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[x3viet-behbii]

well me and this guy been off and on and it's like he got with this other girl and i dont kno wut to do..
well i called it off after tat..
he keeps on hurting me and he knows it too.
i jus dont know if i should give him another chance.
i really love him...but i hate how he keeps hurting me...
he says he loves me and all but i still dont kno..

well; this morning he called me at 5 in the damn morning and all of a sudden i heard background noise..im like is there a girl in your room..
well he didnt answer me then finally he said yeah..
he keeps calling like 1000000x!
he called out through the nite and i dont kno wut to do..
i dont want to let him go but all he seems to do is treat me like shyte..
whut do i do?

[*souperstition*]

So this guy keeps going off with other girls, knowing that it bugs you, and you still want to be around him? Even if you really think you love him, this seems like a really unhealthy situation and I'd just get out of it. If just this morning, he was with another girl, it's honestly not worth your effort. It doesn't seem like he's planning on changing anytime soon. =\

[*Michelle*]

Moved to Relationships

If you're hurt by this guy, and you're not willing to be in an open relationship, I'd say let him go. There are other guys out there who would rather be in a serious relationship ^_^ I am DEFINITELY not the type for open relationships, so I would never, ever even have started something with this guy. Try to move on and forget about him, because you'll probably be much happier being with yourself rather than a jerk. :T

[*Moderator*]

Its not worth it to stress over if hes not even taking your feelings into consideration here. You "love" the guy and he supposively "loves" you too. But if he stands by his word, then he wouldn't be running around with all these others chicks. Someone once told me, "If you're not being treated right, don't wait for them to change. Find someone who will treat you right."

[lilsnoopy]

i jus dont know if i should give him another chance.
i really love him...but i hate how he keeps hurting me...

Wow
you know, if this was anyone esle, like a friend, hopefully you would not allow this type of behavior and dicth them.
Its the same for a dude.
Seriously, if you got together with this dude, how long do you think you would last!?!?!?
Go find a dude where you wouldnt even have to ask that question!

[jammylise]

I've almost gotten into a relationship like this.
End it, cut him off immediately.
It leads to NO good.
No matter if he "loves" you or you "love" him.

Not worth it.
and it's not true.

[LimeStickyNotes]

Umm what do you love about him again? Read your first post and tell me why you love him...I think your just used to him. Relationships become like cigarettes smoking. It's hard to let go because you don't know what to do with that time you used to spend smoking. People are usually just attached to the person and confuse it with love.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Hes not worth it, if he really loved you he wouldent be hurting your feelings. Move on and find someone else, I know it might not be the easiest thing to do but its the best.

[Gryffindor-Girl]

well first lay down the law and say I'll give you another chance and then after that if he doesn't respect you dump him. Because if he really loves you he will treat you the way a prince in shinning armor should treats his princess. Trust me there are many fish in the sea and who knows you might find someone that will gives you the respect you deserve. Also from what I have read you could very well be better off with out him especially if he puts you down and makes you feel like you aren't worth his time.