doyou think it's okay, at dances? |
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 Oct 12 2007, 05:23 PM
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is it okay to dance with another guy at a dance if you have a boyfriend?
example: your boyfriend goes to another school and is not at the dance. a guy comes up and asks you to dance. what do you do? |
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| *alovesopure* |
Oct 12 2007, 05:24 PM
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Well, if your boyfriend goes to another school, who else are you going to dance with.
I'd say yeah, its okay. But if you're still iffy about it, then just ask him first if its okay or not. But I don't think a dance is going to hurt anything. |
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Oct 12 2007, 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I'd say it's okay. It's not like you're cheating on him. But you should probably tell your boyfriend you danced with another guy (just in case someone tells him what you did and he misinterprets the information).
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Oct 12 2007, 05:31 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Well find out what your boyfriend thinks of you dancing with other guys.
Unless you feel uncomfortable with it. |
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Oct 12 2007, 06:08 PM
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just doooo itttttttttttttt. tell him after.
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| *Insurmountable* |
Oct 12 2007, 06:46 PM
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If your so worried about it, go talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks about it. That would solve everything
 I think it depends on what kind of dancing your talking about. If your talking about that trashy dancing when their like rubbing all over each other, I would say no. XD and well if its like a slow dance...then no... and if its just normal dancing when your not touching each other in odd ways then yes |
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Oct 12 2007, 06:51 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Oct 12 2007, 07:46 PM)  If your so worried about it, go talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks about it. That would solve everything I think it depends on what kind of dancing your talking about. If your talking about that trashy dancing when their like rubbing all over each other, I would say no. XD and well if its like a slow dance...then no... and if its just normal dancing when your not touching each other in odd ways then yes yeah i definitely agree with that |
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Oct 12 2007, 08:08 PM
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depends on what kind of dancing
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Oct 12 2007, 09:34 PM
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so, no slow dances?
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Oct 12 2007, 09:49 PM
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Why would it be wrong.It's not like your having wild butt secs on the dance floor.
pssh.dance all you want with whom you want. |
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| *Moderator* |
Oct 12 2007, 09:55 PM
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Just make sure he knows you're going to the dance before he goes super psycho. A dance can't hurt. I don't see the problem.
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Oct 12 2007, 10:04 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
NO KEEP A 10 FOOT DISTANCE.
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Oct 12 2007, 10:13 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 12 2007, 11:04 PM) NO KEEP A 10 FOOT DISTANCE. Lol that reminds me of when Josh was telling me stories about his first girlfriend and his dad had like a 12inch rule XD I think he even would pull out a ruler for it. |
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Oct 12 2007, 10:22 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
HAHAA holly, that gave me the lulz. shouldn't it have been the girlfriend's dad that pulls out the ruler?
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Oct 12 2007, 10:49 PM
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just do it;
if he makes a big deal after, break it. simple enough. |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:04 PM
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well i mean i'd think it'd be a bit rude if my bf was grinding on some girl's ass on the dance floor. ;o
that's what i meant by depending on the dance. if it's ballroom dancing, i wouldn't mind at all. if it's hiphop/reggae, i wouldn't mind so long as he keeps his pelvis away >;[ if it's slow dancing, maybe. but that's no fun unless it's with me, so why would he x; so yah. it's best to check with him first and see what his thoughts are, as stated above. |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:14 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
NO KEEP A 10 FOOT DISTANCE.
or at least have the decency to ask your boyfriend. |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:17 PM
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LOL Holly, that is hilarious!
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Oct 13 2007, 12:07 AM
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Think about it in the oppisite way, how would you feel if your boyfriend was slow dancing, grinding, ballroom dancing, etc. with another girl?
my boyfriend goes to a differenet school as well. He came to my homecoming but those little casual dances that are every once in awhile i don't think i'd dance with another guy. what fun is slow dancing with someone you don't actually really care about? and im not a skank so no i wouldnt grind with another guy just because i knew my boyfriend wouldn't know...that's jus...not right. only 100% way to know for sure though is to ask him. |
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Oct 13 2007, 10:33 PM
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Yea put yourself in his shoes. If you'd be ok with him grinding/dancing with other girls, tell him that, and tell him that you're going to be doing the same with other guys.
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Oct 13 2007, 11:33 PM
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I would think its okay if it was just normal dancing, not like buttsecks or anything.
Ask him about it. |
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Oct 14 2007, 01:11 AM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 12 2007, 11:22 PM) HAHAA holly, that gave me the lulz. shouldn't it have been the girlfriend's dad that pulls out the ruler? lol you would have thought.... |
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Oct 14 2007, 09:28 AM
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Since my guy tends to get jealous a lot, I would ask him first. But it should be okay, it's not like you're cheating.
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Oct 14 2007, 02:53 PM
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 Death is kinky. Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,172 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 12 2007, 11:14 PM) NO KEEP A 10 FOOT DISTANCE. or at least have the decency to ask your boyfriend. Yeah I agree. Ask him how he feels first. |
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Oct 14 2007, 06:13 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
i don't go to dances. =]]
i probably wouldn't, though. simply because i wouldn't want him to be dancing with another girl. idk. |
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Oct 14 2007, 07:03 PM
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xkcd always Group: Member Posts: 457 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,059 |
QUOTE(MorbidAngel @ Oct 12 2007, 08:49 PM) just do it; if he makes a big deal after, break it. simple enough. sorry kiddo, life can't be that easy |
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Oct 14 2007, 07:06 PM
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QUOTE($$$ soul @ Oct 14 2007, 07:03 PM) sorry kiddo, life can't be that easy Actually, it can. |
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Oct 14 2007, 11:52 PM
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if you're talking about a slow dance.. and your boyfriend isn't there, i think it's fine..
but if you're talking about grinding, no |
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Oct 15 2007, 12:15 AM
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xkcd always Group: Member Posts: 457 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,059 |
QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Oct 14 2007, 05:06 PM) Actually, it can. no, it can't. |
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