complikated, does he like me?? Options

[xirisx]

well.. me and this boy broke but we do make out and everything but hes always saying remember were just friends and im like WHAT?? just friends what?? after we made out for 5 mins what??? O-M-G!!

even tho were alays kissing and stuff hes always trying to set me up with someone else what does that mean?

around other pple hes always screaming but when were alone hes always like really quiet and holds my hand and stuff so is he just trying to show off infront of his friends or ??

does helike me or ...

im soooo confused i kinda like him but i dont wana go out with him if he dont like me so what do?

[*Michelle*]

Maybe he just thinks of you as a friend with benefits?

You should tell him how you feel, though, so that you can clear things up with him.

[godly]

you're a whore who just got used.

[lilsnoopy]

Really Im surprised your even conteplating over this.
Its painfully obvious, and I bet you already know the answer, but just want to be assured if your correct or not.

He doesnt want you unless hes free from a relationship
he doesnt want one
he just likes the perks it came with

[*Sandraaa*]

He definitely doesn't like you. He's just using you as a test machine till his new found love comes along. Sorry.

[*Uronacid*]

well.. me and this boy broke but we do make out and everything but hes always saying remember were just friends and im like WHAT?? just friends what?? after we made out for 5 mins what??? O-M-G!!

even tho were alays kissing and stuff hes always trying to set me up with someone else what does that mean?

around other pple hes always screaming but when were alone hes always like really quiet and holds my hand and stuff so is he just trying to show off infront of his friends or ??

does helike me or ...

im soooo confused i kinda like him but i dont wana go out with him if he dont like me so what do?

He doesn't like you. He's just using you... In fact, I don't know if I would go that far. You're using yourself. He's actually telling you that you guys are just friends, and you're the idiot who keeps falling for it. You just want him so bad that you're not stopping. Stop making out with him you moron. He likes you so little that he's actually trying to push you onto someone else. Get a clue. I doesn't like you more than a friend... with benefits.

[EmoEyelinerx]

He doesn't like you. He's just using you... In fact, I don't know if I would go that far. You're using yourself. He's actually telling you that you guys are just friends, and you're the idiot who keeps falling for it. You just want him so bad that you're not stopping. Stop making out with him you moron. He likes you so little that he's actually trying to push you onto someone else. Get a clue. I doesn't like you more than a friend... with benefits.

I have to agree, even though that is a little harsh.

[sweetest-emotion]

he might be confused. he may have just done that whole making out buisiness to "size you up". he prolly sees you as a fun make-out partner, nothing more as of right now.
unless you speak up and ask him if he likes you more than a make-out buddy, you're gonna be stuck in this rut. as far as it sounds, he doesn't like you that way. but ask him! he may not know how you're feeling and he may have been scared to go further cuz he may have thought that you only wanted to be make out buddies too!

[Kontroll]

It's called the hook up, my friend.

[nerjalover2007]

well.. me and this boy broke but we do make out and everything but hes always saying remember were just friends and im like WHAT?? just friends what?? after we made out for 5 mins what??? O-M-G!!

even tho were alays kissing and stuff hes always trying to set me up with someone else what does that mean?

around other pple hes always screaming but when were alone hes always like really quiet and holds my hand and stuff so is he just trying to show off infront of his friends or ??

does helike me or ...

im soooo confused i kinda like him but i dont wana go out with him if he dont like me so what do?

1) As the person above me said, your just hooking up.
2) He's probably using you...so if you dont want him to use you stop making out with him.

[xirisx]

your probably rite its just he always hold my hands and puts his arms around me and we always you no the game where you hold hands and your trying to push the other persons hand on the table.. well he always manages to convince me to bet the winner for a kiss and he usually wins soo thats how it happens
but the next day he is always with a group of friends including me and one of them likes me and hes always trying to set us up but hes still puts his arms around me and fiddles with my hands saying their pretty and looks into my eyes for ages but im still not sure if he likes me cuz off the other boy and the sill just friends thing its confusing

[lilsnoopy]

your probably rite its just he always hold my hands and puts his arms around me and we always you no the game where you hold hands and your trying to push the other persons hand on the table.. well he always manages to convince me to bet the winner for a kiss and he usually wins soo thats how it happens
but the next day he is always with a group of friends including me and one of them likes me and hes always trying to set us up but hes still puts his arms around me and fiddles with my hands saying their pretty and looks into my eyes for ages but im still not sure if he likes me cuz off the other boy and the sill just friends thing its confusing

why cant you accept the fact that this dude is manipulating you, and you willingly allow him to demeen yourself even further
-_-"

he's going to leave you wehn he fiunds interest in another girl, and your just going to cry your heart out
your entertainment for him. Why dony you respect yourself and go ot with a dude who clearly likes you, like that one dude you mentioned. At least you know how he feels.

[S-Majere]

Have some self-respect.

Cures anything.

[Dominiloka]

yes. like others have said, he is using you. He isnt getting anything at this moment, and he looking for something to go for. its better that you keep the relationship as just friends. dont go for the kissing or holding hands and stuff.

[Kontroll]

your probably rite its just he always hold my hands and puts his arms around me and we always you no the game where you hold hands and your trying to push the other persons hand on the table.. well he always manages to convince me to bet the winner for a kiss and he usually wins soo thats how it happens
but the next day he is always with a group of friends including me and one of them likes me and hes always trying to set us up but hes still puts his arms around me and fiddles with my hands saying their pretty and looks into my eyes for ages but im still not sure if he likes me cuz off the other boy and the sill just friends thing its confusing

Okay. He's definitely just tryin' to hookup. Dude, I got a friend who does the same thing. He doesn't even like the girl, but he loves to have crazy sex with her. You know who I'm talking about Josh.

I think that it should be a dead give away that he doesn't like you when he tries to set you up with his friends. I mean, at least to me, that's what I'd presume. It only makes sense by 110 percent.

[xirisx]

i hate to say it but your probably rite

ill just stay friends with him for now
thx for all the help

[topsyturvy]

i hate to say it but your probably rite

ill just stay friends with him for now
thx for all the help

I don't think you get the message here..

Break it off completely: stop seeing him, stop making out with him, stop arm wrestling with him, stop staring into his eyes. Don't even hang out with him.

That is if you want to protect and retain your self respect.

Otherwise you'd be "that chick who i totally used and who still talks to me like nothing happened, god she's clueless lol."