How easily do you get over crushes? Options

[porcelain-00]

So, how attached do you become to your crush(s) And how long was your longest crush? mine is like ... going on a year! but there is somone else who kinda has my heart right now <3
Me and my friend were just wondering about this and just wanted some peoples opinions , including guys because we were wondering if guys get over crushes easier than girls or visa versa

[tokyo-rose]

It depends on the crush, how much I liked him, and how long I liked him for. If I didn't like him that much then it would be easier for me to get over him, and vice versa.

[na-nancy]

to me...
it just depends on who i like...
and how long i've liked them for...
its usually not a year long...just a couple of months, but it still depends on who i have a crush on...=)

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

I dont get crushes, I get smashes!!!

[porcelain-00]

I dont get crushes, I get smashes!!!

[porcelain-00]

I personally chose , it depends on the crush because ive likes some guys who have ended up being jerks! haha

[Jennifer]

I chose "It doesn't matter how long i have a crush for , i dont get over them easily"

It takes me a while to get over anyone

[dustbunny]

if they're crushes, you shouldn't have any true emotional attachments in the first place

[*Girthy*]

crushes dont mean anything to me.
i usually forget about them after a few days or so.
it's the real relationships that are hard to get over.

[silver-rain]

It depends on the crush. Sometimes I go crazy and don't get over them, but if it's a simple/small crush I get over them easily. But, I don't crush easily so I usually fall for the guy I have a crush on...

[lilsnoopy]

ahhh crushes
XD
take out the es...and what do you get? CRUSH

[Saikou]

"It doesn't matter how long i have a crush for , i get over them very easily"

i don't like to dwell on things ,so i could get over them pretty easily

[fugu]

When I was younger I dwelled on every crush like if the guy was the only male human left on earth.

But now, although crushes more often end up with a signifigant other it becomes easier to deal with. Hah, maybe I'm saying this because I'm the person doing the break up most of the time.. Either way I feel like there's a bunch of solutions to getting over crushes or relationships.

[EddieV]

I'm quite scary when I like someone, I'd stick with them till I get a restraining order.

[lilsnoopy]

[quote]
I'm quite scary when I like someone, I'd stick with them till I get a restraining order.
{/quote]

I heart the way you think...you make it so that the dude will never forget who you are =D

[EddieV]

^ um...I am a dude....

[lilsnoopy]

oh
*akward pause*

Well then! I heart the way you think! You make it so the <b>ladies</b> never forget who you are!
^-^"

[TaintedSakura]

hmmm well I had a crush on this guy half of last year and like a week of this year, real bad, but that was only because he was in all of my classes and we talked alot... now I realize what an a-hole he is so yea... lol.

[angelrevelation]

My crushes have ranged from a week long to two years long, and from mild liking to extreme liking. It just depends on the guy and how mature I was/am at the time

[xKatie]

I usually get over them i mean if they don't like me then there is nothing i can do, so I'm not going to dwell on it

[*Moderator*]

My crushes usually last for a few months or more. I've never actually had just a one week crush or something like that.

[LimeStickyNotes]

I get over people so quickly. I usually have like a two-week max. If I really like someone and we are hanging out then it will take longer, but someone that I just crush on...i get over it quickly

[EmoEyelinerx]

It depends on the crush and how long I have liked them for.

The longest I ever had a crush on someone was half a year. I thought he was perfect. We ended up going out though and I relized he was no where near perfect.

[smash]

i never really get over a crush unless i get to know them for a while.

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

if they're crushes, you shouldn't have any true emotional attachments in the first place

^ ^ ^

I have loads of crushes. They really don't mean anything to me.

[nothin]

what the f**k is a crush?

[idalisa]

i get over them very easily, coz i only know their name

[*Sandraaa*]

Aww, but they are meaningless. Wait till you fall in love or develop strong feelings for someone but it doesn't work out between both of you. Try getting over him / her. Good luck.

[shoryuken]

gayy hurr

[xcorphz]

Well yeah same for me I have also experienced puppy love a lot of times but it depends on how I feel for him. I easily get over with it when I feel like I don't have feelings for him no more. It'll just fade away.

[superficial]

It depends on the crush and how long I've liked them for

[*jeanna*]

my longest crush was from 4th grade till 9-10th grade. i got over him because he was such a man-whore.
my biggest crush was 10th-12th. i never even talked to him once. LOL.

horrible.

i got over all of them.
what pisses me off is that my step sister who is 15 has crushes every other week, literally, and makes them her boyfriend of one week then tosses them out [or they dump her:P].

[xlynk8]

It totally depends on what they actually are to me, like if I just knew their name it'd be easier to get over it and if I got to know them then it might take a little longer.

My longest crush was from Kindergarten to 3rd grade and in 8th grade I ended up being his twin's g/f. Ironic.

[sakurarain953]

it totally and utterly depends.

i kinda think of my crushes two ways... the guys that are nice to look at and you have a crush on just so you and your best friend have something girly to talk about, lol, OR the guys you have a crush on cuz you actually can see it going somewhere.

i kinda have a crush on someone right now... and i say kinda because he's really cute, and sweet, and blah blah blah, but i know he's not at the maturity level i need him to be at. i can see the relationship crash and burn already. but he's still fun to hang out with.

My longest crush was about 2 years, on my now ex.

[audory]

i haven't like someone in the longest time.
but when i do finally fall, i fall hard.
i'll move on in a week or so, but they're always in the back of my mind.

[Stumbleine]

NOT AT ALL. lol

[lovescream]

well, if they're just crushes, then it won't take me that long, depending on how longgg i've crushed on them. but i mean, if i really start to fall for them after getting close.. then it'll take longer.

[*jeanna*]

gahhhh, im trying to get over my crush since 2005 on and off.

it's going to be so hard. it's not like he didn't like me, we just never were able to hold a fricken conversation and plus we stopped talking again blah blah. i'm sure he was using me to talk just because everyone wasn't talking to him but now that all his friends are coming back out the blue, he doesn't talk at all.

so, i was sick of being used and i stopped talking to him all together. he's an ass so he probably knows why im not talking to him. he hasn't imed me yet asking why i deleted him and stuff.
he's so cute but i wrote up a list of all the negatives and it helps

[MissHygienic]

I've dated all of my crushes, and once that relationship was over, I've been rather happy about it. I don't know if this counts or not. I'm dating long-term with my last crush, except I'm the psycho-possessive girlfriend who will never let him leave my side, so this will be a crush for eternity.

[livwho]

When I fall, I fall hard.

I get over crushes fairly easily, but not people I've had a relationship with.

[icecreamisyummy]

i still have a crush on the same guy...since i was in 10th grade. only guy ive had a crush on though

[Elleusion]

One of my friends LITERALLY has a new crush every week...

Her first bf, they both fell madly in love, but then my friend moved on but the guy still loved her. The guy is still trying to this day to win my friend back...