: Official Designer Posts: 211 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,566 |
I'm not ashamed of being a virgin.
I'm ashamed of never having the chance to not be lol ( I have never had a boyfriend ) |
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Oct 29 2007, 12:51 AM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 23 2007, 03:40 PM) I'm very proud to be a virgin. Going on 20 years now. My boyfriend's the same; we like to think we're an unusual couple in that respect. xtwitchyx - kudos to you! lol damn |
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Oct 29 2007, 02:32 AM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
I was ashamed when I was. Somewhat.
Here and there I'll lie about it to mess with people. |
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Oct 29 2007, 05:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,658 |
virgins unite! we will cleanse the world of all you sinners with the blood of your children
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Oct 29 2007, 01:30 PM
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QUOTE(revoltaire @ Oct 25 2007, 11:32 PM) i'm saying that people make mistakes, and you can't change the past... but it doesn't mean that you have to mentally thrash yourself every time it comes to mind. you can, however, commit yourself to change. If I did that; a mental thrashing is the least of what I'd give myself... |
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Oct 31 2007, 01:15 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I am...as of now.
But I'm going to lose it to my boyfriend during the xmas break. He is going t lose his to me...so it's special. I'm not ashamed to be a virgin...nor am I particularly proud of it? I'm just indifferent to it. It's just another part of me. |
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Oct 31 2007, 01:17 AM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Oct 31 2007, 02:15 AM) I am...as of now. But I'm going to lose it to my boyfriend during the xmas break. He is going t lose his to me...so it's special. I'm not ashamed to be a virgin...nor am I particularly proud of it? I'm just indifferent to it. It's just another part of me. You f ucking skank. |
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Oct 31 2007, 02:12 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Oct 23 2007, 07:29 PM) do u think everyone who isn't a virgin is just someone who doesn't know how to keep their pants on? i know i could have easily kept mine on but i was like, what the hell, i dont think i'll keep it till marriage [seeing how i dont even believe in marriage] so might as well lose it. "I am...as of now. But I'm going to lose it to my boyfriend during the xmas break. He is going t lose his to me...so it's special. I'm not ashamed to be a virgin...nor am I particularly proud of it? I'm just indifferent to it. It's just another part of me." oh my god. it says 1988 so same age as me. could have sworn you were 16 writing that |
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Oct 31 2007, 07:10 PM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
Never was. And never will be.
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