Is it mine?, What should I do? |
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 Jun 18 2004, 08:57 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan"  Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368  |
I just found out my ex had a baby last week and one of my friends called me saying that the baby looked just like me. I was shocked and I didn't know how to react. I know that she was pregnant with my baby a couple of times but, they never worked out and she had miscarriages. After we broke up we still messed around and a month later we went our seperate ways. Then I start hear that everyone is saying that it looked just like me!
I will be honest I have never loved a person like I loved her. In some ways I still miss her but, I would never think of being in a relationship with her again. In my heart I want to find out the truth, but I am only 19 and I don't this kind of stress on my back. What should I do..Find out if it is mine? Or wait till she says something? The only thing about the second choice is that I don't want to miss any time if the baby girl is mine. What should I do 
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Jun 18 2004, 10:35 AM
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goose bucket. Group: Member Posts: 756 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,411 |
you should definitely ask if there is any way it could be yours. even if you were hurting after this relationship ended, she has to be hurting way more if she knows the baby is yours and thinks you don't want it... you sound like the kind of person that would be a real man and accept responsibility, so i would suggest inquiring about the baby to her... see what comes up.
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Jun 18 2004, 11:32 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
you should take a blood test!!! best way to find out... then juss asking her... you dont have to get back with her... but if you are the father. all you need to do is be there for the baby... if you wanna get back with her.. its your choice!
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Jun 18 2004, 11:48 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 18 2004, 11:32 AM) you should take a blood test!!! best way to find out... then juss asking her... you dont have to get back with her... but if you are the father. all you need to do is be there for the baby... if you wanna get back with her.. its your choice! just be there for the baby if it is yours. oh and take a DNA test. it is not your obligation to get back together with your ex nor is it your obligation to spend time with the baby if it isn't even yours to begin with. so take the DNA test!!! 
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Jun 18 2004, 12:08 PM
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Maury.
Or just go find out. If it's yours, then take responsibility. There's nothing worse that can happen to a kid than to lose it's father. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 18 2004, 02:46 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
First, talk to your ex. Take a DNA test. And if it turns out to be yours, then I think you should help care for it. If not, I think the least you could do would to comfort your ex and help her find the father. Hope this helps.
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Jun 18 2004, 04:29 PM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
Talk to her about it.. and go take a DNA test. ANd if it's yours but u dont want to be with her anymore.. u guys can arrange something on seeing the baby..
Wish u the best of luck. 
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Jun 18 2004, 06:30 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
did she fool around with other ppl?
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Jun 18 2004, 11:39 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
find out if its yours. and if it is, take care of it. i think a life of an innocent baby is more important than yours. after all, you did make him. if he is yours.
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Jun 19 2004, 02:14 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should ask her if its yours n not wait for her to tell u or not.
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Jun 19 2004, 09:01 PM
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 </3 hEaRtS aRe MaDe 2 bE bRoKn Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,131 |
i think you should ask her.. or do the lil blood test thingy-ma-bob!
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Jun 19 2004, 10:29 PM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
I think you should ask her first. and if you know she hasnt been with anyone other than you, than she says its yours, make sure it is. Stand up and take the responsibility towards whatever may come your way now, even if you are just 19, it was your decision for your own acts, these are the consequences. well good luck, I hope nothing bad happens, you'll be fine, hang in there, if its your baby girl, just take good care of her, be a man
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