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 Oct 18 2007, 01:13 PM
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just thought it'd be interesting....
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Oct 18 2007, 01:53 PM
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I'm 19 years old, have been seeing my boyfriend for near 18 months and intend to keep my virtue until after we're married.
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Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 455 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,104 |
^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx.
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Oct 18 2007, 04:58 PM
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I think Im going to wait until marriage.
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Oct 18 2007, 06:00 PM
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I love you guys
 I promise you won't regret waiting.
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Oct 20 2007, 11:56 AM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 02:01 PM)  Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. Obviously desperate?!? Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable. I'm not saying go out and fornicate with every dude you have ever had a crush on. I am saying, when you've been with someone for years and you really love them sex is okay. Even if you don't end up marrying that person you can look back on it and be happy that you lost your virginity to someone you cared about so much. |
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Oct 20 2007, 01:02 PM
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You make a good point Missfits; but some girls (some boys too!) are very protective of their virginity. It can be through upbringing, religion or just a personal choice. It was choice for me; and although I love my boyfriend dearly and would love nothing better than to diddle his brains out sometimes, I make myself wait. I love the idea that virginity is a 'gift' that is given on a wedding night, and I do so want to give that gift to my husband.
As for the 'trying it before you buy it' side of things...I'm sure practise will make perfect even if either of you suck! You have the rest of your lives together to perfect the art of lovemaking. 
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Oct 20 2007, 01:22 PM
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It's not that I don't agree with waiting until your married. It's a sweet thing to to, but MadGamer said "obviously desperate" and that didn't sit right with me.
Sure, sex is a gift but just because I gave it to someone before I was married doesn't mean I am "obviously desperate". |
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Oct 20 2007, 01:23 PM
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Oh no, I totally agree. That was a little too...I'd say 'abusive' as I can't think of the right word right now XD
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Oct 20 2007, 01:24 PM
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I lost it at 17..
Im still with him too! |
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Oct 20 2007, 02:41 PM
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I lost it at 15 to my ex boyfriend.
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Oct 20 2007, 03:32 PM
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I'm 16 and still a virgin.
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Oct 20 2007, 04:37 PM
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I lost it at fourteen to a friend.
Sex doesn't mean much to either of us. To me, it's not that big of a deal. O_o |
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Oct 20 2007, 05:05 PM
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I find that such a difficult concept to understand, crueldade! Sex is the ultimate expression of love (and lust!)...
I guess it just goes to show. |
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Oct 20 2007, 07:23 PM
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I lost my virginity when i was like... 5.
BWAHAHHAA. beat that.! |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:19 AM
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^I lost mine when I was still a fetus. Beat that!
No but seriously I don't think its that big of a deal, I hate the idea of it being a gift, you lose something and no one gains it so how is it a gift? idk I just don't think its a big deal. Im still a virgin though. |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:24 AM
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you dont know what you got till its gone
especially if it was robbed |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:58 AM
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i was 14
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Oct 21 2007, 05:18 AM
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there's probably a bunch of similar posts.
but i lost minee when i was 14? yess 14 mhm. but, i'm not with the guy anymore, honestly though, i don't regret it. |
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Oct 21 2007, 10:27 AM
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i was 16. i even thought about it for like 2 hours. i didn't really care. it was going to happen eventually and might as well lose it to someone i "loved" at the time. i'm celibate now, i don't regret it. [it sucked so bad haha] even though i sound like i'm saying, "whatever idc", i'm not saying go have sex with everyone. i couldn't have sex with random people like at parties and live with myself.
"Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable." so true. on every talk show they talk about cheating and it's 99% connected to not getting their sex fulfilled. personality towards relationships can only go so far, seriously. |
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Oct 21 2007, 01:22 PM
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Haha, maybe jeanna! There is the whole 'seize the moment' philosophy vs the 'wait and see' one. But I do think that people that go on chatshows have more issues to them than just bad sex lives
To be frank, I don't think I could sleep with anyone besides my future husband. I'm a bit fastidious about it really. Though I feel I've got to say (again) that although I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half, we're both very happy to wait and consummate our love until after marriage. It is a personal choice; it's always about choice. There is no right or wrong with this. 
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Oct 21 2007, 02:33 PM
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I believe I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex boyfriend. I don't regret it. =) I mean, sure it would always be nice to wait til marriage but in most cases that doesn't happen.
What is virginity but an imaginary thing? Is it physical? Or is it emotion? Or is it mental? |
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Oct 21 2007, 02:48 PM
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JANE.
 You've been naughty. 
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Oct 21 2007, 03:55 PM
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 Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
I'm 18 and I've still got mine. I'm proud to say I've made it this long, but its not something I plan on keeping too much longer.
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Oct 21 2007, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(Moderator @ Oct 21 2007, 02:33 PM) I believe I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex boyfriend. I don't regret it. =) I mean, sure it would always be nice to wait til marriage but in most cases that doesn't happen. What is virginity but an imaginary thing? Is it physical? Or is it emotion? Or is it mental? Physically, it's the hymen. But it is more than that and virignity refers to a purity in spirit and mind, as well as body. It's often referred to as innocence - which is why in a lot of myths and legends, virgins are often gifted with foresight or magical abilities. Once they lose their virginity, they lose their gifts. Sounds to me a lot like an incentive to remain celibate! Not sure if I'd like the trade-off though, haha.
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Oct 21 2007, 04:28 PM
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I lost it when I was 15. I look back on it know and think 'damn, I was just a little kid'. I don't regret it or anything, I just think it's a young age.
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Oct 21 2007, 06:00 PM
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(Allison) Group: Human Posts: 420 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,668 |
^^I know what you mean. Except I still am a little kid. A little, sexually active kid. O_o
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Oct 21 2007, 06:27 PM
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i haven't had sex yet, but i don't think that it's really that big of a deal. when i meet the right person and i believe that i'm in love with them, i'll have sex. and i'm not too sure about marriage. who knows. and if i don't ever get married, well then i'm definitely not staying celibate my entire life.
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Oct 21 2007, 06:42 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM) ^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. ................... ........................... .................................. Desperate? Are you sure about that? |
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Oct 21 2007, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 01:01 PM) ^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any. |
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Oct 21 2007, 07:06 PM
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I really wanna wait for the right person, but omg temptation -___-
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Oct 21 2007, 08:05 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
Virgin. You know what when it happens it happens.
QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 21 2007, 05:05 PM) HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any.
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Oct 21 2007, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 21 2007, 07:05 PM) HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any. Aww I wanted to see if she responded to her oh so wrong generalization before attacking.. |
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Oct 22 2007, 12:43 AM
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I have not.
but honestly I do not see any big deal about it. No one has to argue with me, but i think it's just another part of life or whatever. Shouldn't make such a fuss about it. |
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Oct 22 2007, 01:19 PM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Oct 22 2007, 12:29 PM) ROFL. I've actually planned it. Prom night :) Or sooner. keke Haha! I was so determined not to lose mine on prom night - seemed very cliched!
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Oct 22 2007, 09:52 PM
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I haven't lost mine yet not till marriage.
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Oct 23 2007, 10:01 AM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Oct 23 2007, 01:05 AM) LET ME HAVE MY FAIRY TALE DAMMIT!  If that's what you want, you go for it.
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Oct 23 2007, 12:58 PM
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not yet...
I'm planning for the right moment. I told all my boyfriends this since they had done it already. |
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Oct 23 2007, 01:09 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
i lost mine when i was 15 and rly i don't regret it. i lost it to somebody that i loved and cared about. and i'll treasure that moment with him forever.
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Nov 3 2007, 11:22 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 455 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,104 |
Yes desperate. If you love that person so much, why cant you wait till you guys get marry?
I can't get any ? ROFL I am not a slut who would easily give off my body like you do. Thanks. |
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Nov 3 2007, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Nov 3 2007, 11:22 PM) Yes desperate. If you love that person so much, why cant you wait till you guys get marry? I can't get any ? ROFL I am not a slut who would easily give off my body like you do. Thanks. have fun living a marriage with horrible sex. 
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Nov 3 2007, 11:57 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 455 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,104 |
Dont worry about me. When I finally get marry I'll have sex every night hahah.
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Nov 4 2007, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Nov 3 2007, 11:57 PM) Dont worry about me. When I finally get marry I'll have sex every night hahah. yeah, ok but that doesn't mean it's going to be good sex. a lot of marriages end because the sex sucks and the reason they cheat. |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:05 AM
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so your telling me and me and my husband will end up breaking up cause of bad sex and he cheats ? ookay. im not even married yet, so who know what will happen.
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Nov 4 2007, 12:12 AM
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I lost mine at fourteen, and sometimes, I regret it more than anything. We're not together anymore, and it kills me. I gave my virtue (the most precious gift God has ever given me, along with unconditional love) to the one guy I've ever really and truly loved... This was not a teenage fantasy, it was the real deal.
Don't take sex lightly; Maidenhood is not something to be lost on a spur of the moment choice. I'll say this for all of you virgins; Congratulations. (By the way, we're not desperate just because we've had sex.) |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:22 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:12 AM) I lost mine at fourteen, and sometimes, I regret it more than anything. We're not together anymore, and it kills me. I gave my virtue (the most precious gift God has ever given me, along with unconditional love) to the one guy I've ever really and truly loved... This was not a teenage fantasy, it was the real deal. Don't take sex lightly; Maidenhood is not something to be lost on a spur of the moment choice. I'll say this for all of you virgins; Congratulations. (By the way, we're not desperate just because we've had sex.) i wonder do people think of hymen reconstructive surgery. i saw on tv this couple was doing it and couldnt have sex for 6 weeks. was pretty expensive too for a 1 second thing and plus she could have broken it again doing daily things or something. i guess mental? anyways, i think if you dont have your virginity it shouldn't matter to your partner at marriage. if you don't cheat with anyone in your past.. then why would their past sex partners matter now? |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:27 AM
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I agree Jeanna. Most women break their hymen before sex, hence the reason some bleed and some don't.
Hymen reconsruction seems a bit precipitous. It really shouldn't matter to your future husband/wife. I can understand the rejection they may feel because they weren't your first, but afterwards its probably not going to matter. 
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Nov 4 2007, 12:41 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:27 AM) I agree Jeanna. Most women break their hymen before sex, hence the reason some bleed and some don't. Hymen reconsruction seems a bit precipitous. It really shouldn't matter to your future husband/wife. I can understand the rejection they may feel because they weren't your first, but afterwards its probably not going to matter. yeah i guess a lot is mental on virginity. i wonder how many people on CB have slept with, number wise. i use to be ashamed of my number but then i tell someone and they are like, "what? other girls i know have much MUCH more." i can't change it and it's not like i'm sleeping around now anyways. i've been celibate for 1 year and 2 months. what pisses me off about when i say that is other people say, "oh yeah me too." there is a difference between saying NO to sex and NOT getting any lol. |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:50 AM
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Haha! Yeah.
I'm gonna say "hurrah!" for everyone who says waiting until marriage is the best route, because it is! |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:57 AM
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I'm not ashamed, nor am I proud. It's nice to know it was with someone I cared about, instead of a random guy off the street. We'd known each other for awhile, but I will say that the relationship was a little forced; we both knew trying was a mistake, but it all turned out well.
I associate my virtue with love; I couldn't of made the choice I did if I didn't care. Adults scare teenagers with sex to prevent pre-marriage pregnancy. Little do they know that it just makes us curious to try; few people are really in love when they have their first sexual encounter. By the way, I think if you can't say the word 'sex' openly, you shouldn't be having it; just a thought. |
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Nov 4 2007, 01:13 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:57 AM) I'm not ashamed, nor am I proud. It's nice to know it was with someone I cared about, instead of a random guy off the street. We'd known each other for awhile, but I will say that the relationship was a little forced; we both knew trying was a mistake, but it all turned out well. I associate my virtue with love; I couldn't of made the choice I did if I didn't care. Adults scare teenagers with sex to prevent pre-marriage pregnancy. Little do they know that it just makes us curious to try; few people are really in love when they have their first sexual encounter. By the way, I think if you can't say the word 'sex' openly, you shouldn't be having it; just a thought. my friend got knocked up at 16/17 but she secretly wanted a kid because she was sleeping with any guy and NEVER using a condom. she wanted a crutch in life. pissed me off. i'm turning 20 and i'm still not all the way normal with talking about it to my dad. i think he knows so, idk |
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Nov 4 2007, 01:17 AM
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My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait.
That's what really weighs on my conscience. |
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Nov 4 2007, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 01:17 AM) My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait. That's what really weighs on my conscience. well im sure most parents werent virgins till they were married anyways |
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Nov 4 2007, 11:58 AM
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^ Mine were. They waited. I'm honouring that and doing the same.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 4 2007, 12:03 AM) yeah, ok but that doesn't mean it's going to be good sex. a lot of marriages end because the sex sucks and the reason they cheat. That's what my mom told me.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:16 PM
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Not really a good thing to tell teens.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:19 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Nov 4 2007, 02:16 PM) Not really a good thing to tell teens. Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him." haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage. |
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Nov 4 2007, 02:48 PM
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Eh well...technically I'm not, but I still consider myself a virgin because the way it was lost was kind of...not quite right and I don't even remember it.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:53 PM
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QUOTE(breakingdawn @ Nov 4 2007, 03:19 PM) Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him." haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage. exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good. |
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Nov 4 2007, 03:30 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 4 2007, 02:53 PM) exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good. That would be me. I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex. I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking. I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect. There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'? |
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Nov 5 2007, 02:01 AM
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im 15 and still a virgin.
me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD |
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Nov 5 2007, 02:22 PM
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I was 15
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Nov 5 2007, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(peaceloveskinny @ Nov 5 2007, 02:01 AM) im 15 and still a virgin. me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD I hope that's a contingency plan! |
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Nov 5 2007, 03:11 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Nov 4 2007, 04:30 PM) That would be me. I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex. I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking. I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect. There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'? thing is, not many people are as smart as you 
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Nov 8 2007, 11:45 PM
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When I was 7 years old, lets just say my friend and I were really bored.
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Nov 9 2007, 01:59 AM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 21 2007, 01:02 AM) I love the idea that virginity is a 'gift' that is given on a wedding night, and I do so want to give that gift to my husband. yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds. 
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Nov 9 2007, 06:00 AM
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QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Nov 9 2007, 01:59 AM) yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds. Yeah, right. I don't want your experiences. I'm still confused as to the perception that all virgins will be crap in bed forever and after. It's a learning curve; there is absolutely no rush to become sexually active just for the sheer hell of saying you're better than someone else is or will be. We are all going to become sexually active adults at some point in our lives; a head start makes no difference and I'm sure it will be good fun catching up with the rest of you. As to my husband, I hope he will be my boyfriend. We're both virgins and we're both agreed - we'll lose it to each other on our wedding night. How is that going to be any worse than a sexually precocious couple that have lost it to different partners? It's not, it's far better in my eyes. |
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Nov 10 2007, 06:36 PM
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I havent yet but im going to lose it pretty soon (hopefully on my 15th birthday with my boyfriend, before its illegl lol) :)
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Nov 10 2007, 09:13 PM
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I'm waiting until I'm married or until a really wonderful guy comes around and we've been seeing a each other for a while. Just don't think I'd be up for it (or ready) while I'm still in high school.
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Nov 27 2007, 06:56 PM
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Hmm, this is something really strange for me. I'm still a virgin, and I plan to keep my virginity for quite a while now. It throws me off how a lot of you have lost it at such a young age (in my opinion-- I'm not here as a critic for when you should lose it)
I'm really curious about when to have it. Haha,I mean, I KNOW I was a mistake (: |
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Nov 30 2007, 08:47 PM
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I am proud to say I still am a virgin.
:) and what I love about it is that no matter how many people at my school think I'm a whore, I can just laugh in their face because I'm not... I haven't done shit with anyoneee! So I'm good. :D |
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Nov 30 2007, 10:48 PM
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^i'v been called a whore too. hate it but i just ignore them.
i'm 17 n i'm still a virgin. |
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Dec 1 2007, 12:13 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 21 2007, 04:03 PM) But it is more than that and virignity refers to a purity in spirit and mind, as well as body. It's often referred to as innocence you can lose your innocence without having sex ha ha... anyways... im a proud 17 yr old virgin. I dont plan to have sex til im married... |
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Dec 1 2007, 12:24 PM
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damn. I haven't even had my first kiss... or my first boyfriend
 I'm so lonely.Unless you count online boyfriends... Tehe.. I was a very interesting 10 year old.
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Dec 1 2007, 11:50 PM
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Not yet. Waiting for the right time
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Dec 3 2007, 02:06 PM
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I lost mine just a couple months ago, I'm 17. I was planning on waiting until marriage but sometimes things don't go as planned. I don't regret anything with life so I dealt with having it stolen from me. At first I was so upset, but now as it's been a couple months, I'm fine. I wish it didn't happen that way, but I'm okay with it now.
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Dec 3 2007, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(deplorable @ Dec 1 2007, 12:13 PM) you can lose your innocence without having sex Possibly. Sex is the ultimate popper though. |
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Dec 6 2007, 12:21 PM
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QUOTE(silentriot @ Nov 30 2007, 09:47 PM) I am proud to say I still am a virgin. :) and what I love about it is that no matter how many people at my school think I'm a whore, I can just laugh in their face because I'm not... I haven't done shit with anyoneee! So I'm good. :D then you must have some kind of whore personality for them to think that if you don't sleep around.. |
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Dec 6 2007, 12:37 PM
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^ hmm yea idk about that one, rumors tend to follow you for a long time in high school, I know some girls that people think are sluts or have been around and that's not the case at all.
As for me, I lost it when I was 14 to a 16 year old girl, and I've been pretty steadily sexually active with girlfriends since than, I've never had a one night stand. Don't regret it, and contrary to popular belief, I didn't turn into a slut. 
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Dec 6 2007, 12:47 PM
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QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Dec 6 2007, 01:37 PM) ^ hmm yea idk about that one, rumors tend to follow you for a long time in high school, I know some girls that people think are sluts or have been around and that's not the case at all. As for me, I lost it when I was 14 to a 16 year old girl, and I've been pretty steadily sexually active with girlfriends since than, I've never had a one night stand. Don't regret it, and contrary to popular belief, I didn't turn into a slut. you're a guy. it is praised |
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Dec 6 2007, 12:52 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Dec 6 2007, 12:47 PM) you're a guy. it is praised Yea if your an a-hole and you boast about it, most people think that's how all guys are...and it's sad because that's not usually how it is. I don't think the girls that I've had sex with are sluts now either or anything like that, we meant and still mean a lot to each other and we decided to have a physical relationship to further that love and get to know each other on a more intimate level, I see nothing wrong with it. |
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Dec 6 2007, 06:48 PM
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Dec 7 2007, 03:59 PM
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I've decided to save myself for when I get married. AND considering i haven't even had a boyfriend yet, i dont expect that to be for a long time. But im willing to wait. :D
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Dec 7 2007, 06:42 PM
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::Edit::
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Dec 13 2007, 02:13 PM
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Dec 13 2007, 04:00 PM
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Dec 13 2007, 04:41 PM
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I feel, age is just a number. It's all about maturity and understanding.
But yeah, 15 for me. |
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Dec 13 2007, 05:11 PM
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17.
I don't regret losing it, just who took it. |
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Dec 13 2007, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(squarepants1113 @ Dec 13 2007, 02:13 PM) Maybe youre just jealous Don't be daft. If she were jealous she'd be out there trying to lose it. The girl's got some sense, makes it harder for you guys. Ha. |
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Dec 27 2007, 02:24 AM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM) ^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. Maybe you're just scared? Sex is great.. especially when you're in love =) Nothing wrong with that. I was with my guy for a year and a half, and we waited for 7 months before having sex. I don't understand those people jumping on the first guy that comes to them. |
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Dec 28 2007, 04:03 PM
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 To love or not to love Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,782 |
i lost mine when i was 13:) and im still 13 i don't regret it but whatever
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Dec 28 2007, 04:14 PM
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I was 16.
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Dec 29 2007, 12:17 AM
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i lost it when I was 14. I don't regret losing it. i just regret who i lost it to.
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Dec 31 2007, 07:15 AM
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i'm 17
& still a virgin :D |
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Jan 2 2008, 11:57 AM
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QUOTE(omgomgKATHY @ Oct 21 2007, 07:06 PM) I really wanna wait for the right person, but omg temptation -___- same here, oh sooo tempting! |
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Jan 4 2008, 06:23 PM
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I'm still a virgin :D
I'll wait `till after marriage. (If I even get married XD) ...But hey, whatever happens, happens. :] |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:35 PM
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I lost it less than a month ago. I wish we would have waited a little longer til we had sex but oh well. I don't regret it. Sex is awesome and I love him with all of my heart
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Jan 21 2008, 06:04 PM
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I was 17 at the time. And we're still together ^.^
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Jan 21 2008, 06:07 PM
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QUOTE(miyashu @ Jan 21 2008, 03:04 PM) I was 17 at the time. And we're still together ^.^ 
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Jan 22 2008, 07:53 PM
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cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
^ a few other people here said the same thing. so i guess that makes them sluts too o_O
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