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 Jun 17 2004, 10:48 PM
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 scream my lungs out  Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,578  |
there's this guy i met online and he's asking me out.
should i go and meet him? or maybe i should bring a friend or two? |
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Jun 17 2004, 10:50 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
how long do you know him? are you sure you could trust him? if i would meet him i would bring 2-3 friends, peppersray, and 911 on speeddial!!!
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Jun 17 2004, 10:58 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
if u want to.. but remember to bring friends with u and meet up in a crowded place like the mall
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Jun 17 2004, 11:10 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea u should meet him, jus bring some frenz n meet at a public place
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Jun 18 2004, 01:19 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
MAYBE he's one of those people that talks to girls online and there really bad. You know, the one you see on TV. Lol.
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Jun 18 2004, 01:39 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Go meet him at a public place like Starbucks. Get a few of your friends to go with you and get them to sit at the tables around you and the guy. Make sure they guy doesn't know though.
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Jun 18 2004, 09:11 AM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
bring a friend or 2. what if hez super borin or super annoy??
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Jun 18 2004, 09:56 AM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
What to bring
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Jun 18 2004, 09:58 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
How long have you known him? Is he around the same age? Have you seen his picture? LoL. Sorry to go all maternal on you, but just make sure that this guy is who he says he is. Bring at least two friends and meet at a very public place during the day.
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Jun 18 2004, 10:31 AM
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 .::BreathlesS::. Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,954 |
hmm.. i met a few people off the internet.. eh it wasn't the best thing for me though cuz they turned out to be psycho stalkers
have you talked to this guy on the phone? and how old is he? if you do decide to go, be sure to bring your friends with you... alot of them, never meet with him at night time, or outside somewhere... go to the mall where theres alot of people..just be careful about the whole thing |
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Jun 18 2004, 04:44 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
what everyone said.. BRING FRIENDS.. uhm i dont think u should.. but if u decide to.. go ahead
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Jun 18 2004, 05:01 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i wouldn't reccomend it...but if u do, bring lots of friends and meet him at like a club or something with lots of people.....
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Jun 18 2004, 05:03 PM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
If you're goin to meet him.. please remember to bring a friend with u.. or make sure u always carry a cell phone.
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Jun 18 2004, 05:06 PM
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 Drew Group: Member Posts: 489 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,012 |
wat to bring
friends u koo with a bat a cellphone and a pool stick |
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Jun 18 2004, 05:13 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
if you've known himfora while, and you really want to meet him, bring some friends and a cell phone. go to a well populated place too. and bring an umbrella for protection...
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Jun 18 2004, 06:25 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
bring a friend. it's never safe to meet ppl online.
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Jun 18 2004, 11:42 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
make sure you know him well enough and long enough. talk to him on the phone first and see if he acts older than he says. and if hes way older than you (meaning 3 years older) then you shouldnt meet him. just make sure you trust him and be honest to yourself. if you do decide to meet him, do it in a public place where there is a fair amount of people. and bring some of your guy friends and make them follow you close behind. if you think everything is gonna be okay and he is who he says it is, then signal your friend somehow and let them know they can go.
this sounds complicated but it beats being raped and murdered. |
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Jun 19 2004, 12:55 AM
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...thats really dangerous....he could be a stalker guy!!!! if you really wanna meet him...then bring at least like 5 friends with you, meet in broad daylight, like semi crowded mall, not park or nething.....and have a cell phone, pepper sppray and be careful! .....
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Jun 19 2004, 02:53 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I would bring 394823048 friends ... very muscular and strong ones .. err .. my cellfone .. a bat .. pepperspray .. knives .. a pistol .. and boots .. to kick him in tha .. er .. PLACE if he ends up to be some murderer dude x] .. i wouldnt go if i were you unless i rEALLY trusted him
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Jun 19 2004, 03:14 AM
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 DysfunktionaL One Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,351 |
Whatever you decide to do...just be safe about it. Bringing a friend with you is definitely a good idea...and yeah, how long have you known this guy?
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Jun 19 2004, 11:47 AM
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scream my lungs out Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,578 |
um...he's 14 and ive known him for like 3-4 months? well, i've seen his pic and we talked on the phone once. i think i can trust him....at least from what i observed so far...
thanks guys. |
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Jun 19 2004, 11:50 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
how well do you know him...where did you meet him...do you TUST him....meet in a public place if you really need to meet him...and yes bringing firends would be very smart. and keep a cell phone handy. you never know...
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Jun 19 2004, 12:18 PM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
don't go, girls get killed all the time by this kind of stuff. people lie so much online..
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Jul 9 2004, 08:15 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO dunt go.
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Jul 9 2004, 09:43 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(amiie @ Jun 17 2004, 10:48 PM) there's this guy i met online and he's asking me out. should i go and meet him? or maybe i should bring a friend or two? Bring an entire Posse. And make sure you are armed to the death. I perfer either Kalashnikovs or Remmington, which are less powerful but more accurate. Also, talk in a Texas or other Wild West accent. It's more intimidating. |
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Jul 9 2004, 10:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,795 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,421 |
QUOTE Bring an entire Posse. And make sure you are armed to the death. I perfer either Kalashnikovs or Remmington, which are less powerful but more accurate. Also, talk in a Texas or other Wild West accent. It's more intimidating. Hahaha, Minda, you're too silly Anyways.. its realli your call.. but you have to be extremely careful and make sure you trust him. Oh and definitely bring friends.. maybe even parents.. |
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Jul 9 2004, 11:16 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
i say talk to the guy for at least 2 years
and them bring a friend to meet him so that everything so cool and also being a friend is better then being alone and meeting him |
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Jul 10 2004, 01:58 AM
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bring a friend or two.. just to be safe
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Jul 10 2004, 03:11 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
now adays...people can be VERY decievng...i don't really think you should...but if you choose to bring LOTS of friends or people you KNOW are strong...you'll never know!
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Jul 10 2004, 03:15 AM
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 rawr Group: Member Posts: 906 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,961 |
He says he's 14, but you never know
 . But if you feel comfortable going to meet him: Bring friends and go to a public place (Mall, Starbucks, etc..)
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Jul 10 2004, 03:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
depends how long u guys met... but i wouldnt yet.. at least bring a friend just incase.
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Jul 10 2004, 09:04 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jul 9 2004, 9:43 PM) Bring an entire Posse. And make sure you are armed to the death. I perfer either Kalashnikovs or Remmington, which are less powerful but more accurate. Also, talk in a Texas or other Wild West accent. It's more intimidating. lmao, wut he said. bring a posse. so if he's not that great, u still have ur friends to lighten up the night |
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Jul 10 2004, 09:24 PM
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bring a guy friend and a girl friend. and met in a public place. if it was me i wouldn't go AT ALL.
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Jul 10 2004, 10:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
eep. i don't really trust the whole "online dating" thingy. I don't trust people who I have not met in person... because they can always send you fake pictures... and tell you false information. they're hiding behind a computer, so you never know.
If you DO meet him, make sure to bring many friends (preferably strong ones- girls AND definitely strong guys), a cell phone to contact the police in case anything goes wrong... Of course meet in the daytime at a well-lit public area... station your friends at different "checkpoints"... for example, if your meeting at a restaurant, have some friends sit at a nearby table to keep an eye on you two... have some friends watch the exits from across teh street, etc. just be really safe and cautious about this whole thing. and no matter what, don't go ANYWHERE alone with him. that's a big no-no. keep within a safe distance from your friends if you have to talk to him in private or something. |
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Jul 10 2004, 11:37 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
DEFINATLY BRING AT LEAST ONE PERSON!!! you have no idea who this guy is and whether or not you can trust him. if you must meet him, bring some people along.
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Jul 11 2004, 02:01 PM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 17 2004, 10:50 PM) how long do you know him? are you sure you could trust him? if i would meet him i would bring 2-3 friends, peppersray, and 911 on speeddial!!! Lol, i actually agree with her |
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Jul 11 2004, 02:05 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 17 2004, 10:50 PM) how long do you know him? are you sure you could trust him? if i would meet him i would bring 2-3 friends, peppersray, and 911 on speeddial!!! I agree. Bring 2 of your closest friends, and a purse containing your cell phone. Just in case he's some crazed psycho. |
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Jul 11 2004, 02:11 PM
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 Lyrical Genius: Watch 4 AND!!! Group: Member Posts: 574 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,616 |
forget friends, if du's packin', what ya'll friends gon' do? try somethin' and then get shot? NOPE, probably not happenin'
not a g'idea |
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Aug 9 2004, 01:00 PM
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QUOTE how long do you know him? are you sure you could trust him? if i would meet him i would bring 2-3 friends, peppersray, and 911 on speeddial!!!
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Aug 9 2004, 02:34 PM
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if you really wanna meet him, i say bring a friend
i think you would feel more comfortable and safer |
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Aug 9 2004, 02:38 PM
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If you are going to meet him, don't go alone and meet somewhere where there are hella people. And uh. yeah.
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Aug 9 2004, 02:40 PM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
If you want to meet him then do it but like everyone is saying bring friends with you and meet somewhere where there are alot of people around. Be careful!
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Aug 9 2004, 04:23 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
He might be a CIA Agent. Be very careful. Capitalists are great at deception.
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Aug 9 2004, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 17 2004, 10:50 PM) how long do you know him? are you sure you could trust him? if i would meet him i would bring 2-3 friends, peppersray, and 911 on speeddial!!! 911 on speed dial?? thats a good idea! i never thought of that! 
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Aug 9 2004, 04:35 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(Azarel @ Aug 9 2004, 2:38 PM) If you are going to meet him, don't go alone and meet somewhere where there are hella people. And uh. yeah. Actually you are MORE likely to get help when attacked if there are fewer people. This is called the Kitty Genovese Syndrome, named after Kitty Genovese, a NYC woman who was brutally murdered in a very busy area. Basically, if you are in an area with a lot of people, EVERYONE will think SOMEONE ELSE will help you and thus will not help you himself. Whereas if you are in an area with very few people around, those people are more likely to take responsiblity themselves. They did an experiemnt where a guy feigned a heart attack in areas with differing amounts of people. The guy was MOST LIKELY to get help when there were the least people around, and LEAST LIKELY to when there were more people. Still, as I said before -- bring a couple Guards with Ski-Masks and Avtomats. |
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Aug 9 2004, 04:43 PM
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if you have talked to that person for a long time, have u seen the persons picture?ever talk to that person on the phone? well if u like that person then bring a few friends,lol 911 on speed dial?lol and a fake perse loaded with a brick!!!!! lol i remember that from 101 dalmations haha. but yea just bring a couple of friends with u and meet up in a public place
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Aug 10 2004, 02:22 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
eeks. assuming you know him well. perhapos sent pics of yourslef to him. bring some friends. but like make them sorta hide. like undercover haha bumbumbumm and make sure its a spot that you`re sorta familiar with.
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Aug 10 2004, 04:58 PM
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 !shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
meet him if you feel you're ready to see the face behind the text.. when you do go meet him..
1. bring an army of friends with you 2. go to a crowded area where everyone can hear your cries for help 3. bring pepperspray 4. bring a ballpoint pen 5. bring a cellphone 6. don't wear revealing clothes i think that's about all the advise i can give for now.. |
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Aug 11 2004, 12:21 AM
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bring A LOT OF PPL! or maybe just like 5 of ur friends and go to a really crowded place...movies..tha mall...bring ur cell fone! lol...dont ever go a lone somehwere alone either....u never kno....he mite be an 45 year old pervert! lol
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Aug 11 2004, 09:20 AM
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bring a friend or 2,take ur mom
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Aug 11 2004, 04:16 PM
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hmm... i wouldnt recommend going... you can never be 100% sure! ppl do lie all the time online..
just be really careful! bring ppl with you and also make sure someone,whos not going with you, knows where ur going to be. sorry to sound all "parental" and stuff, but you should really be safe! : ) |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:23 PM
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im a little sketchy on those kind of people.
if they have to meet people online, then obviously people who have interacted with them face-to-face know theres something up with this guy. i say no. <3 dani |
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Aug 11 2004, 08:03 PM
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 Miggy :) Group: Member Posts: 437 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,164 |
QUOTE(danielle7715 @ Aug 11 2004, 8:23 PM) im a little sketchy on those kind of people. if they have to meet people online, then obviously people who have interacted with them face-to-face know theres something up with this guy. i say no. <3 dani Good point. I say DON'T meet him. You could get hurt and/or killed. You can never be too safe. |
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Aug 11 2004, 08:05 PM
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 aznskylinel2 Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,649 |
911 on speedial ...and bring a security officer just incase
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Aug 14 2004, 02:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
How long have you've known him? Don't take things too fast, relationships like that end up going *ploop!*
And even though if you don't plan to take my advice or what I said, make sure to bring a cellphone and about 50 or more of your friends. LOL. 
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