i need help on a confusing situation.... help! |
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 Sep 14 2007, 07:07 PM
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sooo , I found out this guy likes me from his best freind but it was over the summer and i never saw him. when school started again , at first i didn't want to go out with him but the idea began to grow on me.... well school just started a few days ago , i have NO classes with him and apparently , he kinda has a gf , but i never see him with her or any girl so he might not.
Ok my REAL question is , do you think i should say hi or maybe smile at him to start? and i am pretty sure he has liked me for monthes , so im curious , do you think he might still have a thing for me? I dont think i have ever talked to him! he is painfully shy. I talked to him over msn , thats it and it was a really short conversation. , so advice? please? hahaaha , how easily do people get over crushes and do i still have a chance with this boy?! 
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Sep 14 2007, 07:09 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
Start off by being friends.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:15 PM
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Well, if hes painfully shy then I think you're the one that needs to spark the conversation. Plan a hang out day with his best friend, your bestfriend and you and him. Break the ice a little. I agree with Kathy, you should start off with a good friendship and get to know him a little more before thinking of anything more.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:15 PM
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Thats what i thought , its just sooo hard to , i mean this guy wont even look at me! i would never have guessed he liked me....
i could be wrong but if i did my calculations and research right he might have liked me for up to 8 months 
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Sep 14 2007, 07:18 PM
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Well if you've never spoke to each other for other a while, then it probably died out. You can try asking his best friend. That always works.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 573,676 |
lol , i actully dont know his bestfreind that well either...
sooo , if you liked somone for monthes , would you get over them easily? haha for me , if i liked my crush for a long time and he smiled at me i would be all over him again but im pretty sure thats just me  lol
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Sep 14 2007, 07:25 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
It really just depends on him. Maybe he moved or maybe he's still hooked on you. Try asking him what time it is or something lol.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 573,676 |
Hmm I could ask what class is next.... or "accidently" bump into him... lol . I have talked to him on msn so i dont think it would be to odd for me to at least flash him a smile and see how he reacts.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:28 PM
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Depends what kind of guy he is. If you guys have never spoke to each other...but then maybe I'm thinking too much. I think you should just smile then look away. The signature move.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 573,676 |
All i know about him is , he is really nice , really shy , very smart and cute and he has liked me no more than 2 months ago....
haha , yah i know not alot |
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Sep 14 2007, 07:40 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
Be like "hey, what time is it" and then smile and say thanks!
ughh idk._. Bumping into him would be too obvious lol. |
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Sep 14 2007, 07:45 PM
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lol not in our school! its so packed you have to actuelly shove people out of the way! i was kinda joking about that though ... the real trouble would be to make eye contact with him , he always looks down or away when im around.
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Sep 14 2007, 07:56 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
Then you better be the one to start the convo cause he's def not going to.
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Sep 14 2007, 08:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 573,676 |
Yah , his freind told my freind to tell me to talk to his freind.
that probibly doesn't make alot of sense lol. but any way yah , his freind told me to talk to him cause he was to shy to talk to me , and hey , if you had a crush wouldn't you want them to talk to you ? |
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Sep 14 2007, 08:14 PM
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This is what I think that you should do...
Just Feel the situation out... Just Smile at him.. Something Small... If you still like the Idea... Make stick a note in his locker... Just saying Hi or something... Just Start out Small... and see where it goes.. :) Best of Luck :) |
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Sep 14 2007, 08:19 PM
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aww , thanks everyone for the advice , I think thats what I am going to do , just take it easy , and try a couple of things , just stuff that implys i like him , not in what way though haha.
I just hope its not to late 
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Sep 15 2007, 01:23 PM
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And you people think he might still like me again?
My freind said that you never really get over somone until you know what its like to be with them , and i was just wondering if you guys think that is true.... I think it is , esspecially if you liked somone for a long time. |
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Sep 15 2007, 02:06 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
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stop being a sissy and talk to this boy get in his face and say hi thats all you need to do seriously its not physics |
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Sep 15 2007, 06:42 PM
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QUOTE(lilsnoopy @ Sep 15 2007, 02:06 PM)  ..... stop being a sissy and talk to this boy get in his face and say hi thats all you need to do seriously its not physics lol yup your pretty much right. |
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Sep 16 2007, 07:05 AM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
this is the general rule nigguh
if he don't bring up his girl n shit, he aint taken oh ya and if u dont see them together too lol its all fair game so suck f**k that nigguhh its all body language, if u bomb and worth it he ain't gunna say SHIT |
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Sep 18 2007, 06:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 573,676 |
Just found out today , his gf broke up with him.
ouch hahaha |
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Sep 18 2007, 08:52 PM
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you should talk to him. like in a friendly way. the guy i kinda like is shy and oblivious, so i'm right there with ya. you just have to be friends first. then start putting on the flirt charm. lol. hopefully your guy isnt as oblivious as teh guy i like.
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